Will I go to hell for being lesbian?

Will I go to hell for being lesbian?

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Ava, MO

#1 Mar 4, 2013
Will i go to hell for being lesbian?

So... I have always been ver attracted to handsome guys,
but my freshman year I met this girl @ MSU and we just connected so well.
We made this amazing bond.

I realized I was having feelings for her that I would have for a guy.
Earlier this year she confessed to me that she liked me,
(we were cuddling like 2 spoons)
and wanted to be with me.

We had hugged and cuddled like 2 spoons,
and.. held hands (this is before we knew we liked each other)
I kissed her "boo boo's" when she was hurt,
and a couple times she had kissed my forehead...
anyways...

sometimes I get confused about if I really want to be with her..

I mean.. I LOVE her. we've been together 6 months and I am happy... most of the time,

I still get scared about going to hell
(which is one of the reasons we are remaining abstinent until high school is over, assuming we stay together)

and when I get scared about hell i doubt "us" and then I wonder if I truly love her... can a good Christian girl love another girl?

I guess I dont really want to call myself gay, straight, or even bi really... I just lover her for her heart.

Not her body , or the sexual organs she does or doesnt have...

It's just her personality I am so attracted to. I sometimes talk to GOD about this and I wonder if he hates me..

or if he's sending me to hell. I used to pray about me and her getting together if it was okay with him..

I told myself if it was meant to be, then God would allow it for us. We are both Christians now.

(We were both agnostic before we met) I feel we have brought each other closer to God and I just don't know if God will bless this relationship...

and it hurts to choose between my love and my savior..

but I have always told myself If god came to me and told me to be without her, then I would do it..

but only if I had to.. I am just very confused and need things cleared up.

(like I said before never have and most likely never will be attracted to another female again)

If we split, then I will end up with a guy or end up alone.

Will I go to hell for being lesbian?

Apparently I won't, because GOD did not say anything about girl on girl sex.

GOD just said men on men sex. GOD said homosexuality is an

abomination to GOD ALMIGHTY!

This being said,Will I go to hell for being lesbian?

Do you know?

rayningnmyhart

United States

#2 Mar 4, 2013
Will I go to hell wrote:
Will i go to hell for being lesbian?
So... I have always been ver attracted to handsome guys,
but my freshman year I met this girl @ MSU and we just connected so well.
We made this amazing bond.
I realized I was having feelings for her thaot I would have for a guy.
Earlier this year she confessed to me that she liked me,
(we were cuddling like 2 spoons)
and wanted to be with me.
We had hugged and cuddled like 2 spoons,
and.. held hands (this is before we knew we liked each other)
I kissed her "boo boo's" when she was hurt,
and a couple times she had kissed my forehead...
anyways...
sometimes I get confused about if I really want to be with her..
I mean.. I LOVE her. we've been together 6 months and I am happy... most of the time,
I still get scared about going to hell
(which is one of the reasons we are remaining abstinent until high school is over, assuming we stay together)
and when I get scared about hell i doubt "us" and then I wonder if I truly love her... can a good Christian girl love another girl?
I guess I dont really want to call myself gay, straight, or even bi really... I just lover her for her heart.
Not her body , or the sexual organs she does or doesnt have...
It's just her personality I am so attracted to. I sometimes talk to GOD about this and I wonder if he hates me..
or if he's sending me to hell. I used to pray about me and her getting together if it was okay with him..
I told myself if it was meant to be, then God would allow it for us. We are both Christians now.
(We were both agnostic before we met) I feel we have brought each other closer to God and I just don't know if God will bless this relationship...
and it hurts to choose between my love and my savior..
but I have always told myself If god came to me and told me to be without her, then I would do it..
but only if I had to.. I am just very confused and need things cleared up.
(like I said before never have and most likely never will be attracted to another female again)
If we split, then I will end up with a guy or end up alone.
Will I go to hell for being lesbian?
Apparently I won't, because GOD did not say anything about girl on girl sex.
GOD just said men on men sex. GOD said homosexuality is an
abomination to GOD ALMIGHTY!
This being said,Will I go to hell for being lesbian?
Do you know? Yes. He threw this at you caz he knew ur weak spot . Its up to u to do the rite thing. Will i go to hell if i hang myself? Yep. So.. what to do?
yep. He threw this at u bcaz its ur weak spot. Do what u know to b rite. U know.... I hung the 10 commandments on bathroom wall.

Since: Nov 12

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#3 Mar 4, 2013
First of all, I would like to say, congratulations on finding someone that makes you happy! It's a rare thing indeed.

Secondly, homosexuality and Christianity are incompatible. This is stated in Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13. One would be put to death for homosexual practices. I also fail to see how people draw a line to validate their Christian beliefs and homosexual desires. They're simply incompatible.

