looking for a nice girl to talk to or hang out

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oncebitten

United States

#1 Mar 11, 2012
Im on my way to a divorce and really don't know where to go from here with my life. Just looking for someone that's been through the same situation. Someone just to talk to or go out for dinner... just a friend.
be real

Shreveport, LA

#2 Mar 11, 2012
oncebitten wrote:
Im on my way to a divorce and really don't know where to go from here with my life. Just looking for someone that's been through the same situation. Someone just to talk to or go out for dinner... just a friend.
are you from round here.
oncebitten

United States

#3 Mar 12, 2012
Born and raised in this area
Guest

Natchitoches, LA

#4 Mar 12, 2012
If you're looking for a real nice girl, hold off on your search until you've dispatched of the divorce proceedings with your wife. Otherwise, drama ahead.
twice shy

United States

#5 Mar 12, 2012
There is a few of us good women out here ! I myself am going through a divorce after 11 years of marriage , and it has its ups and downs after all loneliness is terrible .. Let's have lunch !
oncebitten

United States

#6 Mar 12, 2012
twice shy wrote:
There is a few of us good women out here ! I myself am going through a divorce after 11 years of marriage , and it has its ups and downs after all loneliness is terrible .. Let's have lunch !
I agree, some days are really good but then other days I feel like im going crazy. Im tired of being lonely. Even when im around friends and family its always the same. Can we make that dinner? You see, I work out of town but will explain more of that later. Name a place, time, and night and maybe we can work out the details.
Trucker

Negreet, LA

#7 Mar 12, 2012
Take your wife out to dinner and maybe you wouldnt be going threw a divorce, Im just saying
Trucker

Negreet, LA

#8 Mar 12, 2012
what ever you do dont get hooked up with any of them Kay girls , you think you got it bad now .
oncebitten

United States

#9 Mar 12, 2012
Trucker wrote:
what ever you do dont get hooked up with any of them Kay girls , you think you got it bad now .
My wife has made it clear to me that she no longer wants to even try to work things out. We don't even speak to each other. She isn't even in this area now.
be real

Shreveport, LA

#10 Mar 12, 2012
oncebitten wrote:
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My wife has made it clear to me that she no longer wants to even try to work things out. We don't even speak to each other. She isn't even in this area now.
who are you you just cant be hooking up with people you dont no you only looking for trouble.
oncebitten

United States

#11 Mar 12, 2012
be real wrote:
<quoted text>who are you you just cant be hooking up with people you dont no you only looking for trouble.
Im not "hooking up" with anyone. Im just looking for someone that has been through or going through the same things I am. Just a friend to do something with. Can't a guy just want to enjoy the company of the opposite sex without everyone thinking that he's only after one thing??? Sometimes its good to hear someone else's point of view. Sometimes it helps make things easier when you can listen to someone else's problems.
twice shy

United States

#12 Mar 13, 2012
oncebitten wrote:
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I agree, some days are really good but then other days I feel like im going crazy. Im tired of being lonely. Even when im around friends and family its always the same. Can we make that dinner? You see, I work out of town but will explain more of that later. Name a place, time, and night and maybe we can work out the details.
that would be nice to have friend that can relate to feeling lonley , I'm definatly up for a dinner date with ya , I read the comment from someone about meeting someone you don't know , life is full of chances some good , some bad who knows ! Life is all what u make out of it ...I think I stand a better chance of going on a blind date and meeting a good friend as taking a chance on getting shot or some of the other craziness in natchitoches parish Now is the hard part do you have a email adress ? So we can get our dinner lined up without everyone knowing where we going ?? Lol
whatif

Shreveport, LA

#13 Mar 13, 2012
What if twiceshy actually turned out to be oncebitten's wife...? Lol.... Please update us all on the dinner date!
Guest

Tatum, TX

#14 Mar 13, 2012
oncebitten wrote:
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Im not "hooking up" with anyone. Im just looking for someone that has been through or going through the same things I am. Just a friend to do something with. Can't a guy just want to enjoy the company of the opposite sex without everyone thinking that he's only after one thing??? Sometimes its good to hear someone else's point of view. Sometimes it helps make things easier when you can listen to someone else's problems.
Yes, a single guy can, but you're not single...YET. The fact that you're still married is a big complication in a possible friendship with a woman. Look, all some of us are saying is that you're not legally divorced from your wife yet, so bringing another female into the mix is just asking for trouble. Don't you have family or friends you can talk to? A pastor at your church? How about a counselor? I'm telling you, the way you're approaching women with this post, even you say you just want to be friends, women are always looking for boyfriends here. Even women who have husbands. It would be real easy for a messy misunderstanding to crop up. If your lunch friend makes a pass at you, are you gonna refuse? Probably not. Just be honest. Don't lie to yourself about your true motives.
be real

United States

#15 Mar 13, 2012
twice shy wrote:
<quoted text> that would be nice to have friend that can relate to feeling lonley , I'm definatly up for a dinner date with ya , I read the comment from someone about meeting someone you don't know , life is full of chances some good , some bad who knows ! Life is all what u make out of it ...I think I stand a better chance of going on a blind date and meeting a good friend as taking a chance on getting shot or some of the other craziness in natchitoches parish Now is the hard part do you have a email adress ? So we can get our dinner lined up without everyone knowing where we going ?? Lol
bitch you is stupid an got a child mine.
ice

Alexandria, LA

#16 Mar 13, 2012
oncebitten wrote:
Im on my way to a divorce and really don't know where to go from here with my life. Just looking for someone that's been through the same situation. Someone just to talk to or go out for dinner... just a friend.
First of all you are starting off wrong looking on topix. If you want a nice, respectable lady get off of here and go somewhere else. When you look you find, most of the time trash. Take your time and choose carefully, not on here
oncebitten

United States

#17 Mar 13, 2012
Thank you all for your concern maybe im not ready for this dating thing just yet. I know that it will take awhile to get over losing her. I was just looking for someone to talk to and go out and take my mind off of things but I really don't need to complicate things anymore than they already are. I still haven't given up on our marriage and that alone should make me think twice about taking another woman out. When you've been put in my situation you tend to go to the extremes and do or say things that you normally wouldn't. Im sorry twice shy but let's put this off for awhile. Maybe in a few months I will no more about where I am in life and ask you out on here again. I need to do some soul searching
Tired

Winnfield, LA

#18 Mar 13, 2012
Avoid fat bitches who work for the state!
Guest

Rushville, IN

#19 Mar 14, 2012
whatif wrote:
What if twiceshy actually turned out to be oncebitten's wife...? Lol.... Please update us all on the dinner date!
LOL! Oh, like in the Pina Colada Song! That would be messy, wouldn't it????
oncebitten

Mena, AR

#20 Mar 14, 2012
No actually I think it would be pretty cool for us to reconnect like that. It might would be just the kind of over the top thing that would bring us back together

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