TpS

Ponte Vedra Beach, FL

#1 Jan 26, 2013
I've read so many post about people talking about the fathers of their children being dead beats and not paying, they should shoulder some financial responsibility for their children, but to the mothers of those children. Here's an easy solution for your woes. USE CONDOMS!!! I know, crazy idea, but they work. Stop putting all the responsibility on the fathers. You made the choice to not use protection, I seriously doubt they put a gun to your head and forced you to have sex without one.
For the fathers, wrap it up. If you can't support a child, then don't make one. And choose the mother of your children more carefully.
Mac-truck

United States

#2 Jan 26, 2013
People have babies so they can get free money from the government.
self help

Natchitoches, LA

#3 Jan 27, 2013
Mac-truck wrote:
People have babies so they can get free money from the government.
I don’t believe the help from the government because you have kids allows one to live very well – not even close, and besides you have to put up with the little bastards for a long time. I think swift just happens especially if you are stupid.
wise

Natchitoches, LA

#4 Feb 3, 2013
TpS wrote:
I've read so many post about people talking about the fathers of their children being dead beats and not paying, they should shoulder some financial responsibility for their children, but to the mothers of those children. Here's an easy solution for your woes. USE CONDOMS!!! I know, crazy idea, but they work. Stop putting all the responsibility on the fathers. You made the choice to not use protection, I seriously doubt they put a gun to your head and forced you to have sex without one.
For the fathers, wrap it up. If you can't support a child, then don't make one. And choose the mother of your children more carefully.
just be a man and stand up to the plate.
Well

Natchitoches, LA

#5 Feb 4, 2013
wise wrote:
<quoted text>just be a man and stand up to the plate.
Good desireable women are waiting for these kind of men to make it known they ar still around. The old adage is true: Boys and girls run away, men and women STEP UP.
TpS

Natchitoches, LA

#6 Feb 7, 2013
wise wrote:
<quoted text>just be a man and stand up to the plate.
I would, but considering I'm a woman I can't stand up to the plate as a man. I agree that if you make a child you should step up, man and woman. I'm just sick of hearing women complain and bitch about their "baby daddies", be smart about who you give yourself to. If you know the person has 3 other children with three different people, RUN far, far away. Same for women, men if you know the woman has children for more than one man, then don't get involved.
As for the women who complain about them not paying for their child, well choose a man that actually takes his responsibilities seriously. Don't pick a guy that has never held a steady job. If you do have a child with one of these people, don't be surprised when they run in the opposite direction. Men are not wholly responsible for the financial burden of a child. It's our job to help pay for them, considering they are half ours.
TpS

Natchitoches, LA

#7 Feb 7, 2013
self help wrote:
<quoted text>
I don’t believe the help from the government because you have kids allows one to live very well – not even close, and besides you have to put up with the little bastards for a long time. I think swift just happens especially if you are stupid.
I think people just don't care about protection anymore, that's why Louisiana has the 1st and 2nd highest rates for STD's and one of the highest rates for unwed teenage parents. Which is stupid, but not only their fault. Their parents should have taught them better.

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