Never, Ever date a single Mom
Please tell me

Abingdon, VA

#202 Nov 13, 2012
I am being serious, please tell me why these single mothers were in such a hurry to bred? I don't understand. It is not a race with anyone to see who can get pregnant first! Being a parent is such a big responsibility that shouldn't be taken lightly but yet they just can't wait and then want to bash someone because they don't want to take on there problems. What is wrong with enjoying life a little, getting settled into adulthood and all the responsibilities that go with that before taking on the responsibilities of being a parent. I am not saying not to ever have kids just what is the hurry? Will someone please answer me because I truly do not understand.
Bri

Kissimmee, FL

#203 Nov 13, 2012
Really Sassy wrote:
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Well, it's easy to see why you're not married, also. Maybe, you and Bachelor should team up. You Guys are perfect for each other.
LOL no person with a brain should disagree with me. It's 100% true. I will be married when the time is right. I'm too smart to get married until I'm completely ready.
Waiting

Abingdon, VA

#204 Nov 13, 2012
Please tell me wrote:
I am being serious, please tell me why these single mothers were in such a hurry to bred? I don't understand. It is not a race with anyone to see who can get pregnant first! Being a parent is such a big responsibility that shouldn't be taken lightly but yet they just can't wait and then want to bash someone because they don't want to take on there problems. What is wrong with enjoying life a little, getting settled into adulthood and all the responsibilities that go with that before taking on the responsibilities of being a parent. I am not saying not to ever have kids just what is the hurry? Will someone please answer me because I truly do not understand.
I am still waiting, will someone please tell me?
Guyver001

North Tonawanda, NY

#205 Nov 13, 2012
I can only guess, but one huge possibility is the biological clock that all women have. They only have so many years to be fertile for having a baby, and then eventually it expires. It just happens, and can have an influence on lack of judgment.
Waiting wrote:
<quoted text>I am still waiting, will someone please tell me?
KISS IT

Albuquerque, NM

#206 Nov 21, 2012
Bachelor wrote:
At least not while sober
Single mothers. Well, here are MY issues with them (This pertains to a woman who had a kid and never married, or divorced her husband because “She wasn’t happy”. If she had a good marriage and he died, there might be wiggle room, but I still wouldn’t date her).
1: She decided to have a kid without a husband. This demonstrates terrible, selfish values. It also shows that she thinks of men as sperm donors and child support payers, NOT husbands & fathers. What will happen if you knock her up? Get ready to pay up for a kid that you won’t get to be a real dad to.
2: In some states, you can be responsible for child support by just living with her. I don’t want to pay for kids that aren’t mine. Do you?
3: False allegations of child abuse. It isn’t likely, but I don’t want to take that chance. Getting branded with a big “M” on your forehead (For Molester) will WRECK YOUR LIFE. It will never go away. Too big a risk.
4: Relationship aren’t easy as it is. Add a minor child and it really complicates the issue. Do you want to deal with her kid(s) too? You won’t be their dad and they will know it. Their mom already fucked up their life by not having a dad for them, and is fucking it up more by bringing in “Revolving door boyfriends” into their life.
5: Lots of single moms have financial problems. You will be obligated to help pay for sitters, food, braces, on and on. For children that aren’t yours. Get the credit card out!
6: There is NO reason to date one. Millions of women in this country are single with no kids, and in every age range. Go younger if you have to. Don’t waste your time with a woman that has PROVEN that she doesn’t want a husband for her and dad for her kids. Do you think she will change her mind for you? That she will forget her utter contempt for husbands and fathers just for you? Sure she will.
I run into single mothers once in a while, and when “I have a kid” is revealed, that’s the end of the conversation for me. I will be polite but I will still walk off, because I don’t want anything to do with them. And neither will any other smart man.
Dear Bachelor I couldn't agree with you more. I am tired of seeing these nasty fat single moms overpopulate the earth and ALWAYS have an excuse for being a single mom. Single moms are among the dumbest human beings man has known. They will ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS blame the man for the kid and never take any blame even though they desrve more than half of it.

Any man who dates a single mom must be desperate for that poon. If you have any self respect you'll stop dating her. Women are too stupid to do any critical tinking, that's why there are so many single moms. No one stops and thinks "hey children are expensive. They take time, and energy to raise properly. I should wait until I find a responsible partner and we have the finicial means to support the child." Instead these nasty whores will spread their legs to any loser and get pregnant. Than, Uncle Sam gets another sharp pain in his chest because he realizes that this will be another single mom that he will pay for.

Look at all of the single moms calling you names and making stupid jokes. They will grow old and fat and no sane man with money will want them now or ever. Only the broke a** desperate types with no teeth in their mouths and been in and out of jail will hit that stretched out single mom nookie.

Congrats single mom cows, you make everything harder fro responsible people.

