calgon1976

Minot, ND

#21 Sep 27, 2008
I also work and pay for everything i have. I am a tax payer to. I want nothing to do with him either but he does have children that are his responsibility. Im beginning to think you know him. what kind of person defends a man that abondens his children. My children are owed 10 000 dollars. I haven't got anything for a very long time and probably wont I was just following up on a lead.
Ozarkian

Newtown, PA

#22 Sep 27, 2008
calgon1976 wrote:
I also work and pay for everything i have. I am a tax payer to. I want nothing to do with him either but he does have children that are his responsibility. Im beginning to think you know him. what kind of person defends a man that abondens his children. My children are owed 10 000 dollars. I haven't got anything for a very long time and probably wont I was just following up on a lead.
I am not defending anyone. I merely believe equal rights include men's and father's rights. Life is not just about women's rights and breast cancer.
Ozarkian

Newtown, PA

#23 Sep 27, 2008
Ozarkian wrote:
<quoted text>I am not defending anyone. I merely believe equal rights include men's and father's rights. Life is not just about women's rights and breast cancer.
In fact, in many ways you have it made: 1. You do not have to argue with an ex about how to raise your children. 2. You get to make all the healthcare and school decisions yourself. 3. You do not have to the time you have with your children. I wish you would take a fresh look and nurture your children and help them to become good citizens. It is within your power to do that without any help from anyone. May God bless you and your children.
calgon1976

Minot, ND

#24 Sep 27, 2008
I believe in equal rights to. Whoever is going to be the most stable, take good care of the kids. Should be the custodial parent. weather that be the mom or dad. One of my good friends she is the mom and the dad has the kids most of the time For the most part i do it all by myself and very proud of myself for doing that.My kids are awesome.
Ozarkian

Newtown, PA

#25 Sep 27, 2008
calgon1976 wrote:
I believe in equal rights to. Whoever is going to be the most stable, take good care of the kids. Should be the custodial parent. weather that be the mom or dad. One of my good friends she is the mom and the dad has the kids most of the time For the most part i do it all by myself and very proud of myself for doing that.My kids are awesome.
I admire that. I just think you are wasting valuable time and energy trying to find him (no I do not know him). Enjoy the kids, be a good mom, don't turn them against their dad (no matter what you might personally feel), and you will see that you have good kids who make the world a better place. At least you do not have to share them with someone who you probably would not agree with on how to raise them anyway. When they are grown, they will appreciate the sacrifices you made.
Ang

Wheatland, MO

#26 Oct 11, 2008
This blows my mind! There is no excuse for a man or woman not being responsible for their children. Financially or emotionally.
guest

Barnhart, MO

#27 Mar 15, 2009
seriously ozarkian you need to be worrying about yourself and leave this lady alone. it's none of your business and you are acting like a bored pathetic loser, bitching at this lady for no damn reason. Get a life and maybe worry about getting some sleep so you can go to your three jobs than harrassing this poor woman for something that she can't help. I was a child that grew up without my "dead beat dad" and I personally agree with her if he is running around avoiding her he deserves to be found and pay. Get over yourself and go back to your own pathetic life you loser.
SAMMI

Nashville, TN

#28 Apr 17, 2009
Calgon
What is this guys date of birth or age and where was he born. I'm sure there are alot of dead men out there with the same name.
Ozarkian

Sparta, IL

#29 May 4, 2009
Guest, you have me all wrong. The mom solicited input and she is getting input. Unfortunately, for you, you sound like a bitter loser. If you only knew what my life is like YOU WOULD BE SO JEALOUS!!! Ha! Ha! Ha! I think you need to get a life -- one that is not so bitter and angry!
calgon1976

Minot, ND

#30 May 19, 2009
feb 12 1974 darline and alvin picconatto are his parentas. please email me at [email protected]
SAMMI

Nashville, TN

#31 May 24, 2009
Do u have any pictures of this guy or any other information? I've talked to people who have known this man since childhood and there is no indication that he ever had any kids. How many children do u have? Jon is very vague about his past and this is a concern to me. I find myself in a difficult position. The date of birth is close but not exactly but for some reason I feel like this may be the same guy. Any other information u could supply would be helpful.
SAMMI

Nashville, TN

#32 May 24, 2009
Could u please supply more information? I have the feeling that we are talking about the same guy even though the date of birth and parental information are different. Is there any other personal information that u could share with me. This guy seems almost to good to be true to me and he is very vague about his past except that he was involved with someone for about 12 years and was really hurt. He denies any children belonging to him being born but I get the feeling that he is running from something from his past. According to people who have known since childhood, they say he is a really good guy and all but than again I am a little leary about something that seems too perfect.
SAMMI

Nashville, TN

#33 May 24, 2009
Does Mr. J. Picconatto have any identifying marks or tattos?
SAMMI

Nashville, TN

#34 May 24, 2009
What about any identifying tatoos or scars. This would help in finding out if this is the same guy? How long has it been since u have seen or made contact with Jon? He probably moved around alot being a roofer. Just want to be positive instead of just assuming.
calgon1976

Minot, ND

#35 May 25, 2009
feb 23 1974 i wrote it wrong and didnt realize it. we have 3 kids together. but he hasn't seen them in like 5 yrs. last time i knew he had a tattoo heart on his left upper arm i believe. He probaly drives an old truck that is what he likes. Drinks a lot last time i heard any info about him. As far as i know he doesn't have a drivers liscence. I will try and see if i can find any pics.
calgon1976

Minot, ND

#36 May 26, 2009
we were together for 9 yrs. He has told people the kids aren't his but he signed t he birth certificates and said they were his when we were together. these people who know him how long have they known him I can almost guarantee they haven't known him as long as they say they have
SAMMI

Nashville, TN

#37 May 28, 2009
They have known Jon befor he was adopted and was living with his abusive parents and then later on after the adoption. Were u two together for the entire 9 years or was it an on again and off again relationship? Sorry but I have alot of questions for my own personal reasons. This is the same Jon that u are inquiring about and he has agreed to pay child support. Your right he says he doesn't believe he is their biological father but there are tests available to determine that. Please keep me updated and informed because Jon wants to step up to the plate and do the right thing.
SAMMI

Nashville, TN

#38 May 28, 2009
Jon no longer drinks and currently drives a newer truck. We are building a new house and we have been doing alot of the work ourselves.He owns alot of roofing equipment that he uses for work and he seems to have his life pretty much together thats why I'm a little surprised that we were talking about the same person. I've always had the feeling that he was haunted by something from the past and sooner or later it would catch uup with him.
calgon1976

Minot, ND

#39 May 28, 2009
And exactly how is he going do to that. He need to get a job and pay support. Please be honest with me I have no tiem for games. I want nothing to do with him. His own parents don't even know if he is alive. we were together for the nine years. My mom even let him move in with us cause he was home less. Then when I became old enough and moved out I took care of him. He was the first guy I ever slept with. And never cheated on him. But im sure he filled you're head full of lies.
calgon1976

Minot, ND

#40 May 28, 2009
He drives a new truck has roofing tools. But hasn't paid child supprt in years yeah sound like he still is selfish. Why not even a bday card. He couldn't even send a card with a walmart card so they could go get something for them self.

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