why do men have to cheat

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riding dirty

Nashville, TN

#1 Feb 9, 2013
Men say they love u but as soon as they get a chance they cheat.
tom

United States

#2 Feb 10, 2013
Woman say and do the same thing.
riding dirty

Nashville, TN

#3 Feb 10, 2013
tom wrote:
Woman say and do the same thing.
That is true I would rather him break up with me then to sleep with another woman while we are suppose to be a couple heart is breaking

Since: Feb 13

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#4 Feb 10, 2013
riding dirty wrote:
<quoted text>That is true I would rather him break up with me then to sleep with another woman while we are suppose to be a couple heart is breaking
I feel the same way. I cannot stand a liar or a thief. What do they accomplish by getting away with it? Is it the satisfaction of hurting someone they say they love or is it just they are never satisfied with what they have? Does he know you know about the affair?
Montgumtye

Grand Prairie, TX

#5 Feb 10, 2013
IamJane72 wrote:
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I feel the same way. I cannot stand a liar or a thief. What do they accomplish by getting away with it? Is it the satisfaction of hurting someone they say they love or is it just they are never satisfied with what they have? Does he know you know about the affair?
Everyone,aND I MEAN EVERYONE, that has ever told me, "they cannot stand a liar or a theif", have always been the biggest ones on the face of the Earth,

Since: Feb 13

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#6 Feb 10, 2013
Montgumtye wrote:
<quoted text>Everyone,aND I MEAN EVERYONE, that has ever told me, "they cannot stand a liar or a theif", have always been the biggest ones on the face of the Earth,
I'm sorry you associate yourself with those kinds of people. I'm glad I don't fit into your 'everyone' category.
Daddys lesson

United States

#7 Feb 10, 2013
If their dad's and uncles cheat, so will they. They watch their mothers let their husbands cheat and come back and they think it's how you treat women. Stand up for yourself and don't let him back in to do it again
What

Knoxville, TN

#8 Feb 10, 2013
What is this
2 cool 4u

United States

#9 Feb 11, 2013
I'm a man.. and girls plz I dont do this never had to. I'm single but never key what someone else does ruin it for the next one. People are just the way they are and u have to break-in the cycle ur in and find someone that will be good to u and is settled in their ways and dont have to be with 3 girls at a time to be satisfied..
2 cool 4u

United States

#10 Feb 11, 2013
I find it hard to find honesty sometimes I guess because I'm a musician but still I jeep looking for that especial one to share my life with. If u think u fit this description leave a message. Hay u never know we might before really good friends. Or maybe more..
riding dirty

Nashville, TN

#11 Feb 11, 2013
IamJane72 wrote:
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I feel the same way. I cannot stand a liar or a thief. What do they accomplish by getting away with it? Is it the satisfaction of hurting someone they say they love or is it just they are never satisfied with what they have? Does he know you know about the affair?
no he doesn't but I just moved out of my house I just told him it was over. He can have everything after she slept in my bed we paid for.

“It was only just a song”

Since: Jan 13

Location hidden

#12 Feb 12, 2013
riding dirty, know the feeling all too well.. The song you are looking for is the bed you made for me , by highway 101 give it a listen, seems fitting for ya... I sang it for years, and never dreamed it would happen to me someday. Although ours was a waterbed, and when I left , I filled it full of pin needles, so maybe they went swimming the next time , they were in my bed..lolYou are not alone. I gave up my love of music for a man , and now I long for the sound of music again. I have gave up so much, for emotional, and physical, abuse. I am about ready to live again , no matter where it takes me...
Mine cheated

United States

#13 Feb 18, 2013
And she can have him. If that's the kind of man you want, a guy that cheats on his wife and lies to the kids, lies to his parents, and lies to you. Then you can have him. I never ever wanted him again after I found out you were involved. He was sleeping with me right up to that point. Bet he lied to you about that too. Now I've got exactly what I wanted and you can have the broken crap I've left behind.You've done me a huge favor!!!He's a monster, you won't have anything nice once he's done sucking you dry!
Inconspicuous

Hendersonville, TN

#14 Feb 18, 2013
I've been a licensed investigator for just over 20 years, specializing in domestic cases - infidelity and child custody. For the first time ever, I tailed slightly more women last year than I did men. 20 years ago I was following men probably 80% of the time. Times are a-changin'!
Good

Bowling Green, KY

#15 Feb 19, 2013
Inconspicuous wrote:
I've been a licensed investigator for just over 20 years, specializing in domestic cases - infidelity and child custody. For the first time ever, I tailed slightly more women last year than I did men. 20 years ago I was following men probably 80% of the time. Times are a-changin'!
Narcissist.
Done

United States

#16 Feb 19, 2013
That means women have lowered their standards if they start acting like men. Come on girls, take the higher road. Don't lose all your stuff and income over a stupid boy. Make them leave you so you can get all their stuff and income, lol. You are smarter than laying in the fleas with the dogs.
Bonobos

Hopkinsville, KY

#17 Feb 19, 2013
We are sexual animals just look at our closest cousins the bonobos.....they share 98% of our DNA and before all the rules society made up about sex we were more free with sex and used it just like the bonobos.

The book "Sex at Dawn" will give you more info.....its an interesting read.

Men have huge sexual appetites especially younger men....they are programmed to mate and make babies with their DNA. We are animals that have been and will always be focused on making babies.

Men want to spread seed....females want security.

If you can get a man that loves you, pays bills, caters to your needs, feeds you, buys you nice things, pays the mortgage, keeps a job, babies you.....you should let him get a little non-committal strange....it will keep him happy/fulfilled and he will STILL love you...its just sex....sex is not love!!!

Sex feeds a primal need and desire to sire....if you bitch and deny this simple short lived pleasure you will cause stress and stress is what destroys a marriage.

Jealousy and possessiveness does not equal love. Thats just a misinterpretation of society. A society poisoned with religious "beliefs" that are not true!
Commitment to you and the home is most importantů..not intercourse.
I am female! And I understand this and its very liberating!!!!
Missy R

Bowling Green, KY

#18 Feb 19, 2013
Not all men cheat. My ex never cheated on me on the 18 years we were married. He was just not that type of person.

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