Neighbor

United States

#41 Jan 27, 2010
I have been Tammys neighbor for years. I have read about what happened and let me just say up front that I think it is horrible. No child should have to go through what that little one did. No one should for that matter. Anyhow, even though I disagree with what happened I do like Tammy and her family. I feel that Tammy was a kid herself. At eighteen you really have alot of growing up to do. We weren't there and we honestly don't know the complete situation. Obviously if her boyfriend was sick enough to do this to her son he didnt care what or who he hurt. I think she was a young girl scared to death. I'm not making excuses for her at all, but I honestly believe her boyfriend probably threatened her if she told anyone or if she tried to leave. Some of you may say you would have done this or that, but honestly we have all been in situations where we always said we wouldn't be or we would get out, but did we? No not always. Everybodys situation is different. I don't understand how anyone could purposely hurt a baby the way that cruel man did however, it is not for us to sit here and judge him or Tammy. They will answer for the things they have done in their lives just as we will someday. Tammy has a good life now. She has a beautiful daughter whom she and her husband do anything for. They love their daughter. Instead of searching for answers to questions, people let them live their life. God knows she has asked herself a billion times why? Let god be the one to pass judgement, not us.....
Bucky

Mooresville, NC

#42 Jan 27, 2010
Sam wrote:
Her whole family must have been trash, that post about her brother cut and pasted from the document on the website. There is no way I could watch anybody poke their finger in a babys rectum, I don't care if I even knew the baby or not, how did Scotty's uncle watch that and not rip Kerry Bowers to shreds. The stupid c**t must have come by it honest. Trashy people that don't deserve to breathe air.
Who made you God? So all the people you decide to be "trashy" deserve not to live? What if someone considers YOU to be "trashy"?
Sam

Cookeville, TN

#43 Jan 27, 2010
Nobody made me god. I am entitled to my opinion. I am sure some people consider me trashy. You must have missed the part were the uncle watched Kerry Bowers poke his finger in little Scotty's rectum and did nothing. Tammy let Kerry beat Scotty to death. In my opinion that makes them trash.
cupcake

United States

#44 Jan 28, 2010
I just made the mistake of reading that trasnscript from the trial and it made me physically sick. That is the most disturbing thing I've ever read. How this 'woman'(using that term lightly) is still alive is beyond me. She admited she knew there were things wrong with the baby and choose to ignore it. If a someone is that sick to do all that to a baby,it doesn't stop when she comes home from work. That type of abuse had been going on for months,if not longer and she knew he was doing it because she lied at the hospital. She should have had her reproductive organs removed from her body and should still be in prison,or under it. I would like to meet this lady and spit in her face. To the neighbor,what kind of low life are you defending her? Did you read what I did? Oh but she was 18 and so young...blah,blah,blah I was 18 with a baby,a job, a house and never ever on my worst day touched my baby in a angry way. I know many young moms who wouldn't allow that to happen. She allowed it because she is worthless trash and loved that dog over her own baby. ANYONE who witnessed that abuse and didn't do anything about it should be in jail as well. And YES they're trash too. I feel some what better knowing these people will burn in hell for eternity. This poor baby. I think the sadest part was when the neighbor said the baby was happy until that dog came around and he started to shake. After all that abuse he still wanted to be happy,still wanted love. He and she both are sick sadist wastes of space that deserve to be burned like the trash they are. And ANYONE who defends them deserve the same. Oh and the defense saying because he smoked weed...I know plenty of people that have or had smoked weed and NONE then decide to pour boiling water on a babys face and then later pull off all the scabs.
Sick sad world where these people are still alive.
I think I'm going to hug my babies,this further proves why I don't trust anyone with my kids.
Lisa

