broken heart

Murray, KY

#1 Mar 8, 2011
is love just a game with all men or what? I've never cheated and would literally do any thing for him, now I find out I'm not the only women. Is there ant decent men left
Learn Your Lesson

United States

#4 Mar 8, 2011
broken heart wrote:
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She doesn't know about me. I love him so much. I feel like I have the past year. Me and my childrens father broke up 3 years ago, was with him for 14 years, then met this guy a year ago. I feel like just giving up on men.
If he's married, then let it go! You have no right to "cling" to a married man. He has a contract that forbids him to be with other women--I think it's called a marriage certificate??!! So don't go crying now, if he's married you should have known better to begin with, no sympathy here girl.
broken heart

Murray, KY

#5 Mar 8, 2011
Learn Your Lesson wrote:
<quoted text>If he's married, then let it go! You have no right to "cling" to a married man. He has a contract that forbids him to be with other women--I think it's called a marriage certificate??!! So don't go crying now, if he's married you should have known better to begin with, no sympathy here girl.
he is not married, he has another girl friend and i just found out. i had no idea for a year. so y dont u get ur shit straight before u run ur mouth
Samehere

Pflugerville, TX

#6 Mar 8, 2011
I know how you feel. I wAs divorced for three years then met this guy, started dating then we bought a place and moved in with each other. After six years together I found out he had been seeing another girl since ww moved in ( he always told me that he was working- he is a mechanic. The trust was broken and I was heartbroken. He begged me to try to work things out and it has now been 3 years later and I still can not get over this or trust him it's always in the back of my mind. I have this deep hatred toward this and don't know if I could ever trust another man and think this is probaly the only reason I stay they are all the same
Right way

East Bernstadt, KY

#7 Mar 8, 2011
Samehere wrote:
I know how you feel. I wAs divorced for three years then met this guy, started dating then we bought a place and moved in with each other. After six years together I found out he had been seeing another girl since ww moved in ( he always told me that he was working- he is a mechanic. The trust was broken and I was heartbroken. He begged me to try to work things out and it has now been 3 years later and I still can not get over this or trust him it's always in the back of my mind. I have this deep hatred toward this and don't know if I could ever trust another man and think this is probaly the only reason I stay they are all the same
If you would get married instead of "shacking-up", you wouldn't get into these messes. Anytime a person is willing to live with another without being married, they are asking for what they get. I get sick listing to these whores that let men do to them as they please, then whine that "he isn't faithful". If he was faithful, he would marry you instead of "shacking up". So stop your belly aching.
broken heart

Murray, KY

#8 Mar 9, 2011
Samehere wrote:
I know how you feel. I wAs divorced for three years then met this guy, started dating then we bought a place and moved in with each other. After six years together I found out he had been seeing another girl since ww moved in ( he always told me that he was working- he is a mechanic. The trust was broken and I was heartbroken. He begged me to try to work things out and it has now been 3 years later and I still can not get over this or trust him it's always in the back of my mind. I have this deep hatred toward this and don't know if I could ever trust another man and think this is probaly the only reason I stay they are all the same
I dont know if I ever will either, and he is a mechanic too. I hope your heart heals
broken heart

Murray, KY

#9 Mar 9, 2011
Right way wrote:
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If you would get married instead of "shacking-up", you wouldn't get into these messes. Anytime a person is willing to live with another without being married, they are asking for what they get. I get sick listing to these whores that let men do to them as they please, then whine that "he isn't faithful". If he was faithful, he would marry you instead of "shacking up". So stop your belly aching.
I wasnt shacked up as you call it, but just because 2 people live toether does not make that women a whore. You are a ignorant person. and just because a woman is cheated on doesnt mean they let men do as they please, it doesnt mean that they all stay with the cheater. You are a very ugly person inside and I will pray that God puts some type of kindness in your heart
Jeanene

Jamestown, KY

#10 Mar 9, 2011
so sorry about your situation.men have no concious.truely most are dogs,trying to get away with what ever they can.the word Love means a whole lot less than the way a woman uses it.if one cheats ...he really didn't Love you the way you deserved to be loved.i feel for you because i know how hard it is to think about leaving...i LOVE mine too,but every six months to a year we have issues about these whores around here.corse he always tells me ,i'm crazy insane jealous.or better yet blames it on the alcohol.let me just say this to you as a friend.you will never get over it it will always be in the back of your mind if he is thinking about her.how many of his friends knew and are laughing at you now.it is like a smack in the face daily.you will be bitter and eventually start to hate him.see the love and trust is gone forever.
broken heart

Louisville, KY

#13 Mar 10, 2011
[ne forever.[/
then why do you stay with him? Mine is from russel springs too
broken heart

Louisville, KY

#15 Mar 10, 2011
Learn Your Lesson wrote:
<quoted text>Oh go away.....u make my head hurt lol!
then dont read the post
Samehere

Pflugerville, TX

#16 Mar 11, 2011
I've thought of leaving and even had plans found me and my daughter another place then he blacked put one night and next thing I know he's having open heart surgery. I stayed by his side for a week at the hospital and took off three weeks from work after coming home. Things seemed to be getting back on track between us now he's starting to get back on his feet and for past three months everything great now he's getting back into old routine. maybe it is true what everybody says it will never work out
Jeanene

Jamestown, KY

#17 Mar 14, 2011
broken heart wrote:
[ne forever.[/
then why do you stay with him? Mine is from russel springs too
i'm from the Jabez area,and for the life of me i can't figure why we are still together.i know i'm too good of woman for this crap.i'm caring,faithful.does this not mean anything to these jerks?
Samehere

United States

#18 Mar 14, 2011
Jeanene wrote:
<quoted text>i'm from the Jabez area,and for the life of me i can't figure why we are still together.i know i'm too good of woman for this crap.i'm caring,faithful.does this not mean anything to these jerks?
I'm from science hill area and no I don't believe it means anything to these jerks. I was raised up in cinti and I am not being a smartass or anything like that but my husband and I moved here in 87 and since our divorce in 96 every man I've met in this area acts alike. They have no morals what so ever or respect for a lady what so ever.

“It is what it is, folks!!”

Since: Feb 10

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#23 Mar 8, 2012
There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with choosing to stay single. More women than you might be aware of are making that choice these days. Men too. It works both ways. Gender doesn't lessen the pain of being cheated on. Nor does it determine who is most likely to cheat on their partner. It takes TWO. Even same sex partners experience it. Everyone hurts the same way in a heartbreaking situation like cheating, no matter what their sexual "preference" may be.

Since: Mar 14

London, KY

#25 Mar 4, 2014
And instead of you thinking about how the WIFE or the FIRST GIRLFRIEND felt about all this, you of coarse are thinking about yourself. Figures. Im sure you knew he was with someone else and when he wanted nothing to do with you. You wanted to make it look like you were blind to the fact that he was taken. HMM. Shady.

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