Thirdly, and you knew it was coming, you must ask yourself how much you actually believe in Christianity. I, myself, am an Atheist. I grew up in a Christian family, so I know what you're feeling. Its only when you look at the Bible and the religion itself, and compare it against reality, you begin to see that NOTHING adds up. You would expect that, being inspired by an all-knowing deity, could at least keep some logical consistency in it's own book. Take a look into it for yourself.

So in conclusion; If Christianity was reality, then yes. You would go to Hell. But since its just a fabrication as a means of mass control, You have nothing to worry about.
burn

United States

#4 Mar 4, 2013
Hippa, how can anyone misinturpit the word of God ? Ill tell you; your burning allready , & trying to justify what you do is right, even though you know it is wrong. You cant have an up w/o a down ,a yes w/o a no,,left w/o a right. & a right w/o a wrong . You either believe in good or bad the Choice is yours .just because you feel strongly for something, dont justify it to be ok when you know its not write . Certain pleasures are not hellbound, but when you know in your heart its wrong& do it anyway, you will be judged more harshly for that one sin. But the big pic will tell your fate.
burn

United States

#5 Mar 4, 2013
Finding someone to make you happy is not rare! Just in your bubble!
ticketmaster

United States

#6 Mar 4, 2013
Got my ticket today. Now, got to dig up some ccccccourage. Pray for me. :'(

Since: Feb 13

United States

#7 Mar 4, 2013
We dont pick and choose who we love, we just do. The msg God is more interested in is we loved each other regardless of gender, so no you wont go to hell.
god is a child killer

United States

#8 Mar 4, 2013
Lezzz be honest here(sorry)....the words god and Love should never be used in the same sentence. I bet there were about 20 elementary school kids in CT that got to feel god's love firsthand back in December. Where was their almighty father? WHY DIDN'T HE HELP HIS CHILDREN? Why do christians pick and choose when they are blessed and when things "are beyond our control". You condescending christian sheep can't wait to get on your soapbox and bitch, but there are never any answers. How dare you tell ANYONE they are going to burn. That's a real nice thing to say to your fellow man, hypocrite.

It really is a shame that, once you die, thats it. So that means all you brainwashed pack animals i.e. christians will NEVER KNOW YOU ARE WRONG. When you close your eyes for your last breath, you will never know thats it. No burning involved. Just blackness, much like your misinformed, entitled souls. It is very clear that your way of life- the church- is going away and "you people" are thumping your chest harder than ever.
Strawberries

United States

#9 Mar 4, 2013
It's a sin too be with the same sex go read Corinthians...... But, before u love someone u gotta love God first!!!
good

Billings, MO

#10 Mar 4, 2013
to answer the question- I think so--YES
old thinking

White Hall, AR

#11 Mar 4, 2013
yes you will burn in hell for all of eternity because it says so in this book a buddy of mine wrote. Listen you do what makes you happy and understand that religion is only religion and not a true science. I love women too... how could I condemn you for that? Its a sin according to a religion created a few hundred years ago. Lets take religion out of the equation...now, what do you think you should do? If you have found love, grab onto it. Seriously, Christianity is a great program, but its not for everyone. If we never question christian belief the world would still be flat and orbited by the sun. We wouldnt have ellen.
judgement

San Jose, CA

#12 Mar 4, 2013
Judgement does not belong to anyone on here. JUDGE NOT LESS YE BE JUDGED. So do what you want with you've and stop worrying what other people think of you or your soul. A man that judges another is a hypocrite. You especially ant trust the so called Christian's in mountain grove.
nunya

United States

#13 Mar 4, 2013
judgement wrote:
Judgement does not belong to anyone on here. JUDGE NOT LESS YE BE JUDGED. So do what you want with you've and stop worrying what other people think of you or your soul. A man that judges another is a hypocrite. You especially ant trust the so called Christian's in mountain grove.
christians ate more aware of their sins cause we promis our lord we wuld sin no more ,well we constanly go to church to pray for the sins we did that week, & try harder each time to sin no more. A constant battle ! Most dont even bother. We try harder & will be judged harsher. You dont haft to worry cause when you pass, it just gets dark for you. What a waistful thought. Its a WAR between u & me ! & ive got an ok from my savior ! Amen !
old thinking

White Hall, AR

#14 Mar 4, 2013
nunya wrote:
<quoted text> christians ate more aware of their sins cause we promis our lord we wuld sin no more ,well we constanly go to church to pray for the sins we did that week, & try harder each time to sin no more. A constant battle ! Most dont even bother. We try harder & will be judged harsher. You dont haft to worry cause when you pass, it just gets dark for you. What a waistful thought. Its a WAR between u & me ! & ive got an ok from my savior ! Amen !
so tell me nunya? can she go to heaven with you non-sinners? Life is a constant battle, most Christians don't worry because they can fall back on their new religion. Christianity only became popular because they slayed every one who believed that the new book they wrote wasn't the true word of god. YOUR A VERY LARGE CULT! How arrogant can you be to think that after thousands of years of humanity that you found the true creator a couple hundred years ago. I like Christianity because it teaches good morals, it teaches self control, and how to love. But it also teaches ignorance toward individuals. Lets not forget that pride is a sin.
old thinking

