Need Advice... Situation: Person in e...

Need Advice... Situation: Person in ex-family negative influence...

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feelin helpless

Belle, WV

#1 Jan 3, 2013
ok, I just need some help or some words of encouragement... Ever since my ex and I have been divorced, my ex-mom in law has harrassed me and been terrible to my children about me... She has assaulted me 3 or 4 times, at least 2 while my children were in her presence... spoken badly about me to my children, telling them Im a liar, discussing details about the demise of my marriage with them.... thats not even the tip of it. She has attempted to publicly humiliate me via rumors, topix, facebook... have had CPS called on me multiple times (all unfounded, I had no doubts)

Now, me and my ex, we get along just fine... we share the kids pretty evenly...we discuss what we need to for the children, and 99.9% of the time we come to an easy agreement. My ex cannot control my ex-mom in law, I dont know if ex has tried and failed, or just wont. But anyway...

Things have died down or gotten slower, but this is a small community,(we all live within 300 feet of each, my ex, and my ex-mom in law) and supposedly, I have people watching my house (*rolling my eyes* what do they think they are gonna find? Im an excellent parent, not a drug user, keep a full-time job, pay my bills, and provide lots of love and a good life for my children.)

I have been told I am not allowed to call ex-mom in laws house when my children are there(which they are there frequently, and she watches them after school til ex gets home from work). I have to call ex and ex calls and tells them to call me. ex-mom in law wont let them call me from her house, I have heard this been said with my own ears, as did 2 of my children.

So because of this, I got 2 of my children prepaid phones (one of them is too young).

So I found out that my children arent allowed to take their phones to ex-mom in laws house... because she doesnt want anything that has to do with me, in her house. Now I know from what my children come to me and tell me, that she yells alot, and talks badly about me, and asks questions about me, making them unconfortable to the point of crying. The only time they had their phones over there was the first time after they got them, and a scenario like the above was going on... one child was being yelled at and crying because ex-mother in law was cussing about me and telling my child lies and calling ME a liar... so my other child called me, and ex-mom in law found out, and yelled and accused my child of being an eathsdropper. This cant make them feel comfortable...

So its almost like, when they are with her, she keeps them from me the best she can... and I dont understand why they cant have their phones over there... I dont buy the excuse that its because I got the phones for them... I think she has something to hide...

Theres so so much more to this story, but I have already typed enough... thanks to anyone who stuck through this, and I appreciate any help/support I can get, I just feel so helpless...

Morgantown, WV

#2 Jan 7, 2013
I realize there is a lot more to this story than what you wrote. Also, there is two side to it as well. Here's my two cents, why do you let your ex-mom have the kids? If it's disrupting the rest of the family and she actually harasses you, I would forbid her to have any contact with my children. Unless she got some type of custody rights via the courts, she would play by my rules or not see the children.

Washington, DC

#3 Jan 7, 2013
This is a sad situitation and I am sorry for what you are going through. It sounds like she's doing everything in her power to hurt you but all shes accomplishing is hurting your children. Your kid's will learn to be just as hateful to you the longer they are around her so it's probaly smart if you go see a judge or lawyer about this issue and don't let her know about it in case she trys something. I'm pretty sure you would win because a judge is going to protect the children not keep them in situations that will hurt them!! I hope things get better for you and your children God Bless.
Feelin helpless

Belle, WV

#4 Jan 15, 2013
Thank you for the replies. To answer the first person, I don't send them over there, they go over there on the days my ex has them, sometimes overnight :(. I am working on a case for family court... I've been keeping notes with dates, times, etc. of all incidents that my kids tell me and that I hear or see myself. I absolutely agree that although she is trying to hurt me, it only hurts my children... I hope the judge will see it too :(

Sykesville, MD

#5 Jan 16, 2013
Things will work out for you and your family just be patient! Remember to keep your cool around them even if it kills you because they might also try to get dirt on you. Also your kids will love you no matter what happens because your their mom and nothing can change that!! Hope all goes well and God Bless.
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United States

#7 Jul 21, 2013
A big thanks to DR atakuma, who brought back
ex girlfriend. My name is samson Benard, from
Canada. Last year, August
26th 2012, I proposed to my
ex girlfriend and she agreed to marry me then we both planned for the wedding. Our wedding was
to hold September
30th. We had a little
misunderstanding and she left me for another
guy. I almost committed
suicide; I never knew there was hope for me, a friend of mine would always advise me to be
hopeful and that one day she will
come back to me, Some
times I will go to her house to ask for forgiveness
to come back to me because she
really means a lot to me and I love her so much and she will ask me to leave her alone and I
should never come to her
house again. I found it
really hard to fall in love with another girl, months
passes by and I was
waiting patiently for her to come back to me but in my heart I was still going through hell, there
was a big hole in my
**One morning I received a call from my friend
and he told me to come to
his house immediately, I quickly put on my clothes and ran to his house because I felt he was in
trouble, when I got to he’s
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someone’s ex husband back.
I was angry with him
because he frightened me and now he’s telling
about spell caster. I told
him to forget about the matter because I never believed in spell casters, he asked me if I really
want my ex girlfriend to
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come back crawling on
her kneels asking for forgiveness as soon as he
cast the spell so he cast
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