Lydia Dwight Sahlberg, murder victims...
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#82 Aug 28, 2013
makeitbetter wrote:
Way easier too judge and hate than to actually have compassion or to do something to make the situation better. Shame on you guys. Go back to your Enquired and your reality shows since you've turned your back on your humanity. You too much time on your self righteous hands youngmkaren and queenbee53. Work on your own faults and do something positive to make this world better.
LOL Really did not even know this thread was still going! And oh self righteous you bet! I protected my children from strangers, and did not dare to put their lives at risk by doing drugs, rolling pick ups (huh Lydia, remember doing that/ check your FB) remember stealing from Rob's family? Remember your mom sticking her knows where it didn't belong and that was before we even knew you existed girl. I was at the trials, we have followed what is going on with that absolutely adorable baby girl. Blessings to the family (Wont say who... but they should be on a pedestal) So kiss my attitude! She is still screwing up and didn't even do what she needed to to get her back so How about you find something else to do with your time, for you spewing facts and flinging insults leaves you looking like the dumb one. May you be blessed enough to have your own children to love and hug and tuck in at night. I have mine. and by God's grace that little girl grows up never knowing what her birth mother did to let her go. youngmkaren I agree with you and one day you and I should meet!!!

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#83 Sep 4, 2013
queenbee53 wrote:
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LOL Really did not even know this thread was still going! And oh self righteous you bet! I protected my children from strangers, and did not dare to put their lives at risk by doing drugs, rolling pick ups (huh Lydia, remember doing that/ check your FB) remember stealing from Rob's family? Remember your mom sticking her knows where it didn't belong and that was before we even knew you existed girl. I was at the trials, we have followed what is going on with that absolutely adorable baby girl. Blessings to the family (Wont say who... but they should be on a pedestal) So kiss my attitude! She is still screwing up and didn't even do what she needed to to get her back so How about you find something else to do with your time, for you spewing facts and flinging insults leaves you looking like the dumb one. May you be blessed enough to have your own children to love and hug and tuck in at night. I have mine. and by God's grace that little girl grows up never knowing what her birth mother did to let her go. youngmkaren I agree with you and one day you and I should meet!!!
Queenbee53....why can't there be more mothers our there that truly put their children's needs before their own....LIKE US!!!!
Father Robert

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#84 Jan 25, 2015
youngmkaren wrote:
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Queenbee53....why can't there be more mothers our there that truly put their children's needs before their own....LIKE US!!!!
Well for the record I am the father of the beautiful baby girl. And yes I did go to prison but was released on 12-26-2014. I will not try to down play my past actions or behaviors,nor will I defend Lydia although a very little part of me wants to. But lets get some facts straight. Lydia's own Doctor at my trial said under oath that our altercation did not cause a pre-mature birth. What caused the birth was a lack of amniotic fluid around the baby. Lydia's own doctor testified she was scheduled for a c section on 4-5-12. To get your facts straight I was in Bend With my parents and only came back once she called to tell me our daughter was to be born on 4-5-12. Another fact Lydia was high and drunk during our altercation and yes I did push her to stop her from assaulting me. I do not shy away from my cuppability in it all nor am I proud that I could of hurt my child and caused injury to Lydia.It only takes 3 days for meth to get out of the system that is why she was clean. For once she was clean. She changed doctor 3 times over her using. Why is it that my aunt testified Lydia not I stole her checks yet she was never charged. Playing the victim. Lydia went through hell after Sahara died and I witnessed the pain and destruction it caused her. It was horrifying what she went through. Yes at the time she was an amazing mom who took care of her kids very well. Carl and Lisa should of been charged for there lack of care for there child they both are equally responsible as far as I am concerned. Now I am not proud to say that I was a selfish,ruthless man who only cared about himself and not any consequences of my past action. Once my beautiful daughter was born I found love,hope and a reason to care a change and am now proud of who I am. I can not change the past but control the future. As far as CSD goes lets be real,Lydia's refusal to comply with multiple stints in rehab,her refusal to stay clean and sober is why she was not allowed to have our daughter back. Yes she was adopted by family for which I am so very grateful for and to them.They are wonderful parents to her and provide a great home for her. I am so thankful to know she is so well,where she is. They have and continue to allow me to write to her and send cards for which I have done for the past 2 1/2 yrs. I am continuing working on me so yes some day she will be proud of me. No I will not lie to her about the situation of her adoption and my faults and wrong doings. I will not speak ill off Lydia to her,she will make her own decisions about her. I hope one day Lydia will get the help she needs to move on in a positive way. For all you who want to judge me that is your choice and right. But let me ask you this are 1000 of your mistakes better than mine? No we all make mistakes,\. All I can do is be a better man now,which I am.I do not need your blessings or approval to know I've changed. You ask why Lydia won't respond to this forum I don't know or care but I will and will take all you have to fire at me. I am not hiding. For the record I did not beat the shit out of Lydia as she and her family says. Not one of them were there during the whole ordeal yet her parents testified at my trial giving 2 different accounts of what happened. And the only Police witness was a detective not involved until 3 days after the fact. A detective on Sahara's case. And why did Lydia give 6 different accounts of what happened over a 5 day period. I have all 6 police reports and not one is the same. And lets find out why she has done no time for her recent arrests. Lydia I wish you the best only and hold no ill feelings or resentment towards you and hope you figure your life out

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