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itsme

Bowling Green, KY

#1 Aug 9, 2012
Does anyone know what it feels like not to be wanted by anyone, no one wants anything to do with you at all because you are so quiet & don't know how to talk to people.
Me

United States

#2 Aug 9, 2012
itsme wrote:
Does anyone know what it feels like not to be wanted by anyone, no one wants anything to do with you at all because you are so quiet & don't know how to talk to people.
You have to be ok with yourself first and love yourself and not worry about what other people think of you. You just have to know that you are special.
itsme

Bowling Green, KY

#3 Aug 9, 2012
Me wrote:
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You have to be ok with yourself first and love yourself and not worry about what other people think of you. You just have to know that you are special.
I do love myself and I have done some bad things I wish I could talk about to the one I need to so they would understand me better. I don't think I am special to anyone, never have been.
Me

United States

#4 Aug 9, 2012
itsme wrote:
<quoted text>I do love myself and I have done some bad things I wish I could talk about to the one I need to so they would understand me better. I don't think I am special to anyone, never have been.
We have all done bad this in life that sometimes hurt people. Noone is perfect. But you have to know that your are truly special no matter what mistakes you've made. You are special because you're uniquely you and there's noone out like YOU. But if you don't think you're special chances are noone else will either. It has to start with you:)
itsme

Bowling Green, KY

#5 Aug 9, 2012
Yes but I have not been one to hurt people in anyway, I know that I didn't do it for meaness or to be selfish, I had so much going on at one time & was being pulled into many different directions that I didn't know what was what anymore. I know what was done is done & I shouldn't keep letting that hold me back. Things have certainly calmed down better in my life, but there are just a few things I would like to know to help me let go of certain things, it is very important for me. I honor certain things in my life & about myself that are who I really am. It is the way I have always been.
Me

United States

#6 Aug 9, 2012
itsme wrote:
Yes but I have not been one to hurt people in anyway, I know that I didn't do it for meaness or to be selfish, I had so much going on at one time & was being pulled into many different directions that I didn't know what was what anymore. I know what was done is done & I shouldn't keep letting that hold me back. Things have certainly calmed down better in my life, but there are just a few things I would like to know to help me let go of certain things, it is very important for me. I honor certain things in my life & about myself that are who I really am. It is the way I have always been.
Well all you can do is reach out to the person you hurt and explain what you were going through at the time, apologize, and hopefully they understand. If not then there's not alot you can do besides make peace with yourself and move on. How old are you? M or F?
itsme

Bowling Green, KY

#7 Aug 9, 2012
I have tried to reach out & they won't listen, I can't stand the thought of knowing someone may possibly hate me, I have never had anyone hate me. I am female in my 30's. I know life is short & things can happen in the blink of an eye, I would hate not knowing the real truth if I were to die or to have this other person have it on their conscious. I don't think they see it like that.
Me

United States

#8 Aug 9, 2012
itsme wrote:
I have tried to reach out & they won't listen, I can't stand the thought of knowing someone may possibly hate me, I have never had anyone hate me. I am female in my 30's. I know life is short & things can happen in the blink of an eye, I would hate not knowing the real truth if I were to die or to have this other person have it on their conscious. I don't think they see it like that.
Without knowing the situation I can only give you a strangers perspective. I'm a male in my 30's as well and from a guys perspective if he doesn't want to listen then there's not a whole lot you can do and you probably only make the situation worse if you keep trying to force him to. Just make peace with yourself and know that you've done all that you could to make things right and give him some time/space. If he values you he will come back around. The important thing is you have to be at peace a forgive yourself first and the rest will be what it will be.
itsme

Bowling Green, KY

#10 Aug 9, 2012
I haven't tried to force him it's been months since we spoke. I have given him his space, but I do wonder if he ever did value me or anyone I was close to. He stated at one time I must have not known him to good. Well when someone makes a promise to you then you expect them to keep it just as I kept the promises I made, so how can you really know someone that refuses to explain anything and chooses to ignore it all, but still expects you to believe them?
Sam

Hendersonville, TN

#11 Aug 9, 2012
Yall need to get a room
Me

United States

#12 Aug 9, 2012
itsme wrote:
I haven't tried to force him it's been months since we spoke. I have given him his space, but I do wonder if he ever did value me or anyone I was close to. He stated at one time I must have not known him to good. Well when someone makes a promise to you then you expect them to keep it just as I kept the promises I made, so how can you really know someone that refuses to explain anything and chooses to ignore it all, but still expects you to believe them?
Sounds like you will probably just have to let it be.
itsme

Bowling Green, KY

#13 Aug 9, 2012
True.
Me

United States

#14 Aug 9, 2012
itsme wrote:
True.
You got an email address?
itsme

Bowling Green, KY

#15 Aug 9, 2012
what is your email?
itsme

Bowling Green, KY

#17 Aug 9, 2012
I do have this feeling that when me & this person split he had feelings for someone else because he told me had been speaking with them while we were together. I never talked to any of my ex's while I was with him.
Me

United States

#18 Aug 9, 2012
itsme wrote:
I do have this feeling that when me & this person split he had feelings for someone else because he told me had been speaking with them while we were together. I never talked to any of my ex's while I was with him.
Then that's probably exactly what it is but you can't let his actions define your self worth.
itsme

Bowling Green, KY

#20 Aug 9, 2012
sorry 5904 not 5409
Wrong

El Monte, CA

#21 Aug 11, 2012
No, you don't get a pass from peopl you screwed over. You deserve to be hated by that person and they don't want to hear about why you did what you did. Promises mean something. Move on and learn something from this but leave the other person alone cause they are busy being with people they can trust. You deserve to feel like a scumbag

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#22 Aug 12, 2012
Life goes on
Annonymous

Nashville, TN

#23 Aug 12, 2012
You sound like you might be my ex

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