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#21 Jul 1, 2012
Teddy wrote:
<quoted text>That might give away who she is. I'll just say over 200, 5 ft 5, early 30s.
teddy , you blame your wife for not fulfilling your bedroom fantasies. Maybe you should look in the mirror. I'm not trying to be an ass just want you to see it from a different perspective. I've been married 23 years to the same man and we have raised our children. I have no desire for intimacy with my husband. I do love him. But he has been abusive , belittling and made me feel I was no more to him then someone to raise his kids, cook, clean, and have sex with. I consider myself attractive and have met several men who knew my situation that begged me to leave him for them. I chose to stick it out for my kids, which I now realize was the wrong reason. His actions throughout our marriage directly impacted what went on in the bedroom. For a woman sex is as much emotional as it is physical. You obviously still love your wife or you wouldn't be staying so try a different approach. I can almost guarantee you'll get a different end result.
Teddy

United States

#22 Jul 1, 2012
Illinois gal wrote:
<quoted text>teddy , you blame your wife for not fulfilling your bedroom fantasies. Maybe you should look in the mirror. I'm not trying to be an ass just want you to see it from a different perspective. I've been married 23 years to the same man and we have raised our children. I have no desire for intimacy with my husband. I do love him. But he has been abusive , belittling and made me feel I was no more to him then someone to raise his kids, cook, clean, and have sex with. I consider myself attractive and have met several men who knew my situation that begged me to leave him for them. I chose to stick it out for my kids, which I now realize was the wrong reason. His actions throughout our marriage directly impacted what went on in the bedroom. For a woman sex is as much emotional as it is physical. You obviously still love your wife or you wouldn't be staying so try a different approach. I can almost guarantee you'll get a different end result.
I clean more than her, I make more money than her, and I have never abused her. Your story is irrelevant to my situation.
Really

Frankfort, KY

#23 Jul 1, 2012
Teddy wrote:
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I can't make her feel attractive if she won't take care of herself. She stuffs herself with junk food. She wasn't a whale when I married her. It's not all my fault. Women like to blame everything on men and never bother to look in the mirror and take responsibility for their own faults.
Oink Oink.... PIG!!!
abc

United States

#24 Jul 1, 2012
If you really love your wife...you would not cheat on her...your either put your own selfish needs asidoe you would talk to her and let her know what u r thinking so you could either both agree to change your ways and work on things or agree to part ways.
Id Luke to hear perspective from a man other than teddy on this original post.
just sayin

United States

#25 Jul 1, 2012
My husband didn't turn me on is why I didn't want him. There r 2 sides to a Story so now mayb he can make his new wife's life like hell like he did mine.
Teddy

United States

#26 Jul 1, 2012
No man has according to her. If she really loved me she would take care of my needs. It works both ways. Don't take your failed marriages out on me.
abc

United States

#27 Jul 1, 2012
So...teddy...you say you clean more than her...does that mean you clean the house real good once a week or so while she straightened up everyday...and becauae u prolly tell her to relax..don't worr y about it...and prolly dont notice what she does...you say u clean more???
Teddy

Somerset, KY

#28 Jul 1, 2012
abc wrote:
So...teddy...you say you clean more than her...does that mean you clean the house real good once a week or so while she straightened up everyday...and becauae u prolly tell her to relax..don't worr y about it...and prolly dont notice what she does...you say u clean more???
More baseless assumptions I see. I get off work about two hours before her even though I'm making more money. I usually take out trash, do laundry, and dishes as needed during the week.\I also take care of the kids myself until she gets home at which time we both do. She pretty much eats and gets ready for bed when she gets home. She sleeps until the last minute in the morning so nothing is done by her then. On the weekend we both clean when it is messy but overall it averages out that I do more. I also take care of all maintenance when needed on things around the house and take care of all the yard work. So there.
WantingIt

United States

#29 Jul 1, 2012
My wife liked sex a lot when we first got together. Both of us still look the same, we have only been married for 4 years. From my experience, and I may be wrong, but it seems women lose interest in sex after being with the same guy for a while. We still do the same things we used to do and do many new things all the time. She used to love sex, I still do, won't cheat, but geez this self satisfaction is getting old. LOL. At the most, she will watch me "play" from time to time and thats it. I treat her great, she knows I love her, and I know she loves me, and she treats me great also. Trust is not an issue, we are both very happy. But to be honest, and she knows it, we need to have some freaky sex like we used to.
Eddie

