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tiredofdeadbeats

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Anyone else having a hard time getting the court system to help? I can't get child support for my child and the State is doing nothing. I have asked for a court date but all they say is "we will note the file".
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If u don't know an address where they can be served with court papers you will never get a date set. I have been trying for five years and if the person doesn't have a courtdate to appear they will never go to jail for being behind $111.00 dollars a week for five years would be nice to spend on my kids needs but I will never see any money.
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Jun 28, 2012
 

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I would hunt him down with a passionate fury. I would crawl under porches if I had to. I would annoy his family and friends until they told me something about his whereabouts. If I had to bribe them, so be it. I would find him come hell or high water. Then the state can issue a warrant or whatever it is they do. I had a good friend who did it. That relentless bitch didn't give up until she got a check or cash every week.
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Morristown, TN

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if you can not afford kids then keep your legs closed or get an aboryion.
if you already have one just take it to kingswood school and set it on their doorstep

i am getting tired of lazy azz women boo hooing because a man does not pay support so they can sit on thheir butt and not work.

you get a job and giive the kid to the man and pay him support for a wile and see ow you like it
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Typical man. Last time I checked and I could be wrong but doesn't it take two to make a baby? Why is it just the womans responsibility to support the kid(s)? So basically what you're saying is a man should be able to go out here, have sex with all the women she chooses but not be responsible if one of those women gets pregnant? You're an idiot!

I have 2 kids. I am divorced. I support these kids all day, everyday. I work a full time job and I am in school part time. I do not get Government assistance as I make to much money. I also have a side job (sewing) which brings in income. My ex husband makes over $20.00 an hour, he was ordered to pay me $596.00 a month plus insurance. I haven't seen a dime and I carry the insurance. We were married for 4 years before we had a child. So it isn't like I was out here just screwing random men.

You sound like the type of man a woman with any sense would run from. It goes both ways. You help make it. You help pay for it. I'm tired of loser men not wanting to support their kids.
Fake ppl

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Child support is a joke! Have of the time the ppl that work there don't even know what they are doing.. I'm not gonna waste my time goin to court when the dead beat want even show up. hell he's behind over 20,000... and some of these men think that it should be the womens responsibility to take care of the children. Its your child to so you should help!!!
tiredofdeadbeats

Morristown, TN

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man wrote:
if you can not afford kids then keep your legs closed or get an aboryion.
if you already have one just take it to kingswood school and set it on their doorstep

i am getting tired of lazy azz women boo hooing because a man does not pay support so they can sit on thheir butt and not work.

you get a job and giive the kid to the man and pay him support for a wile and see ow you like it
I do work. He does not! I do support my child and the reason I want the money is bc it is not right to have to tell my child NO to something extra that he wants when the bio-dad does not do or pay anything. He owes many years of support.
truth

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man wrote:
if you can not afford kids then keep your legs closed or get an aboryion.
if you already have one just take it to kingswood school and set it on their doorstep

i am getting tired of lazy azz women boo hooing because a man does not pay support so they can sit on thheir butt and not work.

you get a job and giive the kid to the man and pay him support for a wile and see ow you like it

There are many reasons for children's parents not being together. There are mothers, fathers and even grandparents receiving child support. Just because an adult received child support does not mean they do not work, or are lazy. I have seen judges put men and women alike in jail for not paying their court ordered support. I don't think your post was necessarily legit, but just in case it was just wanted to inform you of how court operates. I wish the children didn't have to go thru any of this, but it is both parents responsibility to provide for their children equally not only monetarily, but also in time and love.

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If he has a SSN you can find him by pulling a credit report to get an address. Chances are he has a utility account and most utility companies run a credit check to calculate the initial deposit. You can also get the information of his employer from the credit report, as the utility company many employers run a check on credit and background. Any hit on his credit by any of the above mentioned will be posted to his credit as a last known address. Unfortunately the State doesn't have the authorization to do the check nor do I think they have the resources but you can run a free credit check by going to:
experian.com/reportaccess or equifax.com/fcra use a last known address or two and his dob and ssn and you gain access to the report. Look for him on Spokeo.com and even google his name. Best of luck.

