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desperate

Murray, KY

#1 Apr 29, 2013
I'm in a very desperate situation. I'm a pregnant 22 year old woman, and if my family finds out, I will be cut off. My parents are extremely conservative, and if they find out I had sex with anyone, let alone an African American, they will disown me. I have no other choice, and I can't bear the thought of losing my family over this very poor decision that I made. I'm only at three weeks, so I feel that it's ok at this point. I can't believe this happened to me.
louisville

Duluth, GA

#2 Apr 29, 2013
Louisville is the only place in ky I believe.
lake

Owensboro, KY

#3 Apr 29, 2013
desperate wrote:
I'm in a very desperate situation. I'm a pregnant 22 year old woman, and if my family finds out, I will be cut off. My parents are extremely conservative, and if they find out I had sex with anyone, let alone an African American, they will disown me. I have no other choice, and I can't bear the thought of losing my family over this very poor decision that I made. I'm only at three weeks, so I feel that it's ok at this point. I can't believe this happened to me.
You need to call the health dept or an obstetrician office and ask. You should also get some reliable birth control and be much more careful in the future. There is a pill called plan B that you could have taken the day after protection failed. It would have prevented a pregnancy from ever happening.
lake

Owensboro, KY

#4 Apr 29, 2013
Nashville is probably the closest city with those services. You need to speak with a professional not with strangers on topix
fess up

United States

#5 Apr 29, 2013
I'm telling you this not to condemn or judge, but I swear by God if you proceed with an abortion, it is something you will have to deal with the rest of your life. And it isn't pleasant.

The tough situation of telling your parents will far outweigh the lifetime of regret you'll have if you abort your child.

Please, please... don't do it.
Nash

Murray, KY

#6 Apr 29, 2013
Go to Nashville. You don't need a kid at this time in your life. If you are under 2 months its just a pill. Something like 400 bucks. No lasting effects. It isn't human. It isn't alive. If you want to keep it do so. But don't you dare bring a life into the world because some nut tells you a made up bunny man says to.
Friend

Duluth, GA

#7 Apr 29, 2013
One if the clinics in town can prescribe you the anortion pill. Not plan B...the actual abortion pill. It will basically cause you to have a miscarriage but it will just feel like a really bad period. It's $300
husker bob

Murray, KY

#8 Apr 30, 2013
Me mate tony down town can elp you for 100 u.s dollars....let me know if you is interezted.
Really

Hopkinsville, KY

#9 Apr 30, 2013
Nash wrote:
Go to Nashville. You don't need a kid at this time in your life. If you are under 2 months its just a pill. Something like 400 bucks. No lasting effects. It isn't human. It isn't alive. If you want to keep it do so. But don't you dare bring a life into the world because some nut tells you a made up bunny man says to.
It isn't alive? It has a freaking heartbeat! Wow. As someone who has given birth to two children and found out I was pregnant with both before 8 weeks and had a vaginal ultrasound to determine gestational age the first thing I saw was the 4 chambers of it's heart beating. It is very much alive.
me

Mayfield, KY

#10 Apr 30, 2013
Plz don't abort. Come clean about pregnancy. You can give the baby a wonderful life with a family that might not be able to have children. That baby is a blessing not an issue! Don't take the babies life because YOU made a decision to not be safe. Suck it up and be a woman!
asdf

Benton, KY

#11 Apr 30, 2013
lel why would you say anything about abortion on here. Now it's time for a lecture. Sit back and enjoy the show.

Since: Feb 12

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#12 Apr 30, 2013
Really wrote:
<quoted text>It isn't alive? It has a freaking heartbeat! Wow. As someone who has given birth to two children and found out I was pregnant with both before 8 weeks and had a vaginal ultrasound to determine gestational age the first thing I saw was the 4 chambers of it's heart beating. It is very much alive.
Thank you !! The baby is very much alive and very much a human with a soul. We all make mistakes. We all live with those mistakes. You can bless another family with this child. I understand you are young and admire that you realize your not ready to be a parent but you can make something good come from this situation. There are so many that want a child that can't conceive. Believe me I understand a conservative family but I think your family may be more understanding than you think. Your parents were young once as well. Should you choose to give your baby up for adoption then it can be set up where the adopting parents take the baby immediately. Your parents never have to see the child, nor do you. Thus your worry about the baby being biracial wont be an issue that your parents need to know about. But don't underestimate your parents. My child had a baby out of wedlock five months ago, she is 22, and that child is the biggest blessing in mine, my husbands and her life. The father is less than desirable, because of his choices in life, but it doesn't change the love I have for my grandson in the slightest. Truly think thru things. I hate to see you live with hurt and regret the rest of your life.
louisville

Bowling Green, KY

#13 Apr 30, 2013
Baby isn't alive because it doesn't have a heartbeat as early as she is. That's the point! Every argument is that it's alive because it DOES have a heartbeat, guess what it DOESN'T! Do some research before u just start arguing nonsense.
Her choice

Nashville, TN

#14 Apr 30, 2013
Let this woman make up own mind. If she wants to abort , it's her choice.
Ria

Murray, KY

#15 Apr 30, 2013
If you want to put the baby up for adoption i'll gladly take the angel.
doc trollsten

United States

#16 Apr 30, 2013
Wow, this topix Is so fake. They're just trying to start shit which is working very well.
Just Sayin'

Duluth, GA

#17 Apr 30, 2013
Being someone who cannot have children, I beg you to at least consider having the child and placing it for adoption. I admire the fact that you admit your not ready to be a parent...that alone speaks volumes about you. As someone said earlier, you nor your parents ever have to lay eyes on this baby. Or you can choose open adoption where you can still sort of keep up with the child and his/her life. You have several choices and many different options. Please research and explore them all before you make any rash decisions. I would also recommend some type of counseling...everyone here is giving their opinions but a counselor might be a better place for you to seek advice. Check out The Life House, they can lead you in the right direction.
desperate

Murray, KY

#18 Apr 30, 2013
It's gone. They'll never know. I'm good with my choice.
lake

United States

#19 Apr 30, 2013
It's a personal choice that you and only you can make. It's your body and your life. If it isn't the choice you would make for yourself that's fine, but shaming someone isn't the right thing to do. The foster care system is overwhelmed with children in need of a loving, healthy home. If you are unable to have children and would like to become a parent, might I suggest you contact someone about becoming a foster parent. Infants aren't the only children in need, there are children of all ages.
Paul

Duluth, GA

#20 Apr 30, 2013
Just use a coat hanger.

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