Men that are still in love with their...

Men that are still in love with their ex-wives

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confused

Knoxville, TN

#1 Dec 30, 2012
I'm dating a man that says he loves me and that his ex is his past,but I get the feeling he's still in love with her.Just subtle signs that I've picked up.Any hope for the new women?
TNT

Irmo, SC

#2 Dec 30, 2012
I just had to end a relationship with the person I love very much too because he just couldn't get over the hurt from her. I tried to give him all he said he lacked before but I wasn't enough. I hope the next one can handle living in the shadow. I couldn't stand being second best anymore. My love just wasn't enough for him......
hey

Knoxville, TN

#3 Dec 30, 2012
Tnt are u a single mom?
Free

Charlotte, NC

#4 Dec 30, 2012
TNT wrote:
I just had to end a relationship with the person I love very much too because he just couldn't get over the hurt from her. I tried to give him all he said he lacked before but I wasn't enough. I hope the next one can handle living in the shadow. I couldn't stand being second best anymore. My love just wasn't enough for him......
I understand your pain. Give me a call, I would never make you second best. I only hope my love will be enough to make you the happiest woman in the world.
Free

Charlotte, NC

#5 Dec 30, 2012
hey wrote:
Tnt are u a single mom?
you don't want a beautiful woman if she is a mother?
TNT

Irmo, SC

#6 Dec 30, 2012
I have no kids as if that matters and I am not interested in any other man!! I still love him!! I am praying he opens his eyes to what he had in me.
2RAW

Gaffney, SC

#7 Dec 30, 2012
I wouldn't touch my xwife with a 10ft pole.She puts out like a CB Radio,all over town..lol!
ALN

Rogersville, TN

#8 Dec 31, 2012
I think a man can be friends with this ex. As long as there is a mutual agreement that it does not cross the line. If they shared a love once and maybe even children, they should be able to. And it would be the very best interest for their child to remain friends also. There should not be anything else in the relationship and should include the present wife/gf. You always love the person but in a totally different way.
TNT

Irmo, SC

#9 Dec 31, 2012
ALN wrote:
I think a man can be friends with this ex. As long as there is a mutual agreement that it does not cross the line. If they shared a love once and maybe even children, they should be able to. And it would be the very best interest for their child to remain friends also. There should not be anything else in the relationship and should include the present wife/gf. You always love the person but in a totally different way.
. I totally agree to this! Had it been this simple for me!!!!
ALN

United States

#10 Dec 31, 2012
Tell me what happened that it couldn't be like that. Seems like it could have been simple.
TNT

Irmo, SC

#11 Dec 31, 2012
No
ALN

Rogersville, TN

#12 Dec 31, 2012
Ok
ALN

Rogersville, TN

#13 Dec 31, 2012
TNT wrote:
I have no kids as if that matters and I am not interested in any other man!! I still love him!! I am praying he opens his eyes to what he had in me.
Then you should tell him maybe talk it out. You will never know what could be if you don't take the leap. Fly.....
TNT

Irmo, SC

#14 Dec 31, 2012
He won't talk it out. The only leap I wanted was in his arms forever!!
ALN

Rogersville, TN

#15 Dec 31, 2012
well I'm sorry
when did you last talk to him?
TNT

Irmo, SC

#16 Dec 31, 2012
That is irrelevant to you isn't it???
Hey

Knoxville, TN

#17 Dec 31, 2012
ALN wrote:
I think a man can be friends with this ex. As long as there is a mutual agreement that it does not cross the line. If they shared a love once and maybe even children, they should be able to. And it would be the very best interest for their child to remain friends also. There should not be anything else in the relationship and should include the present wife/gf. You always love the person but in a totally different way.
why split if you are going to "remain friends"? friends and being civil are not the same thing.
ALN

Rogersville, TN

#18 Dec 31, 2012
Ok sorry if I asked a bad question. Good luck
Sometimes you just fall out of love in that way, doesn't mean you can not remain friends does it?
Hey

Knoxville, TN

#19 Dec 31, 2012
ALN wrote:
Ok sorry if I asked a bad question. Good luck
Sometimes you just fall out of love in that way, doesn't mean you can not remain friends does it?
then i guess it would be ok w/you too, if your new love were "friends" with their ex(es)(?)
ALN

Rogersville, TN

#20 Dec 31, 2012
I think I would be ok as long as the lines stayed in place and were not crossed. If I or she felt uncomfortable with the others ex's then there should be a conversation with each other. No reason there could not be a friendship.

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