Somerset, KY

#30 Jul 1, 2012
WantingIt wrote:
My wife liked sex a lot when we first got together. Both of us still look the same, we have only been married for 4 years. From my experience, and I may be wrong, but it seems women lose interest in sex after being with the same guy for a while. We still do the same things we used to do and do many new things all the time. She used to love sex, I still do, won't cheat, but geez this self satisfaction is getting old. LOL. At the most, she will watch me "play" from time to time and thats it. I treat her great, she knows I love her, and I know she loves me, and she treats me great also. Trust is not an issue, we are both very happy. But to be honest, and she knows it, we need to have some freaky sex like we used to.
Try not masturbating. I know it sounds like a crazy idea but the longer you go without ejaculating the higher your testosterone levels get and it peaks at seven days. This will make you more energetic, more confident, more sexually aggressive, and has other effects like clearer skin and a deeper voice. Women respond to these things. For the first four or five days it is really hard but in the long run it leads to some really good benefits. And buy your wife 50 Shades of Grey. That book really gets women in the mood.
LOL

Loganville, GA

#31 Jul 1, 2012
Funny, the guy that i caught cheating on his woman with me told me she didnt clean..... Every man has excuces. If i dont want to be with someone and im not happy, Im GONE! Always somethin better. Teddy, just curious but r u a white guy? How many kids do u have also
Teddy

Somerset, KY

#32 Jul 1, 2012
LOL wrote:
Funny, the guy that i caught cheating on his woman with me told me she didnt clean..... Every man has excuces. If i dont want to be with someone and im not happy, Im GONE! Always somethin better. Teddy, just curious but r u a white guy? How many kids do u have also
I'm not black if that's what your implying but I'm not going to keep posting too much because I don't need somebody figuring out who we are.
LOL

Loganville, GA

#33 Jul 1, 2012
Teddy wrote:
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I'm not black if that's what your implying but I'm not going to keep posting too much because I don't need somebody figuring out who we are.
u dont want to get caught do u??? I think cheating is pointless. U want somebody else then be with them and let the other go. U must be dependant on her for something or else y would u stay...... Its hard to hear the truth i gueass i huh
TAKE CARE
#34 Jul 1, 2012
abc wrote:
Like I said...... Maybe if u made your wife feel attractive and wanted...shed be more than willing to take care of your needs....if u were any kind if honorable person you'd just let your wife know how you feel and then either agree to part ways or whatever...that would make it mych easier for your wife if you were honest and upfront than for her to find out later that you couldn't control your need for meaningless sex and you were willing to risk your family,,all the time and life she has given you for...anal sex....really???... Like I said why can't they just be honerable than pigs.
you are exactly right. Ive been wit my husband 4 almost 6yrs n he used 2 make me feel wanted. Not no more. I cater 2 his every need n he doesnt appreciate it. I always have. I do whateva he wants even sexually. If there is something that is missing i wish he would tell me.
abc

United States

#35 Jul 1, 2012
Wondering what normal men think of their wives after say..20 yrs ..20 pounds and a couple a kids?? Are they still attracted...or would they rather have some young floosie if they could...??
Teddy

Somerset, KY

#36 Jul 1, 2012
LOL wrote:
<quoted text>
u dont want to get caught do u??? I think cheating is pointless. U want somebody else then be with them and let the other go. U must be dependant on her for something or else y would u stay...... Its hard to hear the truth i gueass i huh
I don't want to. Hopefully I never do. But even if I do I wouldn't regret it. You only live once.
LOL

Loganville, GA

#37 Jul 1, 2012
OH TAKE CARE, I feel sorry for u. Move the hell on girl! If he dont appretiate u then find someone who will. Or better yet just take care of u! Men always crawl back. TRUST ME I KNOW!!! They r pathetic. They will wait till u forgive them then, they do it again! Am i right?? Always sayin they sorry. They r sorry Lmao!!! I have a friend whom i am goin to england with soon and im gonna have a blast. I dont care about men. They r the last thing on my mind. Im alllllllllll about me ^_^ I love to watch men grovlle to. Its funny
Teddy

Somerset, KY

#39 Jul 1, 2012
LOL wrote:
OH TAKE CARE, I feel sorry for u. Move the hell on girl! If he dont appretiate u then find someone who will. Or better yet just take care of u! Men always crawl back. TRUST ME I KNOW!!! They r pathetic. They will wait till u forgive them then, they do it again! Am i right?? Always sayin they sorry. They r sorry Lmao!!! I have a friend whom i am goin to england with soon and im gonna have a blast. I dont care about men. They r the last thing on my mind. Im alllllllllll about me ^_^ I love to watch men grovlle to. Its funny
You don't care about men? Then why are you so active in a thread about them? Are you going to become a lesbian?
TAKE CARE
#40 Jul 1, 2012
Lol thank u. I jus wish he would be honest wit me n let me kno whats misssing. I do everything 4 him. I tried talkin 2 him n he gets defensive. He dnt kno how much he is hurtin me. All i want is 2 make him happy n 4 him 2 be happy with me. My love 4 him is slowly fadin away n he dnt care. It hurts so much 4 tha person u love so much dnt care.
just sayin

United States

#41 Jul 1, 2012
I was somewhere today and there was a couple there with their 8 kids and 8 grand kids and they seemed so in love still after all these yrs. how do they do it?

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