White Hall, AR

#15 Mar 4, 2013
HATE GAYS GO TO HEAVEN!!!! Praise Jesus! Question the church and be burnt at the stake! AMEN!!! Your religion is failing because it is was formed to create a world power and to brainwash the masses to do the bidding of the "church". We found out that your full of sht 100 years ago.
research the Spanish Inquisition. Then tell me. Are you with the church? Or are you with the people?
judgement

Willow Springs, MO

#16 Mar 4, 2013
Our God is a forgiving God. I will not burn because I am not the one judging,you are. By the way if you live your life morally then you don't have to go to church to be forgiven. I am not saying I don't sine but with my morally strong life I don't fell the Need to go every week to confession. So maybe you should leave the judging to God like the bible says to. Let HE who is without sin cast the first storm. Judge not less he be JUDGE ( by God not man)
judgement

Willow Springs, MO

#17 Mar 4, 2013
The next thing you will say is you step Westbrook Baptist church's side and God is punishing the US for homosexuality. FYI those people are judging people and God will punish them.
You already know

Bonnots Mill, MO

#18 Mar 5, 2013
To Original Poster:
I think you already know the answer...not whether or not you will go to heaven or hell but whether or not what you are experiencing is right or wrong.
You should not put your sins in God's lap...saying that if you and this girl get together is what God wants because He lets it happen is as ridiculous as saying that God wants little babies to be cut into pieces by abortion because He lets it happen.
God gives us freedom....but he also gives us guidelines to live by. He wants us to have a good and happy life here in this world and he wants us to have eternal life in "heaven". But whether we do or not is up to us! It is your choice whether you choose Life or Death!
Homosexuality, whether male or female is an abomination according to God's word. This isn't my judgment...it is God's. The reason God does not want us to engage in this kind of sin is because of how very harmful it is. It will end up destroying you, ultimately.
Don't confuse your emotional or sexual feelings with what might be right or wrong. This other girl is tempting you and you are being stimulated. Trying to find justification for going through with it does not make it right.
You have come on Topix to ask for wisdom....the place you need to go is to the Lord Jesus - nobody on this web site cares about you. But He gave His life for you!!!!! Seek Him first and you will be amazed at what He will do with your life.
yesdear

United States

#19 Mar 5, 2013
You already know wrote:
To Original Poster:
I think you already know the answer...not whether or not you will go to heaven or hell but whether or not what you are experiencing is right or wrong.
You should not put your sins in God's lap...saying that if you and this girl get together is what God wants because He lets it happen is as ridiculous as saying that God wants little babies to be cut into pieces by abortion because He lets it happen.
God gives us freedom....but he also gives us guidelines to live by. He wants us to have a good and happy life here in this world and he wants us to have eternal life in "heaven". But whether we do or not is up to us! It is your choice whether you choose Life or Death!
Homosexuality, whether male or female is an abomination according to God's word. This isn't my judgment...it is God's. The reason God does not want us to engage in this kind of sin is because of how very harmful it is. It will end up destroying you, ultimately.
Don't confuse your emotional or sexual feelings with what might be right or wrong. This other girl is tempting you and you are being stimulated. Trying to find justification for going through with it does not make it right.
You have come on Topix to ask for wisdom....the place you need to go is to the Lord Jesus - nobody on this web site cares about you. But He gave His life for you!!!!! Seek Him first and you will be amazed at what He will do with your life.
thank you !!!! Thats wjat i tried to say. AMEN question .... Is a person like the above; writen in the book of life ?
saved

Waynesville, MO

#20 Mar 5, 2013
I have to agree with "you already know" You shouldn't ask God to let you be with this girl if its right. Heres my reasoning, God gave us free will to chose what pathes we wanted to take in life, he gave his son Jesus to die on the cross so that we may chose the right way. But heres where so many get tricked, the devil hates us! he does everything in his power to get us to go the wrong way, so he throws something at us, like what you are going through, to trip us up and send us to hell with him. I don't know who you are but I pray that you stay strong and don't give in to the temptation of becoming intamite with this other woman, its great to have a friend who loves you but it should never cross that line. If I may make a suggestion, go talk to a pastor, or someone from a church who you feel comfortable with and talk to them, ask them to show you what the bible says about this and have them explain it to you. Because these people on here don't care what might happen to you, or if its right or wrong

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