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Determined

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Feb 18, 2013
 
My boyfriend soon to be husband constantly acts as if he doesn't care whether I leave or not, I always feel like the one hurt and crying in the end-do guys really just not care or is there a way to get them to show that they do care and express their feelings??
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Williamston, SC

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Feb 18, 2013
 

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If he acted like he cared all the time you'd complain about him acting needy or something. You're all the same only good for one thing.
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Brownsburg, IN

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#3
Feb 18, 2013
 
Where you going? Just keep sucking his d!ck, everything will be ok!
Determined

Evansville, IN

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#4
Feb 18, 2013
 
Ok only men or girls need to respond-not lame little boys
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#5
Feb 18, 2013
 
Words are the easiest way to act like you care. People can throw out the "love you" as easy as throwing out the trash. You shouldn't have to get him to show he cares it should be obvious. If you can't tell if he cares now and you are only dating it will only get worse in the future. Men don't necessarily express their feelings in words, but you should be able to tell whether or not he cares by his ACTIONS or he probably doesn't. Move on to someone that treats you like you want and deserve to be treated. Too often people feel trapped or that they have invested too much time.
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Brownsburg, IN

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#6
Feb 18, 2013
 
Maybe he doesn't care cause he probably has something better on the side, but don't kiss his ass to get his attention. You deserved better so move on!
Determined

Evansville, IN

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#7
Feb 18, 2013
 
I highly doubt better , but I appreciate the advice
Hoodwoman

Brownsburg, IN

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Feb 18, 2013
 

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Put him out in the cold I bet he will care then, unless your not independent.
Determined

Evansville, IN

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Feb 18, 2013
 
I'm independent-he's very very dependent...just hard is all
Hoodwoman

Brownsburg, IN

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#10
Feb 18, 2013
 
Then why deal with it?
proud momma

Evansville, IN

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#11
Feb 18, 2013
 
guys arent really good at sayin how they feel but u should b able to tell by his actions if u cnt see thtat he cares then its probably not there im srry hun but thats the truth
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#12
Feb 18, 2013
 
It won't get any easier! Maybe it is time to see how much you mean to him. Tell him how you feel and see how he responds. Actions and not words will speak volumes to his true feelings.
Determined

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#13
Feb 18, 2013
 
Thanx : )
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#14
Feb 18, 2013
 
Determined wrote:
I'm independent-he's very very dependent...just hard is all
How many years you got together? Maybe you need to check on him, make sure he's not seeing anyone else. Men can be sneaky! Just make sure you have his heart and he has yours.
james

Arlington Heights, IL

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#15
Feb 19, 2013
 
How long have you been on this situation? Why would you even consider getting married if you question this about him?
Determined

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#16
Feb 19, 2013
 
A few months and I love him
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#17
Feb 19, 2013
 
Do what he does right back to him. Get a girlfriend and peace out for hours. Go sopping, smoke a blunt, or get lunch. Pretend like you dont care! Don't be so easy to cry because your tears should only be for important things and a rare occurrence. Treat him how be treats you, and get thicker skin. He might bitch at first but deep down guys love women that are independent and have a little bit of sass. Doormats are boing and only a weak nab wants one around as a mate. And I'm not calling you a doormat sweetie. Good luck! Too bad I don't know ya or we could chill when dude gets out of line.
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Brownsburg, IN

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#18
Feb 19, 2013
 
Determined wrote:
A few months and I love him
You must be crazy, you just been together a few months and marry him cause you love him? Woooow! That's Evansville for you....
yupyup

Evansville, IN

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#19
Feb 19, 2013
 
Well if u have only been together a few months then he probably really doesn't care. U guys haven't been together long enough to really know each other to care that much let alone love each other and get married. Some females r so dumb. That is y the divorce rate is so high cuz dumb ppl getting married a couple months after they meet
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#20
Feb 19, 2013
 
In my 2 chain voice TRUE!!!!!

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