Friends husband
confused

Duluth, GA

#1 Feb 28, 2013
My good friends husband is cheating on her. Should I tell my friend? I think I should but I am scared she will stop talking to me.. Maybe I should confront him? I don't know.. Please give opinions. Thanks.

Since: Feb 13

Evansville, IN

#2 Feb 28, 2013
If she stops talking to ya for trying to loom out she aint really a friend! Thats my opinion....

Since: Jun 12

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#3 Feb 28, 2013
Make sure u got proof!!!
fuckyou

Evansville, IN

#4 Feb 28, 2013
confused wrote:
My good friends husband is cheating on her. Should I tell my friend? I think I should but I am scared she will stop talking to me.. Maybe I should confront him? I don't know.. Please give opinions. Thanks.
you should stay out of it . If she doesn't know it's because she's ignoring the signs and if she does know and she's not taking visual/public action then she's handling it in her own way. You telling her would force her into having to take action (which she may not be prepared to do, especially if they have children or if she financially dependent on him in anyway) or make her feel ashamed if she doesn't . As a friend you should stay out of it and be there for her cause she's gonna need you but don't be the one to shatter her world. It will make her feel powerless and she's gonna need all the power she can hold onto. On the other hand you could kick the girls ass he's cheating on her with .. Lol .. I'm sure that could reap a few beneficial results .. Just my take on it.
tell her

Evansville, IN

#5 Feb 28, 2013
you should say hey someone told me your husband was cheating....then the blame is on someone else!
Seriously

Marcus Hook, PA

#6 Feb 28, 2013
I'd step up and say something but would make sure i had proof first. Honesty is the best policy.
proud momma

United States

#7 Feb 28, 2013
i agree make sure u have some kind of proof or theres a good chance she wont believe it because she wont wanna then just be honest nd tell her wats goin on cause if u dnt nd she finds out he did it nd u new about nd hid it from her it could make her mad at u let her no she deserves better then a cheater but u support her no matter wat she decides nd it will be ok
Out of town

Indianapolis, IN

#8 Feb 28, 2013
Do tell her. My best friends wife tried to sleep with me and my girlfriend. I told him, and he was mad for awhile but soon realized I told him because I was a friend.
been there

United States

#9 Feb 28, 2013
In my experience, best thing is to get proof. Then approach him, giving him option to tell her himself and let him know if he doesn't come clean, you'll take the proof to her and let her know yourself. Hoping she gets out of that unhealthy relationship. If she's your friend, I would think it would be hard not to let her know.
Fact is, once a cheater, always a cheater. If she chooses him and quits being friends with you, chalk it up as her loss. Some people are in our life for a season and some for a reason!!

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