how many chances should you give some...

how many chances should you give someone?

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wondering

United States

#1 Oct 28, 2008
if they keep screwing up, why should you keep trying?
wade

Mount Sterling, KY

#2 Oct 28, 2008
I was with a girl for 3 years and she screwed me over 5 times and got preg by another guy and i still took her back and she just done it to me again, so im done this time! You just cant help when you love someone but you'll know when to give up
Needing to know

Owensboro, KY

#3 Oct 28, 2008
Thats what I really need to know
ssff

Paris, KY

#4 Oct 28, 2008
what is this suppose to mean? like in a relationship or getting straightened up?
rat teeth

Morehead, KY

#5 Oct 28, 2008
3 times then thats it
wondering

Mount Sterling, KY

#6 Oct 28, 2008
it means both. I have a boyfriend who loves me very much. He's never cheated on me or anything like that but he keeps screwing his life up. He's back in jail now and I don't know if I can take it again. He knew what he was doing was going to catch up with him but he did it anyway. Is this going to continue the rest of our lives together?
local

Mount Sterling, KY

#7 Nov 2, 2008
unfortunately it probably will keep happening.
the real tbone

Warner Robins, GA

#8 Nov 3, 2008
wade wrote:
I was with a girl for 3 years and she screwed me over 5 times and got preg by another guy and i still took her back and she just done it to me again, so im done this time! You just cant help when you love someone but you'll know when to give up
She'd be gone!!!!!!!!!!she knows that whenever it gets rough out there she has a place to roost. give her the boot!!!!!!!
the real tbone

Warner Robins, GA

#9 Nov 3, 2008
wondering wrote:
it means both. I have a boyfriend who loves me very much. He's never cheated on me or anything like that but he keeps screwing his life up. He's back in jail now and I don't know if I can take it again. He knew what he was doing was going to catch up with him but he did it anyway. Is this going to continue the rest of our lives together?
get him checked for bipolar or some other mental disorder or he's just a slow learner. Maybe he needs to be where he is. Is he a doper, if so then there's your answer. move on there are guys who have never been to jail and wont ever go. Meet a nice guy.........
lil red

Louisville, KY

#10 Nov 3, 2008
Sometimes when you love someone you believe the lies and false promises that it will get better, and/or they will act better. And for a while it seems to work, but most of the time you cant teach an old dog new tricks. "When it comes to love, you have to be selfish" and think about yourself no matter how bad it hurts... easier said than done, but you will be better in the long run.
there now

Manchester, KY

#11 Nov 3, 2008
Im right there with you. I just left my husband because he was ruining his life with drugs and lies. You want to believe that they will change but they have to want it. You cant do it for them. My advice is get out while you can. If he wants to get better he will if not at least you will be safe and better off. Trust me from experience!
choke on the smoke

Mount Sterling, KY

#12 Nov 10, 2008
I could'nt agree more
nocheatertoleran ce

United States

#13 Nov 10, 2008
rat teeth wrote:
3 times then thats it
ONCE is enough! Once a cheater always a cheater!!
TOE JOE

West Liberty, KY

#14 Nov 10, 2008
ur a beautiful girl and there is someone out there that luvs u and really cares about u, but the desision of getting hurt over and over again or being loved is all up to you
jkm

Morehead, KY

#15 Nov 10, 2008
wade wrote:
I was with a girl for 3 years and she screwed me over 5 times and got preg by another guy and i still took her back and she just done it to me again, so im done this time! You just cant help when you love someone but you'll know when to give up
Wade....shes done it enough....I would say 3 times and its over but really your just setting yourself up to get hurt again is my oppinion...I know how you feel though...I dated a guy for 3 yrs and he just came back wanting to be with me...and it would be his 3rd chance and i just looked at is as...we are better friends...he is still on drugs and drinking and i dont want my life to go back to that..so im staying with my boyfriend who i love very much bc hes better for me... so if you look back and see that your life will be something you dont want it to be...then do it for you not her...if you think it will be much better and you will be happy and in love then go for it... and but if this is wade c. I will kick your but lol...No shes not worth it!
my mans in jail

Mount Sterling, KY

#16 Nov 10, 2008
TOE JOE wrote:
ur a beautiful girl and there is someone out there that luvs u and really cares about u, but the desision of getting hurt over and over again or being loved is all up to you
which comment are you replying to?
tbone

Kathleen, GA

#17 Nov 10, 2008
if you want a fixer upper that's what you get.
Big_Brandi

Mount Sterling, KY

#18 Nov 10, 2008
tbone is your name jeffrey arvin?
tbone

Kathleen, GA

#19 Nov 10, 2008
Big_Brandi wrote:
tbone is your name jeffrey arvin?
nope, sorry it's not. not from the mount
TOE JOE

United States

#20 Nov 10, 2008
my mans in jail wrote:
<quoted text> which comment are you replying to?
im replying 2 the question

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