Women who have no morals and sleep wi...

Women who have no morals and sleep with married men

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tramps

Shreveport, LA

#1 Nov 3, 2012
Get your own man it want last
Jimmy del ray

United States

#2 Nov 3, 2012
Name them
Missmissy

United States

#3 Nov 3, 2012
tramps wrote:
Get your own man it want last
The MARRIED. Man is just. As guilty. As she is.
Hahaha

Euless, TX

#4 Nov 4, 2012
The man, if any decency after choosing to do wrong, will never leave the home where his heart resides. You know, that thing the mistress was going for-the heart of "fun". The mistress is just something a man uses to carry out his sexual desires. This in turn keeps his wife from being "worn out". Still no excuse-it's NOT ok to cheat! If you're not ready to settle down, be a man (woman), be honest and don't do it. Don't make babies, just have your fun without being a home wrecker. Leave married people alone! The kids that are in that house suffer more from that ghetto nasty behavior than the one being cheated on, or the one who (may be) suffering from their poor decision making.
Mother Wit

Natchitoches, LA

#5 Nov 5, 2012
A woman who has wound up married to a man has EVERYTHING she needs to keep him happy at home. If she won't avail herself of all her resources, then it's kinda weak and dumb to blame random females for this. You have his heart. He desires you physically. The two of you are (hopefully) on similar wavelengths communication-wise. So wives, don't be lazy and clueless. Keep your man happy, and this will be much less of a problem. Threatening or actually beating up the woman who cheats with him is sending him a message that when he strays, he will suffer no direct repercussions from his cheating. At that point, you're acting like a doting mother to him, NOT his woman. If you keep reminding him of his momma in the marriage, it's gonna kill the mojo groove he has for you. JS. Think about it.
Hahaha

United States

#6 Nov 5, 2012
Mother Wit wrote:
A woman who has wound up married to a man has EVERYTHING she needs to keep him happy at home. If she won't avail herself of all her resources, then it's kinda weak and dumb to blame random females for this. You have his heart. He desires you physically. The two of you are (hopefully) on similar wavelengths communication-wise. So wives, don't be lazy and clueless. Keep your man happy, and this will be much less of a problem. Threatening or actually beating up the woman who cheats with him is sending him a message that when he strays, he will suffer no direct repercussions from his cheating. At that point, you're acting like a doting mother to him, NOT his woman. If you keep reminding him of his momma in the marriage, it's gonna kill the mojo groove he has for you. JS. Think about it.
I see your view, but for a man to go outside of his marriage bc of what his wife "isn't" doing is just selfish. If a man marries a woman, he should only be with her (his wife), and vise versa. For a wife to be threatened, and "beaten up" by the mistress happens too. That's absurd. At least the wife would have a reason to want to do these things, and before the mistress cheats with a husband, she should have an "a$$ whoopin" on her mind. If you don't want a good spanking, don't mess around. Plain and simple. I understand that a woman should satisfy her man, and vise versa; but sex should NOT be the "glue" of holding a marriage together. Their LOVE for one another should hold'em together. Your comment sounds like the view of a ghetto ratchette! I would only blame the female if she knew I was with the person she was messing around with. I would hope to think you would agree.
Mother Wit

Natchitoches, LA

#7 Nov 6, 2012
Hahaha wrote:
<quoted text>I see your view, but for a man to go outside of his marriage bc of what his wife "isn't" doing is just selfish. If a man marries a woman, he should only be with her (his wife), and vise versa. For a wife to be threatened, and "beaten up" by the mistress happens too. That's absurd. At least the wife would have a reason to want to do these things, and before the mistress cheats with a husband, she should have an "a$$ whoopin" on her mind. If you don't want a good spanking, don't mess around. Plain and simple. I understand that a woman should satisfy her man, and vise versa; but sex should NOT be the "glue" of holding a marriage together. Their LOVE for one another should hold'em together. Your comment sounds like the view of a ghetto ratchette! I would only blame the female if she knew I was with the person she was messing around with. I would hope to think you would agree.
I pretty much agree with you that love is what holds marriage together. But God made man such a physical and visual creature, and a good part of your ministry to your husband is physical. As that is attended to properly, the man's love is maintained and even grows for you because you are attentive to his needs. Conversely he must be attentive to your need for security, assurance, provision, protection and so forth.

If a woman marries a man who has to get in the streets who just can't help himself, maybe she should ask herself if this is what she wants for her life in the long term, say 10 to 15 years from now and take action to change her situation. Do you want to give your best years to a man who doesn't care if he hurts you, who brings all this drama to the home the two of you share?

