How do I tell my wife I love someone else?

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Bronx, NY

#1 Jun 30, 2012
I am not in love nor do I love my wife anymore and have found someone who I am cray for. Have been in love with her for a couple years now and don't want to hurt my wife anymore than she has been already.

Bronx, NY

#2 Jun 30, 2012

United States

#3 Jun 30, 2012
What do you mean by not hurting her anymore.
All you can do is be honest, she deserves that.

Better to be honest than to lie and live in misery.
She deserves to find some one crazy about her as well you know.

I was in the same situation last year myself, yes it hurt her at first, but now she is happy that i didn't continue lying to her and keeping her from a better life that i could not give her.

Good Luck
just tell

United States

#4 Jun 30, 2012
Does your wife know you love someone else? And if so, why is she still with you? She sounds desperate and dependent if she's still with you after knowing you love another. Does this other love you too? The same as you do her? Good luck, and tell your wife. You'll feel better in the end.

Hendersonville, TN

#5 Jun 30, 2012
You grow a pair of balls and walk up and tell her the truth. What has happened to the men in this world?

United States

#6 Jun 30, 2012
Well I have been cheated on many of times women just wants the truth and I would rather be friends with them but if u lie she will just hate u be honest

Hendersonville, TN

#7 Jun 30, 2012
Haha...Jess sounds like some kind of winner. Been cheated on "many of times."
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Frankfort, KY

#8 Jul 1, 2012
Unknown wrote:
I am not in love nor do I love my wife anymore and have found someone who I am cray for. Have been in love with her for a couple years now and don't want to hurt my wife anymore than she has been already.
. Be straight forward with her,who knows she might already have another man if its been that bad for the last 2 years or maybe she won't mind sharing.

Hendersonville, TN

#10 Jul 1, 2012
You know, I didn't want to mention it, but your wife has been wondering how she's going to tell you. She's been hanging out at Jimbo's house for the last 6 months.

Hialeah, FL

#12 Jul 1, 2012
oh heck just keep on lying to her like all the other scumbags do she don't deserve the truth because she is probably stupid if she don't know it herself by now

Cookeville, TN

#13 Jul 2, 2012
I would say your wife already knows. You see we have a six sence about these things. My husband cheated on me for years and I have always known. And I mean with some real skanks. Yes,it hurts, I should have moved on many years ago but I stayed for my children. I have heard from many people he still does. I guess men/no matteer how old do it!

Hendersonville, TN

#14 Jul 2, 2012
Jenny=loser for allowing that to go on.

Hendersonville, TN

#15 Jul 2, 2012
Probably a fatty too. Otherwise she would put her foot down.
just another one

Campbellsville, KY

#16 Jul 4, 2012
Ask Joe Vigil well it worked out for him. Of course he just keeps falling in after another. We all have bets on how long this one will last. Do the deed and pay the piper.

Hendersonville, TN

#17 Jul 5, 2012
I have been involved with another man for a few years, and my wife still has not found out.

Hendersonville, TN

#18 Jul 5, 2012
Now that is kinda funny imposter!

United States

#19 Jul 5, 2012
Just stick it in her but soft then get it hard and tell her this is the last time she's getting it in the but
It will change

United States

#21 Jul 6, 2012
Your wife loves you and will fight to the death to keep what is hers. You need to make your heart right and turn back to the one that loves you not to the one who has a black heart and wants to break up your marriage. Karma is an evil bitch and will come back to bite you. Put all the misquided energy back in to your marriage. You'll be surprised how much better it will be. To all the women out there who think going after a married man is a good's a VERY dangerous thing to do. We know who you are and exactly where you live and work and we know what you are up to. Married womem will defend their ground.

Franklin, TN

#24 Jul 6, 2012
I want to know wrote:
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Is that a threat? Well sweetie u just come on, cause I am not one bit scared of u or anyone else, I have jesus on my side!'re an idio$.
It will change

United States

#26 Jul 6, 2012
Why is Bowling Green Kentucky getting all puffed up? I wasn't talking to you, Im saying in general. Plus, my husband isn't cheating on me so I don't have any fight with you. Also, why would Jesus have your side if you are a messing around with a married man? You must feel really bad about yourself other wise you wouldn't lash out at people like that. You need to find a man who loves you. Like the great relationship I have with mine. It makes everything better and keeps all haters away. Have a GREAT day!

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