Since: Mar 12

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#207 Nov 21, 2012
KISS IT wrote:
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Women are too stupid to do any critical tinking, that's why there are so many single moms.
We aren't capable of critical "tinking" but we ARE damn good at "thinking".

I "think" if you was standing in front of me, I would smack you upside your stupid head.

Since: Mar 12

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#208 Nov 21, 2012
Well I did it again.

I cussed.

Someone will probably tell me that I'm the reason that people don't go to church.
doe resident

Jonesborough, TN

#209 Dec 8, 2012
AMERICANBYTHEGRACEOFGOD wrote:
Well I did it again.
I cussed.
Someone will probably tell me that I'm the reason that people don't go to church.
On your profile you profess to read the Bible and belong to Jesus.It is hypocrits like you and others who proclaim to know Jesus is the reason people do not have a desire to go to church.It is not only your cussing, it is the vulgar language you use and the threats. Don't pretend to be something you are not.I don't know you and where you live but GOD does.

Since: Mar 12

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#210 Dec 8, 2012
doe resident wrote:
<quoted text>On your profile you profess to read the Bible and belong to Jesus.It is hypocrits like you and others who proclaim to know Jesus is the reason people do not have a desire to go to church.It is not only your cussing, it is the vulgar language you use and the threats. Don't pretend to be something you are not.I don't know you and where you live but GOD does.
Let me tell you something. You want to go through this forum and look for posts that I've made were I have used cuss words but you yourself have no concern for the Mexicans that were born into poverty and want to come to America to make money to send to their starving mother, father, brother, sister.
You bitch and complain because they can't speak english.

I would rather be guilty of using foul language when I stand before God on judgement day than to be ask by God why I didn't care if a human being went hungry. You disgust me.
You want to make a big deal about me cussing but you yourself think that if a Mexican can't speak English that they should have to stay in Mexico living in a slum with no food, filthy water and basic necessities!!!! You're pathetic.

Don't you talk about God and my sins and sit there with your racist hate filled attitude.

Since: Mar 12

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#211 Dec 8, 2012
doe resident wrote:
<quoted text> Don't pretend to be something you are not.I don't know you and where you live but GOD does.
I don't pretend. You're confused. The people that "pretend" are the people that are always saying "I,I,I,I", I don't do this , I don't do that, I would never do that, I would never do this but in reality they are going to church on Sunday and having a sex affair on Monday but they never let anyone know, noone ever finds out and they are considered the pillar of the community.

Now me, I don't hide my sins, I admit that I sin.

If I sinned but say "I,I,I,I", I don't do that, I have never done this, that is pretending. Pretending is doing bad things behind closed doors but in public "pretending" to do no wrong.

I have publicly said that I sin.

So your theory is debunked.

Since: Mar 12

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#212 Dec 8, 2012
OOOOHHHHHHHH! I forgot!
You said to IKHW
"I thought you died, darn"

YOU want IKHW dead and you are judging me because I have used cuss words!

But yourself one of those big industrial size brooms.

Since: Mar 12

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#213 Dec 8, 2012
Buy, buy yourself one of those big industrial size brooms.

You probably don't have enough sense to know what I'm talking about.
maximus

Dearborn, MI

#214 Dec 26, 2012
most marriages with kids already end up in divorce, so if you marry a single mom your gonna be divorced, and remember they are not gonna love you, but love your father position to their child. They will use you to fill the spot not because they love you. Its a raw deal, GET OUT quick. As for the women above screaming and bitching, those are your single moms, bitchy hatefull and miserable STAY AWAY
Hes Right

Leesburg, VA

#215 Dec 26, 2012
maximus wrote:
most marriages with kids already end up in divorce, so if you marry a single mom your gonna be divorced, and remember they are not gonna love you, but love your father position to their child. They will use you to fill the spot not because they love you. Its a raw deal, GET OUT quick. As for the women above screaming and bitching, those are your single moms, bitchy hatefull and miserable STAY AWAY
Sadly what you say is true. My first wife had a child. She told a great story about how awful her first husband was. I overlooked the real truth because of her beautiful blue eyes and really outstanding boobs. Well the boobs drooped and she blamed me for everything wrong in her life. When I had all I could take and left, she said exactly the same things about me she said about her first. Also said them about her third husband. It becomes a lifestyle with monthly checks as trophies. A built in baby sitter in the ex spouse is a nice benefit for them. Now that that her old c$%t has dried up and those once erect boobs are down to her waist she is holding on for dear life to number four. Its actually quite common. I have been happily married for over 20 years to my wife with no kids coming into the marriage. Most (not all) single Moms are losers to be avoided for any use other than a quickie. Even that is risky these days.
ballinSINGLEmom

