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Cecilia, KY

#1 Jul 24, 2012
i've noticed in morgantown that some high profile people have no shame as parents their children are livng like little pigs run around dirty nasty clothes dirty faces and hands looks like they have not been bathed in weeks their's no reason why children should be treated like this it lazyness on the parents fault and it has nothing to do with money of having it or not soap water and a little love does'nt cost much i've seen very sweet children that look like little pigs and these sweet little angles should never be in public looking like refugees it's really shameful why don't these well know people have any shame to let their preious little children look like that i think it's a SHAME
philosophy

United States

#2 Jul 24, 2012
And you accomplished something by putting it on topics in what way?If it is bothersome to you, then say soemthing to the people who are doing it, point out some community resources that might be able to help them meet these needs if for whatever reason there is something in the way of them taking care of the kids appearance.I am not saying that it is ok to let your kid go around outside of playtime being filthy and unkempt, but I am saying that griping here does nothing.If I see something going on that I think is just really wrong, I try to at least say something to the person doing the act that I find offensive.If they are just being downright filthy, and refuse to do the right thing, there is a cabinet for human resources that I am sure would be glad to check into the matter.I find it better to at least address the issue in a non-judgemental way most times, and seeing if there is anyway I can help.I try to not judge.There are some who do not want to accept help, or change the situation even when they are grossly wrong, for those situations reporting it is best.When you are neglecting your own basic needs or someones who you are entrusted with their care, there is usually always some underlying issue.Whether it be mental illness,low socio-economic status,poor education,drug abuse, domestic violence, and yes in some cases as you say, just pure laziness.I just want to encourage you to do something besides talk about it.You have mentioned it on here, but tonight those kids are going to bed in the same situation they were in today, and will wake up in the same situation tomorrow.Be mindful however that there is a difference between kids getting dirty from playing out in the heat,dust and dirt, and then there is just plain dirty, where you can tell there is a bigger underlying issue, and just because you say they are high profile, does not mean they are immune to problems that affect lesser known people as well.
Tom Tom

Madisonville, KY

#3 Jul 24, 2012
philosophy wrote:
And you accomplished something by putting it on topics in what way?If it is bothersome to you, then say soemthing to the people who are doing it, point out some community resources that might be able to help them meet these needs if for whatever reason there is something in the way of them taking care of the kids appearance.I am not saying that it is ok to let your kid go around outside of playtime being filthy and unkempt, but I am saying that griping here does nothing.If I see something going on that I think is just really wrong, I try to at least say something to the person doing the act that I find offensive.If they are just being downright filthy, and refuse to do the right thing, there is a cabinet for human resources that I am sure would be glad to check into the matter.I find it better to at least address the issue in a non-judgemental way most times, and seeing if there is anyway I can help.I try to not judge.There are some who do not want to accept help, or change the situation even when they are grossly wrong, for those situations reporting it is best.When you are neglecting your own basic needs or someones who you are entrusted with their care, there is usually always some underlying issue.Whether it be mental illness,low socio-economic status,poor education,drug abuse, domestic violence, and yes in some cases as you say, just pure laziness.I just want to encourage you to do something besides talk about it.You have mentioned it on here, but tonight those kids are going to bed in the same situation they were in today, and will wake up in the same situation tomorrow.Be mindful however that there is a difference between kids getting dirty from playing out in the heat,dust and dirt, and then there is just plain dirty, where you can tell there is a bigger underlying issue, and just because you say they are high profile, does not mean they are immune to problems that affect lesser known people as well.
So you must be guilty!
philosophy

United States

#4 Jul 24, 2012
Tom Tom wrote:
<quoted text>So you must be guilty!
Really?That comment is your contribution to this subject?Now I wish I had of let you handled the whole thing, cause God knows if someone says something that is not hell bent on ripping someone a new butt hole then they are probably horrible people.How silly of me to try to enlighten someone as to how they could make a difference instead of airing it out on here.Pretty sure other than getting muddy and your typical playing outside dirty, my kids always knew what a bath or shower was when they were growing up.I can affirm to you that my grandkids are familiar with taking baths on regualr occasion whether they want to or not, even if I had to personally wrangle one down occasionally and scrub them down myself but you can opine in any manner that you wish, everyone is entitled to be wrong on occasion as you so obviously are with your accusation.What I was demonstrating was objectiveness.Try it sometime, it might get you further than narrow mindedness.
Patricia Bratcher

Bowling Green, KY

#5 Jul 24, 2012
I think it's a shame you come to a website like this to degrade BOTH children and parents. Don't say you aren't talking about the children because you are, calling then named and such. Kids will be kids and they do get dirty no matter what. I take great care of my babies but there are times we go out in public and before we even get there they look like "refugees" as you say. So instead of just trying to start something, put places that you see this "refugee" child. If you are going to put someone down, put your real name.
TRUTHTELLER

