Why do some gals get pregnant to keep...

Why do some gals get pregnant to keep a boyfriend?

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court

Germany

#1 Jan 11, 2011
you know any girls like this?
doc

Clarkston, MI

#2 Jan 11, 2011
Sometimes girls DO try to trap their boyfriends as a way of keeping the boyfriend with them forever, but that rarely works. Sometimes they just want someone to love them forever, so they have unprotected sex with the guy they love, hoping that they'll get a happy domestic scenario -- home, husband, and kids. But often they just have unprotected sex to please their boyfriends without thinking ahead (because, ya know, bad things only happen to other people) and then they end up pregnant. Unfortunately, once they have that first baby without being married, it's harder to get married to someone else later

“work its a way of life”

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#3 Jan 11, 2011
They do! I know one who did just to try and keep a lowlife. Who was gone the second he heard the word baby. She thought if she got pregnant he would stop screwing everyone else and stay with her,wrong. He got two more pregnant after that. Bet she is glad he did not stick around or she would still be missing out on the good one. It happens nobody knows what goes through a hurting womans mind.

“iYa Basta!”

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#4 Jan 11, 2011
I don't know what happened. I was on the pill, the shot, we used condoms, and he pulled out. Yeah right! Girls that fake being on birth control to keep a guy are not only extremely dishonest but also misguided. Even if they do stick around they will not be happy about it. This is also bad for the child. How many ways could this turn out?

1. The man leaves and the child does not have a father.
(likely)

2. The man stays around for the child but is not in love with and resents the woman.
(possible)

3. The man decides he does not want to leave, falls back in love with the woman, he forgives her for tricking him into having a baby and they live happily ever after.
(not a chance)

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#5 Jan 11, 2011
Also, why did someone flag ah4eib's post as spam and nuts? He didn't say anything crazy and he didn't even get offensive. Spam is when something posted is not even from a real person and is usually an advertisement of some sort or someone posting over and over just so nobody else can use the thread.

HATERS
passing through

United States

#6 Jan 12, 2011
It takes two to make a baby. If a girl says she is on the pill and lies about it, that's shameful. But If a guy wants to be sure, WEAR A CONDOM!!!!!
SoNotTrue

Albemarle, NC

#7 Jan 12, 2011
If the man is so worried about not wanting her around so bad he shouldn't sleep / sex her in the 1st place. Secondly , he should wear a condom, and thirdly he shouldn't worry about her trying to TRICK him into keeping her if he wasn t thinking with his brain. I say Blame it on the man, its his fault too.
titty boom

United States

#9 Jan 12, 2011
Because they are stupid.

“iYa Basta!”

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#10 Jan 12, 2011
passing through wrote:
It takes two to make a baby. If a girl says she is on the pill and lies about it, that's shameful. But If a guy wants to be sure, WEAR A CONDOM!!!!!
Make sure to keep the condoms in your possession. That brings me to another point....guys are guilty of doing this all the time too! They will poke holes in the condoms or lie about having their tubes tied or whatever. One couple I know........the guy told the girl that a doctor told him he could not get a girl pregnant! I told her that he is obviously lying. For one thing, a doctor would not tell you it is impossible(unless the genitals were destroyed or missing or something) they would just say it is unlikely. A low sperm count is still a sperm count.
Confused

Morristown, TN

#11 Jan 12, 2011
Hey Flowy. Please explain how a man can have his tubes tied?
IDK

Columbia, SC

#12 Jan 13, 2011
I got pregnant 4x on birth control. True Story
passing through

United States

#13 Jan 13, 2011
IDK wrote:
I got pregnant 4x on birth control. True Story
And I'm sure you took the pill everyday at the same time like you're supposed to, right?
it happens

United States

#14 Jan 13, 2011
My mom got pregnant with me while on the pill. She had her period for 5 months into the pregnancy and didnt know she was prego. Also, my best friend got pregnant with her daughter while on the pill, but she was taking antibotics and they do something to the pill. I also agree that a man/boy shouldn't put his fate into the hands of a woman/girl. If he's not ready to be a father, then he should ALWAYS wear a condom or go get snipped.
granny

Nashville, TN

#15 Jan 13, 2011
most of the time it will run them off and the gal ha a baby for her PARENTS to raise
IDK

Columbia, SC

#16 Jan 13, 2011
Yes I did. My children are all gifts from God.
DayDate

Columbia, SC

#17 Jan 13, 2011
Its both parties responsibility to cover the bases.

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#18 Jan 13, 2011
Flowy wrote:
Also, why did someone flag ah4eib's post as spam and nuts? He didn't say anything crazy and he didn't even get offensive. Spam is when something posted is not even from a real person and is usually an advertisement of some sort or someone posting over and over just so nobody else can use the thread.
HATERS
Thanks! Everyone is always putting me down for being honest. So what is honesty worth? Maybe admitting my faults on here is wrong but that is how I forgive myself,by talking about them. If you do not admit your wrongs and forgive yourself, how can you expect anyone else to? Thanks again.

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#19 Jan 13, 2011
Confused wrote:
Hey Flowy. Please explain how a man can have his tubes tied?
Haha funny. I faild. Women get tied and men get snipped. Still more accurate than most of the stuff I see on here.

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#20 Jan 13, 2011
IDK wrote:
I got pregnant 4x on birth control. True Story
Why didn't you switch to a different birth control method after the first, second, or third time the pill did not work for you? Did you think you would get different results doing the same thing?

“iYa Basta!”

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#21 Jan 13, 2011
IDK wrote:
Yes I did. My children are all gifts from God.
Ah....dahhert...never mind.

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