Do you think a three sum will ruin a ...

Do you think a three sum will ruin a marriage?

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Wild One

Cleveland, GA

#1 Jan 1, 2009
My husband and I were wanting to try a three sum.Just with another woman. Not another man.
Do you think it will ruin our marraige?
Old School

Morristown, TN

#2 Jan 1, 2009
Are you a jealous person ? Is the other woman prettier ,better in bed ,Would he leave ya if she was ? Are you gonna divorce him for cheating if he does ? I wouldn't ask my wife !
Jackie

Morristown, TN

#3 Jan 1, 2009
Why not another man?

I guess he wouldnt go for that but expects you to go for another woman.

I would say the marraige is already toast.
Bandit

Malvern, PA

#4 Jan 1, 2009
Jackie I am with you
Wild One

Cleveland, GA

#5 Jan 1, 2009
Old School wrote:
Are you a jealous person ? Is the other woman prettier ,better in bed ,Would he leave ya if she was ? Are you gonna divorce him for cheating if he does ? I wouldn't ask my wife !
No I am not a jealous person. No she is not prettier. Have not had another woman yet to join us. The only way that I would leave him is if that he done it behind my back. We are not just husband and wife we are best friends to.

We have not ever given each other any reason to think that we have even been out on each other.

This is just a fantsy of ours. You only live once why not try new things.
Conchita

Dillon, SC

#6 Jan 1, 2009
It would send my husband to an early grave.
Opinion 101

Morristown, TN

#7 Jan 1, 2009
If that is your fantasy WHY DID YOU GET MARRIED? Did you listen to your vows? Don't recall it metioning "another sexual partner". Jackie hit the nail on the head. Your marriage is already toast if your considering this activity. My wife is my best friend, too. If I considered doing the horizontal momba with anyone else, even with her present, it would be a total insult to the integrety of our relationship. What kind of crazy relationship do you have? Whatever the answer....it won't last long, I promise.
Old School

Morristown, TN

#8 Jan 1, 2009
Good luck with that ! Cheating is not a new thing ! At least I think it's cheating (scratching my head) Is it cheating if your married and your having sex with another woman and your wife at the same time ? What happens if the third person introduces an STD into your marriage ? Better think this one through !
Jackie

Morristown, TN

#9 Jan 1, 2009
Wild One wrote:
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No I am not a jealous person. No she is not prettier. Have not had another woman yet to join us. The only way that I would leave him is if that he done it behind my back. We are not just husband and wife we are best friends to.
We have not ever given each other any reason to think that we have even been out on each other.
This is just a fantsy of ours. You only live once why not try new things.
Then why not another man? Why not a gang bang?

You only live once!
Wrong Place

Bean Station, TN

#10 Jan 1, 2009
Is this the right forum for this discussion?
Jackie

Morristown, TN

#11 Jan 1, 2009
Do you think a three sum will ruin a marriage?

You have to ask that?

If you vaule your marriage at all why even take a chance on something that might ruin it. And you know it might or you wouldnt ask!

And as for as only living once.

Why not ask.." Do you think if I do Meth everyday it will ruin a marriage"? Try it after all you only live once!

Wild One

Cleveland, GA

#12 Jan 1, 2009
Well I was just kinda looking for someone. Thought that we might have someone to be interested.
Opinion 101

Morristown, TN

#13 Jan 1, 2009
I'm sure you can find plenty of volunteers....check your local "trailer park". Call JERRY SPRINGER I've seen several on there that wouldn't hesitate to participate with you and your "best friend" husband, and count the days until your divorced. Literally. You must be really young and nieve. Take it from an old man... introduce another woman into your sexual relationship with your husband and your "opening the flood gates". Hope you enjoy it while it lasts. BUT IT WON'T. WORD.
tallman

Panama City, FL

#14 Jan 1, 2009
...either something is lacking in your private bedroom relationship to want a third party - you know trying to compensate for something that is missing...if you were actually ok with the event, you wouldn't have posted on here for advice...your conscience is telling you something...might want to listen up!

in my opinion - whomever is requesting this type of activity in a marriage is probably bored or looking for a change...might not be a road you want to travel...outcome may be different than expected...
Opinion 101

Morristown, TN

#15 Jan 1, 2009
Amen!
not a swinger

Morristown, TN

#16 Jan 1, 2009
I absolutely loved the show swingers, and hope it will be back.
BUT, if you are into that, then it should work both ways. Woman, and man.
If he is not willing to share you with a man, then you should not share him with a woman.
I'm married and think that either situation would turn both of you on!!
Go for it, supposedly there are lots of swingers out there.
I see nothing wrong with it. Both parties MUST be willing to share tho, that's when the problems arise.
good luck!

“LOOK OUT TOPIX”

Since: Oct 08

Morristown,Tn

#17 Jan 1, 2009
Bandit wrote:
Jackie I am with you
Im with Bandit and Jackie
Rey L Fwol

Morristown, TN

#18 Jan 1, 2009
Let your conscious be your guide.(And his guide) It's only skin baby. Think about the mourning after. If nothing has changed, then you and hubby are solid. People are strange and you have to live your own lives. Also, this seems like a privet matter that you both would like to pursue, why ask for permission or approval from strangers? Please Use Protection ?.........Can I be invited to Take Video ???? ROFLMAO

Since: Oct 08

Location hidden

#19 Jan 1, 2009
Rey L Fwol wrote:
Let your conscious be your guide.(And his guide) It's only skin baby. Think about the mourning after. If nothing has changed, then you and hubby are solid. People are strange and you have to live your own lives. Also, this seems like a privet matter that you both would like to pursue, why ask for permission or approval from strangers? Please Use Protection ?.........Can I be invited to Take Video ???? ROFLMAO
love it...video. Could you take the heat?

“Just little ol' me”

Since: Oct 08

Indy

#20 Jan 2, 2009
You are right, life is short and IF you want to try a 3 sum, then go for it. You might like it, you might not...but how will you know if you don't try??

I say to each their own!!

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