United States

#216 Jan 3, 2013
oh you silly naive little man...nay boy...I would like to address each of your bullets
1. I am a single mother, I was not the selfish one in this situation. The guy I had my son with and I were engaged for a year before we got pregnant. after he was born I discovered that my fiance had a nasty drug habit that he had been hiding from me for years. I had no choice but to lease, I did the exact opposite if being selfish. rather than stay and let my child be raised in an environment where he could possibly come in contact with drugs/alcohol I left for his sake. I have not sought child support nor do I plan on it. his father has not come to see him in 6 months...not because I refuse to let him but because his drugs are more important.
2. read up on your state laws because there is more to that than you are reading into.
3. Wow, you are just creepy if molestation crosses your mind when you consider dating a woman with a child and maybe u NEED the big M on your forehead
4. Not all women are whores like you think we are...I have dated since my split with my fiance and only 1 man has been around my son. he is now my husband and treats my son like he is his own. It takes a real man to do that.
5. I went to college, I work in health care management, I make amazing money. never once has my husband had to come out of pi jet for my son. never once have I asked him to. every financial aspect for my son comes from me and only me. the only time he spends money on my son is if he out of the blue wants to get him something or birthdays and holidays.
And finally...
6. You need to learn a woman's situation before you judge her as not wanting a husband or a "baby daddy". Some of us just had to do what was right for the sake of our children's safety and development. we sq rift ed our own needs to make sure our children have the sake est life possible.
Don't ever underestimate the lengths a woman will go to in order to protect her baby/babies. I don't know what happened to you in your life to make you so bitter towards this forum but I pray for you. children are the most amazing gift from god. You were once like that...remember....I pray for closed minded people line you.
Oh My Gosh

West Jefferson, NC

#217 Jan 4, 2013
ballinSINGLEmom wrote:
Don't ever underestimate the lengths a woman will go to in order to protect her baby/babies.
Just what these guys said. Anything including cheating , lying and stealing to get a provider.

A single Mom who has never been married. The real killer of the species. Loved marriage and kid so much she couldn't wait till married to get pregnant. Very irresponsible! Put the children in an orphanage and get them out of your mess. It will never get married you know, because you are a loser and you will raise the kid to be a loser just like his Dad and Mom. Shoo fly.

Tell me - are you the type that after a relationship ends you frantically try to lose weight and work out to attract the next victim?
Sad

Jonesborough, TN

#218 Jan 5, 2013
Oh My Gosh wrote:
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Just what these guys said. Anything including cheating , lying and stealing to get a provider.
A single Mom who has never been married. The real killer of the species. Loved marriage and kid so much she couldn't wait till married to get pregnant. Very irresponsible! Put the children in an orphanage and get them out of your mess. It will never get married you know, because you are a loser and you will raise the kid to be a loser just like his Dad and Mom. Shoo fly.
Tell me - are you the type that after a relationship ends you frantically try to lose weight and work out to attract the next victim?
Wow, you have a lot of hostility! You give yourself away in your post.
Yes Yes yes

West Jefferson, NC

#219 Jan 5, 2013
Sad wrote:
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Wow, you have a lot of hostility! You give yourself away in your post.
I understand. You change the subject instead of answering. You are a loser. Your kids will be losers too. Fat unwed Moms and bastard kids. Not exactly the fabric of a productive society. They take, take, take - never giving. Welfare, foodstamps, WIC, school lunches etc. etc. etc. Tell me, without changing the subject, what positive have you ever created or contributed to society? Unwed Moms are a like leeches on the world. I'll even bet your Mom was just like you.It tends to run in families.

But them little "childern". They's "miraculs" and "blessins". At least in Johnson County. Every where else they are leeches.
HHHHMMMM

Gaffney, SC

#220 Jan 5, 2013
Yes Yes yes wrote:
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I understand. You change the subject instead of answering. You are a loser. Your kids will be losers too. Fat unwed Moms and bastard kids. Not exactly the fabric of a productive society. They take, take, take - never giving. Welfare, foodstamps, WIC, school lunches etc. etc. etc. Tell me, without changing the subject, what positive have you ever created or contributed to society? Unwed Moms are a like leeches on the world. I'll even bet your Mom was just like you.It tends to run in families.
But them little "childern". They's "miraculs" and "blessins". At least in Johnson County. Every where else they are leeches.
What about the mothers that planned to stay married to their husband, the father of their child/children but found out that her husband was sexually abusing the children and took the children and left to keep them safe.

Are these mothers takers that never give?
doe resident

Jonesborough, TN

#221 Jan 5, 2013
HHHHMMMM wrote:
<quoted text> What about the mothers that planned to stay married to their husband, the father of their child/children but found out that her husband was sexually abusing the children and took the children and left to keep them safe.
Are these mothers takers that never give?
Anyone who stands by and allows these live-in boyfriends OR the fathers to abuse their children are just as guilty.It sickens me when I see this woman with children and the man is slapping them around or threatening them in public.You can imagine what goes on at home! The kids are not the same race so these creeps probly are not their father.
What happened to that mexican who molested the child at school? Was this not going on at home also and was the so-called mother prosecuted?

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