Walland, TN

#45 Jan 28, 2010
You tell them 'cupcake'! You are 100% correct! I cant believe people STILL take up for this woman. It is awful SHE help kill Scotty because she knew what was going on! I too, was 18 and I had a child. I don't care what people say NOBODY better never lay a hand on my child like Kerry did. He did it cause he "got off" on Scotty's pain. Pure and Simple. I really can't believe she has another child. How would you feel (as a child) knowing mommy helped kill her baby brother? Is she scared she may do something to make her mom angry? Well, I would be. But Tammy probably told her daughter (If her daughter even knows) that Kerry did everything to Scotty, not her. Well, when she was told at the hospital Scotty had died, She said, Do you mean he died THIS TIME. I was in court ever single day, when Tammy & Kerry was on trial. She didn't shed one tear! Not even when the ME was going through EVERY SINGLE bruise,burn, broke bones,his legs being pulled apart so hard both of Scotty's hip joints were pulled out of the socket. THAT LAST INJURY WAS 2 "TWO" WEEKS OLD. NOW TELL ME SHE DIDN;T KNOW. Cause if you say that You are a liar!! he had tears to his anus and is penis was swollen cause they put a rubber band around it THEY were tryng to castrate this 21 month old BABY! Also, Tammy lied when she had taken Scotty for medical treatment in North Carolina. She lied about her name, Scotty's last name & her address. That PROVES she knew what was happening! Then when social services came in NC they ran and moved to Rogersville. Anyone who goes back and reads the court record then still defend her is IGNORANT!!
Lisa

Walland, TN

#46 Jan 28, 2010
Neighbor wrote:
I have been Tammys neighbor for years. I have read about what happened and let me just say up front that I think it is horrible. No child should have to go through what that little one did. No one should for that matter. Anyhow, even though I disagree with what happened I do like Tammy and her family. I feel that Tammy was a kid herself. At eighteen you really have alot of growing up to do. We weren't there and we honestly don't know the complete situation. Obviously if her boyfriend was sick enough to do this to her son he didnt care what or who he hurt. I think she was a young girl scared to death. I'm not making excuses for her at all, but I honestly believe her boyfriend probably threatened her if she told anyone or if she tried to leave. Some of you may say you would have done this or that, but honestly we have all been in situations where we always said we wouldn't be or we would get out, but did we? No not always. Everybodys situation is different. I don't understand how anyone could purposely hurt a baby the way that cruel man did however, it is not for us to sit here and judge him or Tammy. They will answer for the things they have done in their lives just as we will someday. Tammy has a good life now. She has a beautiful daughter whom she and her husband do anything for. They love their daughter. Instead of searching for answers to questions, people let them live their life. God knows she has asked herself a billion times why? Let god be the one to pass judgement, not us.....
You know what? Just because she was 18 doesnt give her the right to be stupid. You say you it is horrible. But you take up for her. She wasn't scared, DID YOU GO TO HER TRIAL?? I did, I was there every single day. She was NOT scared. She lied on the stand to protect her own ass. When she should of protected her child. Oh she was young, that is sorry excuse. When this happened I was 18 I had a child too. I grew up when I became a Mother. So whats your excuse now? Because I know you have got one. There is NO excuse. You said she asks herself Why? She had a job,that shows she wasn't stupid, at ANYTIME she could of put Scotty in the car and took him some place safe. Kerry wasn't at home every minute. He didn't hold her prisoner. She could of SAVED her baby. But she chose Kerry instead. I don't care what excuses YOUR going to come up with, Because YOU can NOT win this argument. I guarantee that. Oh yeah, I hope she asks herself why, I hope she feels Scotty's pain. She deserves no less because SHE could have stopped his pain, instead she helped kill her son because she didn't care. She didn't love her child or she would of protected him at all cost, even if it killed HER trying! Her Why's are useless now. She should NOT of ran from North Carolina when DHS was on to them. When she ran and took Kerry with her from NC to Rogersville, Right then, She signed Scottys death certificate! She had a choice Scotty didn't!
Lisa