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I also forgot to mention you can order a copy of up to 5 years of taxes (I believe) by ordering a 4506T from the IRS. All you need is his SSN and they will mail you a copy of his taxes for the years you requested. I used to find people for a living and these are a few of the tactics used. I don't recommend paying for a people search because they only gather information from public records. You may want to look up public records as well. Unfortunately Hamblen County does not have an online search for public records. If you think he may own property search the Tn State Assessors page at assessment.state.tn.us then search by counties in which you believe he may live in.
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I'm daughters daddy moved out state so he didn't have to pay . I work 40 plus a week to make sure my daughter has and he don't even try ant even seen her in four mo
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wow wrote:
I'm daughters daddy moved out state so he didn't have to pay . I work 40 plus a week to make sure my daughter has and he don't even try ant even seen her in four mo
I did not understand this post. Could/would you try again ?
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women have babies just so they can trap men into paying support so they can sit on their but and not work.
if a man does not want anything to do with a kid and says get an abortion or give it up for adoption but the woman wants to keep it then the woman should be 100% responsible for supporting the kids.

actually a man should be able to force the woman via the court to get abortions if he does not want the kid. instead we have to resort to convincing a woman it is in her and her family's best interest to get the abortion. Or slip some ru486 in her food, if we can not find that then a couple months of birth control pills with supper will do the trick. If all else fails sometimes women trip and fall on their belly and miscarry.
Mary

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Real Man wrote:
women have babies just so they can trap men into paying support so they can sit on their but and not work.
if a man does not want anything to do with a kid and says get an abortion or give it up for adoption but the woman wants to keep it then the woman should be 100% responsible for supporting the kids.
actually a man should be able to force the woman via the court to get abortions if he does not want the kid. instead we have to resort to convincing a woman it is in her and her family's best interest to get the abortion. Or slip some ru486 in her food, if we can not find that then a couple months of birth control pills with supper will do the trick. If all else fails sometimes women trip and fall on their belly and miscarry.
I would LOVE to show YOU the real and genuine hatred and disgust in my soul right now. I recommend that you keep that scrawny little dick in you pants or you may find yourself without one.
truth

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Real Man wrote:
women have babies just so they can trap men into paying support so they can sit on their but and not work.
if a man does not want anything to do with a kid and says get an abortion or give it up for adoption but the woman wants to keep it then the woman should be 100% responsible for supporting the kids.

actually a man should be able to force the woman via the court to get abortions if he does not want the kid. instead we have to resort to convincing a woman it is in her and her family's best interest to get the abortion. Or slip some ru486 in her food, if we can not find that then a couple months of birth control pills with supper will do the trick. If all else fails sometimes women trip and fall on their belly and miscarry.
I surely hope your children, women or pets haven't ever suffered at your abusive hands. Either way sexual intercourse takes two. Both parties should consider the options fully before engaging activities
just another mama

Morristown, TN

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Jun 29, 2012
 
There is a solution for men that don't want to risk the possibility of an unwanted child VASECTOMY!! It is much more reliable than birthcontrol and 45 minutes in the dr. office is cheaper than 18 years of support. If the child support is routed through the state and he misses more than a month the state issues arrest warrant.
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Jun 29, 2012
 
Wouldn't it be nice if men would actually take some responsibility and have a vasectomy? Won't happen. Men think it should ALL be up to the woman to cover all the bases. The woman should be on birth control, the woman should keep her legs together, the woman should abort, the woman should raise it alone, the woman should pay for everything. Men won't take responsibility. They don't want a nip and tuck. This jackass on here spewing his toxic shi*t is the type of man who is likely still a virgin, living in his Moms basement.

Hey Jackass, if women took your advice, men would never get any. What if all the women just stopped having sex with men? Then what? You'd have to resort to your hand(which you probably already do), animals or turn gay.
Real Man

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Jun 29, 2012
 
Mary wrote:
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I would LOVE to show YOU the real and genuine hatred and disgust in my soul right now. I recommend that you keep that scrawny little dick in you pants or you may find yourself without one.
You sound like you need a real man to teach you how to act you ugly pig, no one wants you because you are so useless and ugly
shut your mouth or a man may shut it for you.
Women should not speak unless directly spoken to by a man.
get in the kitchen and make my supper then bring it to me and get on your knees and service me while I watch TV
Mary

Morristown, TN

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Jun 29, 2012
 
Real Man wrote:
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You sound like you need a real man to teach you how to act you ugly pig, no one wants you because you are so useless and ugly
shut your mouth or a man may shut it for you.
Women should not speak unless directly spoken to by a man.
get in the kitchen and make my supper then bring it to me and get on your knees and service me while I watch TV
The fact IS, I don't sound like anything. I guess you are grateful that you can READ. Stuff that baby weiner back in your britches little buddy. Your mom will let you know when you can let it out. Pathetic human you are !!
Smk09

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Jun 29, 2012
 
man wrote:
if you can not afford kids then keep your legs closed or get an aboryion.
if you already have one just take it to kingswood school and set it on their doorstep
i am getting tired of lazy azz women boo hooing because a man does not pay support so they can sit on thheir butt and not work.
you get a job and giive the kid to the man and pay him support for a wile and see ow you like it
I really hate people that don't have an idea of what that they are talking about being a topix hard ass. Trying to get child support from a ex has nothing to do with being lazy. If the man can spread his legs to then he can help pay for the child too. You really do sound ignorant with your comments.

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