Why do 40 + men like 20 year old girls?
Omg that is too funny

White Pine, TN

#102 Jan 23, 2012
hotter at 40 than 20 wrote:
i don't know why i'm a 40 year old woman dating a 20 year old man. i'm also dating a gorgeous 37 year old man who works out and is practically model material, plus he's better in bed & most would say he's hotter than the 20 year old in a lot of traditional ways.. muscle mass, height, fair hair, golden eyes.. but something about the wistfulness of the 20 yr old has consumed me. i wonder if the 2nd comment is true about a subconscious imperative, tho i have no children; i suspect it's something deep-seated. or maybe "it's a get it while you can" thing. howerever, i'm truly freak of nature who still gets carded at 40. i actually look like i'm in my 20s, not one single wrinkle on my face and a palpable glow. as for my body i do work out daily and eat clean, so i think my body's better than when i was young. i have more confidence now too. i don't think this is going to lead somewhere significant for me though.. i'm wasting precious time, obvs. but maybe it's just that forbidden fruit tastes soo sweeeeeet. especially in the heat of summer.
Honey I am young and hot. This older younger think sooooo makes me laugh. You need to realize he isn't interested in you outside what you can give him and I'm not talking about sex. Again I am young and listen to all this crap as my hom's talk Want me to tell you what they say about people like you? That the well is dry and if it wasn't for the free food, the money for gas and whatever else it is they get, they wouldn't give your drying up thang a second thought. And that is the frigging truth.
who cares

United States

#103 Jan 23, 2012
Im not 40. Calm down. That must have caught a nerve
red neck

Luttrell, TN

#104 Jan 23, 2012
us men dont care what u think,we just want our fortune cookie in the end,hehe
Omg that is too funny

White Pine, TN

#105 Jan 23, 2012
who cares wrote:
Im not 40. Calm down. That must have caught a nerve
If you're talking to me don't amuse yourself. Everything I said is the truth. Really, don't try to convience yourself I'm not right. lol lol lol
Chatter

United States

#106 Jan 23, 2012
One Who Knows wrote:
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Well, the reason is, when women hit their 40's, they hit peromenopause, which turns them into viscious, uncaring demons if they dont go to the doctor and get it fixed, which most wont because they are in denial about it and would rather be that way than save their relationship or marriage. They lose their sex drive, have mood swings, get mean & hateful and say hurtful things, get insecure about themselves and their relationships, stop being caring, want to spend all their time with their best friends and act like they they love their man, dont have sex with him or tell & show that they still love them, act like they could care less if they had a man or not, say and do things that simply run a man off. Then wonder why their man cheats and go bananas when they do.
Women in their 20's arent like that and dont do that, nor do they have all the baggage of past bad relationships that these women in their 40's have failed at and see everything from their past men in their current man and give him grief about something that aint even his fault. There is really no maturity difference in a 20 year old woman and a 50 year old woman. I have seen it. And the older ones are worse because of all of the dramatic baggage.
So if youre in your 40's and your man wants a girl in their 20's and not you, go to the doctor, get your self treated, get your sex drive back, and show your man that you still love him, want to be with him, and most of all, that you still desire him and want to please him so that he dont seek a drama free 20 something year old drama free girl to take care of his needs!
Like as these 40+ year old men don't have baggage. Give me a damn break. And P.S. all you 20 somethings out there thinking 40 is sooooo old and dried up, it's just around the corner for you too. You won't be young forever. I'd love for you to get a copy of this in about 10 or 15 years, so you can take it with you to the nursing home.
BUTCHER

United States

#107 Jan 23, 2012
it's probably because most females these days in their teens and twenty's are sluts looking for sugar daddy to buy and pay for everything.. and I'm not saying that to be a dick. females just know what they can get out of that little thing between their legs and they push it to the fullest. don't get me wrong there are some very nice females in this town though.
Booty Snatcher

Morristown, TN

#108 Jan 23, 2012
The younger the better,
The tighter the wetter,
A girl who is thin makes her boy grin,

To all you old ass fat ugly wrinkly old women no man wants you anymore.
We want young tight body hot little 18 year old girls to keep our blood flowing.
Lady MacBeth

Morristown, TN

#110 Jan 23, 2012
Booty Snatcher wrote:
The younger the better,
The tighter the wetter,
A girl who is thin makes her boy grin,
To all you old ass fat ugly wrinkly old women no man wants you anymore.
We want young tight body hot little 18 year old girls to keep our blood flowing.
Blood flowing to what? You need little girls to compensate for that little weiner and fat belly that hangs over your belt. Believe me, when the money is gone, the young girls leave for another loaded wallet.
Confident

Morristown, TN

#111 Jan 23, 2012
I am an older woman who gets hit on constantly by younger men. I do look younger than my age by several years, guess it's genetic. I am young at heart, and love life. I realized long ago, that age truly doesn't matter. A relationship is built on so much more than sex. A good relationship between a man and woman consists of being best friends, trust more than anything else, and communication. I was married for years to someone my own age, then later lived with a much younger man. The age gap became so apparent as the years went by, his immaturity became too much to handle. I still get hit on by young guys, but I shy away from them, because I am looking for someone first of all that I can talk to and communicate with on my level. An intelligent man, who listens to me, and has a good sense of humour. I have a good income on my own merit and I do not need money. I can totally understand what Slowhand was saying about communication and a relationship. That is the kind of guy that appeals to me, not a man whose brain is in his balls. In my opinion, a confident man is looking for a woman who appeals to the inner man, and not what is on the outside necessarily, because looks can be very deceiving, with either sex. A hot, young body can be very appealing, but after getting to know the person, it's what is inside that is lasting.
red neck

Luttrell, TN

#112 Jan 23, 2012
in search of nice lady...hehe
twofaced

Morristown, TN

#114 Jan 23, 2012
red neck wrote:
in search of nice lady...hehe
you sure as hell won't find one in Morristown,their necs are redder than yours !
Have fun!