Walland, TN

#47 Jan 28, 2010
Bucky wrote:
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Who made you God? So all the people you decide to be "trashy" deserve not to live? What if someone considers YOU to be "trashy"?
Trashy has NOTHING to do with this. You need to read the court records. They are on the computer, look them up. You will change your mind then (maybe0 IF you care about a 21 month old child being abused until he died. Look up Kerry Bowers. Look up Tammy Trexler. Look up Scotty. Read what this baby was put through! Do you care about children? If so when you read all of this I really hope it will make you understand, why people are so upset, that Tammy Trexler Winsted has another child, When she threw her first child away! He was nothing to her. She had Kerry, she didn't need Scotty. She wouldn't of lied so many times AFTER her son was dead IF she really loved him! He was murdered, so its to late for her to say she loves him now. She should of loved her son enough to protect him to save him. Instead she chose torture.
Sunshine

Maryville, TN

#48 Jan 28, 2010
When Kerry Bowers is released in 2011 back on to society- are there any watchdogs to warn people that he is in their midst-- that a monster has been unleashed??? The way I understand it is that he will have served his meager sentence for negligent homicide (should've been premeditated child murder) and he will be free to work at McDonald's or live close to your schools or work in our nursing homes, hospitals or anywhere around children and free to date women with little children or maybe even make some of his own; he's still young. I know there are people who follow these types of "released monsters" and send letters to their employers and the police depts in the areas they move to and warn the people in the neighborhoods where they move to, but I think it is the victims' family that usually does this... I can't see Tammy or her family warning anyone about Bowers or going out of their way to do anything- didn't protect her/their own then and why would they care about anyone else now- "I'm not about vigilante justice, but the people need to be warned about what is coming their way"-- same as sex offenders. For the record, I think he (Bowers)is/was a monster who deserved(s) to be executed and she deserved(s) a life sentence... can't go back and change anything- what can be done about warning the innocent in the near future????
Lisa

Walland, TN

#49 Jan 28, 2010
He comes up for parole (again) in 2011 but it says he wont get paroled. His release date is 10/15/2015. But I do understand what your feeling. It is scary. Personal question,I'm not going to put her last name, But do you know Kathrine?
OMG

Smyrna, TN

#50 Jan 28, 2010
Neighbor wrote:
I have been Tammys neighbor for years. I have read about what happened and let me just say up front that I think it is horrible. No child should have to go through what that little one did. No one should for that matter. Anyhow, even though I disagree with what happened I do like Tammy and her family. I feel that Tammy was a kid herself. At eighteen you really have alot of growing up to do. We weren't there and we honestly don't know the complete situation. Obviously if her boyfriend was sick enough to do this to her son he didnt care what or who he hurt. I think she was a young girl scared to death. I'm not making excuses for her at all, but I honestly believe her boyfriend probably threatened her if she told anyone or if she tried to leave. Some of you may say you would have done this or that, but honestly we have all been in situations where we always said we wouldn't be or we would get out, but did we? No not always. Everybodys situation is different. I don't understand how anyone could purposely hurt a baby the way that cruel man did however, it is not for us to sit here and judge him or Tammy. They will answer for the things they have done in their lives just as we will someday. Tammy has a good life now. She has a beautiful daughter whom she and her husband do anything for. They love their daughter. Instead of searching for answers to questions, people let them live their life. God knows she has asked herself a billion times why? Let god be the one to pass judgement, not us.....
OMG! ARE YOU KIDDING ME RIGHT NOW!?!? You ARE actually defending her actions and his! I will absolutely pass judgment on ANYONE that does those kinds of sick things to a child AND ANYONE who allows it to happen, watches it, knows it and does nothing to protect that child! At least that sick B!tch is alive to even ask her self WHY! Scotty isn't! He didn't have a chance or a voice. SHE was his voice and she chose to stay silent and let him die at the hands of a monster and as far as I'm concerned, her hands as well! The fact that she children now makes me so sick!! She put one in the ground ... I can't imagine what these children of hers now are going through. Whether she has one child now or more than one I don't know, but I know this, she should NOT have any children anywhere near her!!
cupcake