If you choose to stay, be a real woman, be strong, hold your head up and love your man as he is, demanding that he not publicly humiliate you with his cheating; that he be discreet at all times with this awful proclivity of his Try not to be a martyr and don't make a fool of yourself going to fisticuffs with other women, bringing yourself down to their level. What good would that do a woman who is trying to live right.
Quigley

West Monroe, LA

#8 Nov 6, 2012
I've played 'Jodie" a few times and can tell you this. If the woman seems unhappy,it's mostly because the old man don't talk to them. Either too busy or don't care. You can get these women simply by saying the right things and being intrested in what they are about. Not saying it's right,but it happens.
Mother Wit

Natchitoches, LA

#9 Nov 6, 2012
Quigley wrote:
I've played 'Jodie" a few times and can tell you this. If the woman seems unhappy,it's mostly because the old man don't talk to them. Either too busy or don't care. You can get these women simply by saying the right things and being intrested in what they are about. Not saying it's right,but it happens.
That's sad to hear, that a woman enters into a marriage (which is considered by this culture to be epitome of human intimacy) and she finds herself at a loss in how to communicate her need for attention and affection to this man she has married.
forwhatitsworth

Natchitoches, LA

#10 Nov 6, 2012
Shoot, if I was married (which I'm not anymore) and my husband cheated on me, I'm would clean HIS clock, not the tramp he took up with. I couldn't care less about her, she isn't who took vows with me. And any woman who takes up with a married man, well, you get what you deserve, which is usually nothing. No, my husband never cheated on me but this would be my attitude if he had. And he knew it!
not just a mistress

United States

#11 Nov 6, 2012
Quigley wrote:
I've played 'Jodie" a few times and can tell you this. If the woman seems unhappy,it's mostly because the old man don't talk to them. Either too busy or don't care. You can get these women simply by saying the right things and being intrested in what they are about. Not saying it's right,but it happens.
You are exactly right. I got my own Jodie for that very reason. Somewhere along the way he became more than just a Jodie and we have been together for 10 years. We love each other very much but because of our kids we stay with our spouses. One day those kids will all be grown and we intend to make a life together then. Our respective partners at one point or another have found out about us but it has never kept us apart.
Mother Wit

Natchitoches, LA

#12 Nov 6, 2012
not just a mistress wrote:
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You are exactly right. I got my own Jodie for that very reason. Somewhere along the way he became more than just a Jodie and we have been together for 10 years. We love each other very much but because of our kids we stay with our spouses. One day those kids will all be grown and we intend to make a life together then. Our respective partners at one point or another have found out about us but it has never kept us apart.
If we are married people, only God and the spouses he put us with are in a position to judge the morality of our choices. However:

The situation you describe above sounds like what my dear departed mother would call "a pot getting ready to boil over" (especially since you say each of your spouses know) You hear about these types of settings gone very wrong on Discovery ID Channel (and real life!) all the time. And if the spouses know, there is a danger the children will find out, and you'll have a heck of a time preaching a sermon to a teenaged daughter or son on sexual purity, as you lay reclined on your lover's bed. You could lose your children's respect for you if they find all, that's all. JS.
not just a mistress

United States

#13 Nov 6, 2012
Mother Wit wrote:
<quoted text>If we are married people, only God and the spouses he put us with are in a position to judge the morality of our choices. However:

The situation you describe above sounds like what my dear departed mother would call "a pot getting ready to boil over" (especially since you say each of your spouses know) You hear about these types of settings gone very wrong on Discovery ID Channel (and real life!) all the time. And if the spouses know, there is a danger the children will find out, and you'll have a heck of a time preaching a sermon to a teenaged daughter or son on sexual purity, as you lay reclined on your lover's bed. You could lose your children's respect for you if they find all, that's all. JS.
You are right in a lot of ways. Our spouses at different times did find out but never knew how long we had been together at those times and both believe we stopped seeing each other immediately. They do not know its still going on. Neither one of us wanted them to know and we also don't want them hurt because of what we have done. We are just two people that love one another and are wiling to have things the way they are to keep our families from being hurt. I love my children very much and their opinion of me means everything. I am very close to them and hope one day they can understand if it ever comes to that. I guess I just wanted people to know not all affairs are dirty and trashy,that sometimes love really is involved. I will never say what I have done is not wrong and I will also never, no matter how much I love him, put the relationship I have with him above my children. He feels the same way about his kids. I just know that some day I would really love to know what it's like to share my entire life with my soul mate.
Mother Wit