Columbia, SC

#115 Jan 24, 2012
Slowhand2009 wrote:
<quoted text>What most men really look for is a woman/girl with the ability to write a coherent thought and use proper grammar. "Why does"? "Desent"?
Exactly! I am in my mid twenties, pursuing a graduate degree. I am well-educated in a male dominated career. I support myself and yes, my house is clean. I have no children, no baggage, and yes, I enjoy having a good time on the weekends. I have had a limited experience with older men, but that experience has led me to the conclusion that older men are much more respectful than the 20-something year old males that the 40-something year old females have raised. Generally speaking, in this town anyway.
Clarification

White Pine, TN

#116 Jan 24, 2012
[QUOTE who="Have fun!"]<quoted text>
Exactly! I am in my mid twenties, pursuing a graduate degree. I am well-educated in a male dominated career. I support myself and yes, my house is clean. I have no children, no baggage, and yes, I enjoy having a good time on the weekends. I have had a limited experience with older men, but that experience has led me to the conclusion that older men are much more respectful than the 20-something year old males that the 40-something year old females have raised. Generally speaking, in this town anyway.[/QUOTE]

It will be interesting to see what you people call "older men". For clarification purposes, please all you younger/intelligent's please give me your opinion.
Have fun!

Morristown, TN

#117 Jan 24, 2012
Clarification wrote:
[QUOTE who="Have fun!"]<quoted text>
Exactly! I am in my mid twenties, pursuing a graduate degree. I am well-educated in a male dominated career. I support myself and yes, my house is clean. I have no children, no baggage, and yes, I enjoy having a good time on the weekends. I have had a limited experience with older men, but that experience has led me to the conclusion that older men are much more respectful than the 20-something year old males that the 40-something year old females have raised. Generally speaking, in this town anyway."

It will be interesting to see what you people call "older men". For clarification purposes, please all you younger/intelligent's please give me your opinion.
At my age, 25, I consider an older man to be 35 or over. My mother is in her sixties. After raising SEVEN well educated and very respectful MEN (yes, I consider them older now) and the passing of our father 15 years ago, she now has a YOUNGER "man-friend".(I don't like to refer to him as a "boyfriend", because he is not a "boy".) For sake of clarification, her YOUNGER companion is in his fifties. Everyone is entitled their own opinion and that opinion changes with age, correct? What is older to me is probably not older to you. As well as, what is younger to you is probably not the case for someone older than you.
Clarification

White Pine, TN

#118 Jan 24, 2012
It amazes me at the range I have heard young women describe as older men. When I was in my 20's I dated a few guys were in their 40's. They were ancient. I was never interested in older because I found them somewhat disgusting and old. It was too much like being out with my daddy. I was never interested in younger because I found them immature and they didn't know squat about the world and maintaining a conversation was like talking to a kid. Being around their friends, well older/younger, it was the same I FELT OUT OF PLACE.
who cares

Columbia, SC

#119 Jan 24, 2012
Omg that is too funny wrote:
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Honey I am young and hot. This older younger think sooooo makes me laugh. You need to realize he isn't interested in you outside what you can give him and I'm not talking about sex. Again I am young and listen to all this crap as my hom's talk Want me to tell you what they say about people like you? That the well is dry and if it wasn't for the free food, the money for gas and whatever else it is they get, they wouldn't give your drying up thang a second thought. And that is the frigging truth.
how hot r u.

Since: Jan 12

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#120 Jan 24, 2012
Too Young wrote:
Why does men over 40 like these 20 year old girls? These young girls just want money and they are so lazy. They don't even clean their house up. So why would a desent man want that?
This what I heard today. A man on the Today show said older men like young women because, men are so slow to mature. Sounds about right to me. that's been my experience.
melina

Náfplio, Greece

#121 Mar 14, 2012
well i'm a 26 year old girl and i like older men because they're charming.I don't care about their money i have my own.
who knows

Charlotte, NC

#122 Mar 19, 2012
melina wrote:
well i'm a 26 year old girl and i like older men because they're charming.I don't care about their mony i have my own.
well whats ur name gang
Young lady

Morristown, TN

#123 Mar 20, 2012
I have been with my husband for 15 yrs. We have a great marriage. He is my best friend and lover. I am 25 years younger than him but age has nothing to do with it. I love him as the person not the age. I want a man who knows what he wants and works hard to support our family. I am not a lazy person I work 2 jobs. Not on welfare and taking care of my stepdaughter and my granddaughter. I would not want a lazy man that was my age. True love lasts as long as it is true love to start with:)

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