United States

#51 Jan 28, 2010
I like how neighbor says 'let them live their life...'
Oh like how she let her baby live his life. His short 21 months of pure hell.
She left him with that monster while she went out and went to work. If she was that scared if he was that controling he wouldn't let her out of his sight! If she loved that baby and was scared she had ample chance to leave when DCS investigated them in NC and let them protect them from him. No she chose to run and give her baby a death sentence. Above all else she was his mother as a mother its your job to protect your child,no matter what. She had to have changed his diaper and seen the rubberband on his privates as they tried to castrate him,or the burns on his butt or hernias on his privates or that his little legs were completely pulled away from his body only being held there with the skin. 1 diaper change in 2-4 weeks on her part and she had to have seen that. Or the horrible burns he had on his entire face that they pulled the scabs off of...how about the bloody BODY prints they found on the ceiling of the house...shall I go on?? Yeah I'm sure she's such a good mother now,such a good woman we should just leave alone...NO GOOD she does now will bring her back or prevent her from burning in hell. I hope she reads this and does the world a favor and does what should have been done to her long ago.
And when that monster gets out I hope someone does exactly what he did to that baby to him.
Lisa

Walland, TN

#52 Jan 28, 2010
Hopefully he is getting it done to him every night! I hope some of the guards 'look away' with people like him. Hopefully he isn't protected and he is in the general population. I would love to know how he is enjoying his time at West Tn. State Pen. I made a few days mistake on End Sentence date its 10/05/2015.

Since: Aug 08

Cookeville, TN

#53 Jan 28, 2010
Tammy may have been 18 but running from DCS showed she knew it was wrong to let that happen to her son.She is just as bad as Susan Smith wanted a "man" more than her child
Sunshine

Maryville, TN

#54 Jan 29, 2010
Lisa wrote:
He comes up for parole (again) in 2011 but it says he wont get paroled. His release date is 10/15/2015. But I do understand what your feeling. It is scary. Personal question,I'm not going to put her last name, But do you know Kathrine?
Uh, if that question was for me, "No, I don't know a Kathrine". And you are right on the parole and release dates- I got turned around there.
cupcake

United States

#55 Jan 29, 2010
Well I talked to my SIL who knows this case very well.
Does anyone know that Tammy had a baby while in jail??
And she asked for makeup for when she got released, and got it.
Sounds like a mourning mother to me.

“Stand up for what you believe!”

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#56 Jan 29, 2010
No I didn't know she had a baby in jail. I wonder how long she after she was in jail, did she give birth? In other words: Is Kerry Bowers a father?!?! OMG I HOPE NOT!!! Poor kid, having that as your sperm donor! Really, wanting makeup the day she was released? Wonder who came to pick her up?? You know how all these crazies 'fall in love' with ignorant people like Trexler/Winstead & Bowers. Makes you wonder if Richard was one of the crazies. He would have to be to have a child with her. How, when his daughter was young, Could he even TRUST her around his child?? That is unimaginable. Finally, I can't believe she even survived in prison to get released. Its a shame!

Since: Aug 08

Cookeville, TN

#57 Jan 29, 2010
What happened to that baby?
cupcake

United States

#58 Jan 29, 2010
I don't know, but the way she talked she got pregnant IN jail.
She also said they kept it secret where he went and what his charges were when he got there. For his protection. Really? For HIS protection,to keep a monster who beat a baby to death protected. I feel ashamed for our legal system.

Since: Aug 08

Cookeville, TN

#59 Jan 29, 2010
Yeah that about right keep him in segregation. I heard that were Tammy met her husband he worked @ jail.

“Stand up for what you believe!”

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#60 Mar 7, 2010
moonshinegrrl420 wrote:
Yeah that about right keep him in segregation. I heard that were Tammy met her husband he worked @ jail.
Hey Girl! Have you noticed they removed the thread on the Moshiem Forum? Since that is where she lives she that shows she read the post LOL before having it removed! Wonder what the last few comments were? It makes me wonder since she is on a lot of other forums and Moshiem Thread is the only one that has been removed.

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