Cecilia, KY

#6 Jul 25, 2012
Patricia Bratcher wrote:
I think it's a shame you come to a website like this to degrade BOTH children and parents. Don't say you aren't talking about the children because you are, calling then named and such. Kids will be kids and they do get dirty no matter what. I take great care of my babies but there are times we go out in public and before we even get there they look like "refugees" as you say. So instead of just trying to start something, put places that you see this "refugee" child. If you are going to put someone down, put your real name.
you are the people we are talking about there is no reason for a small child to be in public being all nasty unlesss you just came from a park playing in a sand box or such. you can make all the excusses you like but if your running around town hipping a small child that looks like he or she has slept under a dump'truck well that means and shows you as a parent is just lazy and your not taking hygene care for your small child. take responsiblity for your actions quit putting blame on reasons for not bathing your child. THIS GENERATION OF MOTHERS IS SAD they have the child and then want grandma to raise the child. the mothers now days homes look like a bomb went off with trash sippy bottles dirty diapers
and un-washed clothes and a small child running around with a dirty face and fingernails that would make you puke sooooooooo
if the truth hurts well then look in the mirror and look at your household and look and your child and use some elbow grease and clean up your child and home and quit being a nasty GENERATION if you have the child well take care of them and water and soap is cheap now make a EXCUSE now because i've seen people below the poverity in eastern kentucky their clothes were tattered but they were clean the children were clean so there is no EXCUSES for being lazy to take care of the child you brought into this world
"GET OFF THE ASS AND WASH YOUR CHILD" and gets some PRIDE
just saying
#7 Jul 25, 2012
you all are talking about brittany baize she takes her boys out all the time with out bathing them
TRUTHTELLER

Cecilia, KY

#8 Jul 25, 2012
just saying wrote:
you all are talking about brittany baize she takes her boys out all the time with out bathing them
no i'm not calling names theres more than one mother and father doing this it's just not one person. like i say if you can keep your car or truck all washed up and polished well it seems to me you should be able to keep your small god given gifts clean and looking pretty .....they are only small one time in life and they should be clean and proud to show off to others they should not be led around looking like lil'pigs but instead lil'kings and queens
Patricia Bratcher

United States

#9 Jul 25, 2012
TRUTHTELLER wrote:
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you are the people we are talking about there is no reason for a small child to be in public being all nasty unlesss you just came from a park playing in a sand box or such. you can make all the excusses you like but if your running around town hipping a small child that looks like he or she has slept under a dump'truck well that means and shows you as a parent is just lazy and your not taking hygene care for your small child. take responsiblity for your actions quit putting blame on reasons for not bathing your child. THIS GENERATION OF MOTHERS IS SAD they have the child and then want grandma to raise the child. the mothers now days homes look like a bomb went off with trash sippy bottles dirty diapers
and un-washed clothes and a small child running around with a dirty face and fingernails that would make you puke sooooooooo
if the truth hurts well then look in the mirror and look at your household and look and your child and use some elbow grease and clean up your child and home and quit being a nasty GENERATION if you have the child well take care of them and water and soap is cheap now make a EXCUSE now because i've seen people below the poverity in eastern kentucky their clothes were tattered but they were clean the children were clean so there is no EXCUSES for being lazy to take care of the child you brought into this world
"GET OFF THE ASS AND WASH YOUR CHILD" and gets some PRIDE
This just shows what you know. You can eat off my floors at anytime. I bathe my child EVERY single day and buy my kids the best of everything but kids will be kids and get dirty, not nasty but dirty. You really should stop bashing dirty kids, they can't help what their parents do! I could care less what my vehicle looks like on the outside but do like the inside clean but my kids are my first priority! Like I said kids will be kids and more than likely if your child never gets dirty you are a stay at home mom that lives off others and never lets your child be a kid! There is a big difference in being dirty and being a "refugee"!!!!
TRUTHTELLER

Cecilia, KY

#10 Jul 25, 2012
Patricia Bratcher wrote:
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This just shows what you know. You can eat off my floors at anytime. I bathe my child EVERY single day and buy my kids the best of everything but kids will be kids and get dirty, not nasty but dirty. You really should stop bashing dirty kids, they can't help what their parents do! I could care less what my vehicle looks like on the outside but do like the inside clean but my kids are my first priority! Like I said kids will be kids and more than likely if your child never gets dirty you are a stay at home mom that lives off others and never lets your child be a kid! There is a big difference in being dirty and being a "refugee"!!!!
LOOK ARE YOU JUST STUPID i know children get dirty they can look like they played in a coal mine at home ....i'm talking about when you take them to the grocery out in public or to a event in town just take the time to bathe them instead of packing them in the car with a sippy cup and a nasty shirt or blouse i'm glad you can
eat off your floors that's great i just hope your children reflect your cleaing practices of your floors on to their bodies
and like i say a clean car or a clean yard or a clean floor is no EXCUSE for a dirty baby
shelia
#11 Jul 25, 2012
i know kai-lani is a bad mother her poor babys has never been in the bath.
TRUTHTELLER

Cecilia, KY

#12 Jul 25, 2012
i not naming names but a high profile fundraiser in morgantown has 3 children that are not taken to well of as in hygene and it's a shame they are very beautiful kids
Someone who does know her

