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Truth

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Jul 29, 2013
 

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It's not you, it's him.

•Lies when it is very easy to tell the truth.
•Lies to get sympathy, to look better, to save their butt, etc.
•Fools people at first but once they get to know him, no one believes anything they ever say.
•May have a personality disorder.
•Extremely manipulative.
•Has been caught in lies repeatedly.
•Never fesses up to the lies.
•Is a legend in their own mind.
•Exaggerates things that are ridiculous.
•One-upping. Whatever you do, this person can do it better. You will never top them in their own mind, because they have a concerted need to be better than everyone else. This also applies to being right. If you try to confront an individual like this, no matter how lovingly and well-intentioned you might be - this will probably not be effective. It's threatening their fantasy of themselves, so they would rather argue with you and bring out the sharp knives than admit that there's anything wrong with them.
•They "construct" a reality around themselves. They don't value the truth, especially if they don't see it as hurting anyone. If you call them on a lie and they are backed into a corner, they will act very defensively and say ugly things (most likely but depends on personality), but they may eventually start to act like, "Well, what's the difference? You're making a big deal out of nothing!" (again, to refocus the conversation to your wrongdoing instead of theirs).
•Because these people don't value honesty, a lot of times they will not value loyalty. So watch what you tell them. They will not only tell others, but they will embellish to make you look worse. Their loyalty is fleeting, and because they are insecure people, they will find solace in confiding to whomever is in their favor at the moment.
•They may be somewhat of a hypochondriac. This can come in especially useful when caught in a lie, for example, they can claim that they have been sick, or that there's some mysteriously "illness" that has them all stressed out. It's another excuse tool for their behavior.
•Obviously, they will contradict what they say. This will become very clear over time. They usually aren't smart enough to keep track of so many lies (who would be?).
Truthteller

Nashville, TN

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Nov 7, 2013
 
Truth wrote:
It's not you, it's him.
•Lies when it is very easy to tell the truth.
•Lies to get sympathy, to look better, to save their butt, etc.
•Fools people at first but once they get to know him, no one believes anything they ever say.
•May have a personality disorder.
•Extremely manipulative.
•Has been caught in lies repeatedly.
•Never fesses up to the lies.
•Is a legend in their own mind.
•Exaggerates things that are ridiculous.
•One-upping. Whatever you do, this person can do it better. You will never top them in their own mind, because they have a concerted need to be better than everyone else. This also applies to being right. If you try to confront an individual like this, no matter how lovingly and well-intentioned you might be - this will probably not be effective. It's threatening their fantasy of themselves, so they would rather argue with you and bring out the sharp knives than admit that there's anything wrong with them.
•They "construct" a reality around themselves. They don't value the truth, especially if they don't see it as hurting anyone. If you call them on a lie and they are backed into a corner, they will act very defensively and say ugly things (most likely but depends on personality), but they may eventually start to act like, "Well, what's the difference? You're making a big deal out of nothing!" (again, to refocus the conversation to your wrongdoing instead of theirs).
•Because these people don't value honesty, a lot of times they will not value loyalty. So watch what you tell them. They will not only tell others, but they will embellish to make you look worse. Their loyalty is fleeting, and because they are insecure people, they will find solace in confiding to whomever is in their favor at the moment.
•They may be somewhat of a hypochondriac. This can come in especially useful when caught in a lie, for example, they can claim that they have been sick, or that there's some mysteriously "illness" that has them all stressed out. It's another excuse tool for their behavior.
•Obviously, they will contradict what they say. This will become very clear over time. They usually aren't smart enough to keep track of so many lies (who would be?).
How true you are on this and this especially takes place in the work place especially here in Nashville TN.Every employer where I have been employed at has a bnch of little "cliques"where they lie and manipulate in order to make one look bad especially when the one has the most education and experience over these pathological liars.There is a hotel on West End that employed such an individual who held the rank as Director of Security whom did not even have a high school diploma and to make the manners worse several of their security officers didn't even have the required licenses to be security guards in the state of Tennessee,and these individuals were appointed to protect people?Hpwever,the qualified officers were always scrutinized and talked about and are given the worst assignments ever just to appease the rumor spreaders,but KARMA has a way to come around and it is quite enjoyable to see it unforld.Thanks again for this ever so true post!!!
Justice

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Nov 9, 2013
 
If you want to hear some lies, go into a courtroom, lawyers, judges, d a's, all habitual liars.
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Nov 14, 2013
 
Truth wrote:
It's not you, it's him.
•Lies when it is very easy to tell the truth.
•Lies to get sympathy, to look better, to save their butt, etc.
•Fools people at first but once they get to know him, no one believes anything they ever say.
•May have a personality disorder.
•Extremely manipulative.
•Has been caught in lies repeatedly.
•Never fesses up to the lies.
•Is a legend in their own mind.
•Exaggerates things that are ridiculous.
•One-upping. Whatever you do, this person can do it better. You will never top them in their own mind, because they have a concerted need to be better than everyone else. This also applies to being right. If you try to confront an individual like this, no matter how lovingly and well-intentioned you might be - this will probably not be effective. It's threatening their fantasy of themselves, so they would rather argue with you and bring out the sharp knives than admit that there's anything wrong with them.
•They "construct" a reality around themselves. They don't value the truth, especially if they don't see it as hurting anyone. If you call them on a lie and they are backed into a corner, they will act very defensively and say ugly things (most likely but depends on personality), but they may eventually start to act like, "Well, what's the difference? You're making a big deal out of nothing!" (again, to refocus the conversation to your wrongdoing instead of theirs).
•Because these people don't value honesty, a lot of times they will not value loyalty. So watch what you tell them. They will not only tell others, but they will embellish to make you look worse. Their loyalty is fleeting, and because they are insecure people, they will find solace in confiding to whomever is in their favor at the moment.
•They may be somewhat of a hypochondriac. This can come in especially useful when caught in a lie, for example, they can claim that they have been sick, or that there's some mysteriously "illness" that has them all stressed out. It's another excuse tool for their behavior.
•Obviously, they will contradict what they say. This will become very clear over time. They usually aren't smart enough to keep track of so many lies (who would be?).
sad but true.
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Nov 23, 2013
 

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Liars can set the world at war and destroy lives with their tounge. most couldn't care less how many lives they destroy.
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The worst part is that a woman can get caught in a lie and still get pitty and no recourse for her lies.
W H B

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Dec 16, 2013
 
sounds like that tramp whitney wiser.
W H B

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Dec 16, 2013
 
Think of the idiots that believe everything the say.
Triump

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Dec 27, 2013
 
Yep
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Jan 24, 2014
 

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W H B wrote:
sounds like that tramp whitney wiser.
Just because she gang bangs and pulls trains surely doesn't make it a tramp. Habitual Liar but surely not a tramp.
Fred

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Jan 31, 2014
 
judge steve dozier lies continuously.
Bill Of Rights

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Feb 1, 2014
 
Justice wrote:
If you want to hear some lies, go into a courtroom, lawyers, judges, d a's, all habitual liars.
they are like obama, they use the Constitution for toilett paper.

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