Natchitoches, LA

#14 Nov 6, 2012
not just a mistress wrote:
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You are right in a lot of ways. Our spouses at different times did find out but never knew how long we had been together at those times and both believe we stopped seeing each other immediately. They do not know its still going on. Neither one of us wanted them to know and we also don't want them hurt because of what we have done. We are just two people that love one another and are wiling to have things the way they are to keep our families from being hurt. I love my children very much and their opinion of me means everything. I am very close to them and hope one day they can understand if it ever comes to that. I guess I just wanted people to know not all affairs are dirty and trashy,that sometimes love really is involved. I will never say what I have done is not wrong and I will also never, no matter how much I love him, put the relationship I have with him above my children. He feels the same way about his kids. I just know that some day I would really love to know what it's like to share my entire life with my soul mate.
Your honesty is impressive; just remember that different things can happen to change the shading of this picture. For example either of your spouses could get involved in an affair and have a different agenda from yours. If your husband got involved in an affair,(fell in love as you say you did with your paramour)and decided he wanted out of the marriage so he could be with his soul mate, that would set circumstances in motion that you have very little control over. JS.
not just a mistress

United States

#15 Nov 6, 2012
Mother Wit wrote:
<quoted text>Your honesty is impressive; just remember that different things can happen to change the shading of this picture. For example either of your spouses could get involved in an affair and have a different agenda from yours. If your husband got involved in an affair,(fell in love as you say you did with your paramour)and decided he wanted out of the marriage so he could be with his soul mate, that would set circumstances in motion that you have very little control over. JS.
If that were to happen I would have no hard feelings about it and would wish him happiness. While I'm not in love with him I have lived a life with him and our kids bond us in a special way. If you saw us you would think we had a good marriage. We don't fuss and fight. I have no reason to wish him anything but good things in his life. I really wish my feeling for him were different but they just are not.
Mother Wit

United States

#16 Nov 7, 2012
not just a mistress wrote:
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If that were to happen I would have no hard feelings about it and would wish him happiness. While I'm not in love with him I have lived a life with him and our kids bond us in a special way. If you saw us you would think we had a good marriage. We don't fuss and fight. I have no reason to wish him anything but good things in his life. I really wish my feeling for him were different but they just are not.
Okay, so you say if he left you, you would wish him every happiness. The man fell in love with you one day and made you his wife. Why is it less important that he have happiness in the present? He is sleeping next to a woman who doesn't love him and doesn't want him (I think that's you, given the narrative you've provided) Can he only have happiness if you get what you want (the man you're having the affair with) That doesn't seem like love to me. That doesn't even seem like a good friendship. You say the two of you look like the perfect couple when you're out in public. How do you pull that off, when your heart your soul and your body belongs to another? It could still work out, I guess. People have open marriages in Europe. Maybe it's caught on here, and I'm just now finding out.
not just a mistress

United States

#17 Nov 7, 2012
Mother Wit wrote:
<quoted text>Okay, so you say if he left you, you would wish him every happiness. The man fell in love with you one day and made you his wife. Why is it less important that he have happiness in the present? He is sleeping next to a woman who doesn't love him and doesn't want him (I think that's you, given the narrative you've provided) Can he only have happiness if you get what you want (the man you're having the affair with) That doesn't seem like love to me. That doesn't even seem like a good friendship. You say the two of you look like the perfect couple when you're out in public. How do you pull that off, when your heart your soul and your body belongs to another? It could still work out, I guess. People have open marriages in Europe. Maybe it's caught on here, and I'm just now finding out.
I have never said his happiness isn't important. Not just for him but our children as well. If I didn't care about that I wouldn't have worked so hard these last 10 years to keep him from being hurt by my actions. I also didn't say we look like a perfect couple. We just look like any other married couple that are comfortable with each other. If I have to hurt him to " have my way" as you put it I probably keep things as they are. It has never been my intention to hurt anyone ( both sides).

I also believe if you were to ask him he would tell you he is happy.
Matt

Memphis, TN

#18 Nov 7, 2012
this topic got way off course as usual.lol
Mother Wit

Natchitoches, LA

#19 Nov 7, 2012
Matt wrote:
this topic got way off course as usual.lol
Do you think that because no one's reputation is being sullied or no specific women are being called such endearing names as "H*E"?
Jake

Granada Hills, CA

#20 Nov 12, 2012
Because they have No morals, No values, No fear of STDs or AIDS. Things in their brain do not process like a normal person. Some women will be like this into their granny days. Sad part is these type of women if they get a disease will not tell you. For they are only looking for their next fix of sex.

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