How do I tell my wife I love someone ...
It will change

United States

#28 Jul 6, 2012
Never mind "I want to know" - you are just plain crazy...you do nothing but post all over topix. Geeez, go outside!
I want to know

United States

#30 Jul 6, 2012
Know the truth about what? That husbands love their wives? Christian Curry did what?
Wow

Oak Grove, KY

#31 Jul 6, 2012
sweetie maybe topix isnt the right place to look for the truth...try searching your heart...these rants will not change that persons mind...likely to do the opposite and push them further away...and the sooner you realize that no matter how many posts you put on topix it will not change what you are going through the sooner you can begin to heal from the hurt someone has caused you...honestly trying to be helpful
I want to know

United States

#32 Jul 6, 2012
Yeah - I feel bad for "I want to know" Seems like the walls are clsing in on them. On the positive side - their typing skills must be pretty good! LOL
It will change

United States

#33 Jul 6, 2012
Whoops - sorry, don't know how my name changed from one to the other. Crazy must be catching
usuck

Nashville, TN

#36 Jul 6, 2012
Jimbo wrote:
You grow a pair of balls and walk up and tell her the truth. What has happened to the men in this world?
LMAO! You need to grow both a penis and a set of balls. You are a mangina. Go tuck your beef flaps up in you. You are gay.
It will change

United States

#37 Jul 6, 2012
I'm sorry, it sounds bad. Are you saying he stayed with his wife? Is that why you are so upset?
It will change

United States

#38 Jul 6, 2012
Got a feeling none of it was true and he told you what you wanted to hear to get what he wanted. That's pretty standard practice.
Wow

Oak Grove, KY

#42 Jul 6, 2012
I want to know wrote:
I am not mad, honestly...I am very hurt, I put all my trust in him. Now he says he is a christian, well if so then what's the deal with telling the truth? U can't call yourself a christian if u are going to purposely lie.
i think his silence is his way of telling you...i went through a similiar experience...was told he loved me and my children for a year and a half...gave us a home to live in...then when he got caught...threw us away with nothing and have never heard from him again...i realize now...he never loved me...he is incapable of loving anyone other than himself...the hurt will go away in time....good luck in your pursuit of happiness...life is to precious and to short to spend it wishing and wondering...
to wow

United States

#43 Jul 6, 2012
are you all talking about the same man???
Jimbo

Nashville, TN

#44 Jul 6, 2012
usuck wrote:
<quoted text>LMAO! You need to grow both a penis and a set of balls. You are a mangina. Go tuck your beef flaps up in you. You are gay.
Yes, I am gay...you sound interested in me.
It will change

United States

#45 Jul 6, 2012
Plus if they are married treat yourself better than that. Don't make yourself second to a wife. It will never work and you would not want it done to you. right?
Wow

Oak Grove, KY

#47 Jul 6, 2012
to wow wrote:
are you all talking about the same man???
No...i am not. I was fooled into thinking this man was seperated until it was to late...when i realized months later it was untrue i was to in love and dependent on him to do the right thing...i have learned alot from that horrible mistake and was just trying to be helpful to someone that is so obviously struggling with the hurt
Wow

Oak Grove, KY

#51 Jul 6, 2012
I want to know wrote:
To wow: It does bother me the fact that he calls me selfish after everything I did, he is way out of line on that one. Were u angry with what happened to u? He expects no one should be angry or get mad about it, they should just be happy go lucky.
ofcourse... i was angry, hurt, sad, and felt used. especially when his wife called and told me this was a behavioral pattern for him...i was not the first (he lied about that too) and from what i have heard far from the last...because of his wealth she has chosen to continue living looking the other way...and when it all came out it was me that was called the "whore" "home wrecker" etc...what most people do not understand is that these men wreck their own homes...he pursued me and was dishonest with me from the beginning...i was recently divorced, scared and alone...because he has been a topic of discussion on here (which i learned pretty recently) i do not wish to say anything more...i have never commented on the one about him here or the town i am from...i just saw this and thought i would say i know you must be hurting but at this point you are really only hurting yourself...it is his place to be honest with his wife...you cannot force that...hope you heal quickly and are able to move on
Helllooo

United States

#52 Jul 6, 2012
Well i know this man is and i thought he came from a better family than he did!! They don't want people ''tarnishing'' their ''good''name..hahaha whatever! Yes he is just as much to blame and when people go through cancer treatments people need honesty and he should understand that more than anyone!
Say what

United States

#55 Jul 6, 2012
who?
Wow

Oak Grove, KY

#56 Jul 6, 2012
yes i have moved on...i have not dated anyone since him but that is by choice...it has been over a year and i never got answers or real closure to speak of...there was alot more to the end than i care to discuss publicly...i really think as much as it hurts you now it is better if you stop trying to contact him...his lack of concern and communication should be all the answer you need...i know it isn't what you want to hear (truth sometimes isn't) but i am honestly speaking from experience...your heart will heal in time...a part of me will always care for him no matter how hurtful he was...i want him to succeed and be happy...but i deserve real love and happiness too...
Wow

Oak Grove, KY

#58 Jul 6, 2012
you shouldn't have to make him aware...what you are doing is feeding his ego and hurting yourself with this obsession to get an answer...the best way to let him know is to stop...stop posting about him on topix (he probably isnt looking anymore anyway)and stop letting him know he got the best of you...i really hope you can get past all this and learn to be happy with yourself...you cannot shame someone into being a better person or telling the truth...it isnt possible...
I want to know

Bowling Green, KY

#59 Jul 6, 2012
U are right, oh & I know he is looking cause he's been having posts removed, some that weren't mine, lol....do u live close to BG? Wanna exchange emails? I set up one seperate from my main one.
Wow

Oak Grove, KY

#60 Jul 6, 2012
i won't post where i am from or email on here...but if you leave yours i will send you a message from mine

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