United States

#13 Jul 25, 2012
I thought that is who u were talking about someone needs to say something in public to them because they think they are so special that no one will say anything to them at all
philosophy

United States

#14 Jul 25, 2012
You guys crack me up, calling people nasty on here.Don't you know folks nasty is not limmited to appearance only, nasty can be down in your soul as well.Forget nasty on the outside, some people are nasty on the inside, and that is way worse.Naming names and talking about a child on here, you might be perceived as a nasty person inside for doing that.Tell someone to have some pride?Apply that in your own life, by not lowering yourself to be the kind of person who takes to a website to embarrass other people, or hurt them.Some of those people you are talking about, have you ever thought they might have something inside them besides laziness, that is preventing them from taking pride in their appearance or their childs appearance?Be a nice person.If you have a spare outfit or know of someone who does have something inexpensive they no longer need, and a few personal hygene items, gather them up, go to the person and tell them you are concerned from their appearance that they may be having trouble meeting their needs, and is there anything you could do to help them, because you care, and would like to see them carrying themselves better in public so they can feel a sense of pride.I swear it is like talking to a bunch of pre-schoolers.Why has it become the norm to come to the internet and run your mouth about someone else?Try being a kinder person to those around you, for one week if it is not too much to ask.I promise you, that you will feel so much better about the person you are becoming, and you will maybe think twice before degrading other people.You may say that it is not your place to be nice, or to do anything that I mentioned, but the way I see it unless you have tried to fix it through a positive approach first, you don't have much right to gripe.Isn't the goal to fix that which is an issue, not to add to it and make it worse?Coming here to put peoples business on blast, is negative, and is an example of poor problem solving skills, and poor social skills.
philosophy

United States

#15 Jul 25, 2012
just saying wrote:
you all are talking about brittany baize she takes her boys out all the time with out bathing them
Are you obsessed with this Brittany girl that you speak about so often?Everytime her name is on here, there are a bunch of posts reflecting collinsville on your posts which is an uncommomn area for posts to be coming from.Some of you folks are not even talking about people because you don't like what is going on, you simply just don't like the person and would find fault with anything they do.
TRUTHTELLER

Cecilia, KY

#16 Jul 25, 2012
philosophy wrote:
You guys crack me up, calling people nasty on here.Don't you know folks nasty is not limmited to appearance only, nasty can be down in your soul as well.Forget nasty on the outside, some people are nasty on the inside, and that is way worse.Naming names and talking about a child on here, you might be perceived as a nasty person inside for doing that.Tell someone to have some pride?Apply that in your own life, by not lowering yourself to be the kind of person who takes to a website to embarrass other people, or hurt them.Some of those people you are talking about, have you ever thought they might have something inside them besides laziness, that is preventing them from taking pride in their appearance or their childs appearance?Be a nice person.If you have a spare outfit or know of someone who does have something inexpensive they no longer need, and a few personal hygene items, gather them up, go to the person and tell them you are concerned from their appearance that they may be having trouble meeting their needs, and is there anything you could do to help them, because you care, and would like to see them carrying themselves better in public so they can feel a sense of pride.I swear it is like talking to a bunch of pre-schoolers.Why has it become the norm to come to the internet and run your mouth about someone else?Try being a kinder person to those around you, for one week if it is not too much to ask.I promise you, that you will feel so much better about the person you are becoming, and you will maybe think twice before degrading other people.You may say that it is not your place to be nice, or to do anything that I mentioned, but the way I see it unless you have tried to fix it through a positive approach first, you don't have much right to gripe.Isn't the goal to fix that which is an issue, not to add to it and make it worse?Coming here to put peoples business on blast, is negative, and is an example of poor problem solving skills, and poor social skills.
i can see your a liberial enabler for people being lazy and taking care of their children like i said i've seen and helped people in eastern kentucky who can not even read and right but they can keep their children clean and persentable people nowday can go to a church clothes box or helping and and get clothes for their children if they do not have the money the problem is MOM ANS DAD need lotto tickets or cigaretts or beer and then come the children and most of the time it's not much we are living the 21 century there is no reason WHAT SO EVER for a child to go around with cradel cap and matted hair and nasty pissy selling clothes because this GENERATION IS LAZY there are no excuses dirty is dirty and clean is clean and going to a public pool and swiming is not taking a bath
philosophy

United States

#17 Jul 25, 2012
Because I think people should not get on here and say bad things when they can go straight to the source, I am a liberal enabler?Not hardly.I think people should pay their fair share if they can, I think the second ammendment is a beautiful thing.I agree you should not let your kid go around like that, but again, running that mouth on here has accomplished what?Could you remind me one more time?I have a decent education, do you see me calling you stupid or beneath me because you are spellingly challenged?No, I give you credit, and see why seeing someone going around like this would be aggravating to you, but I have a soft spot in my heart for people, and think kindness carries people further than rudeness.I believe that there are people letting there kids go around like you say they are, but I am open minded and do not rush to judgement.I guess it is the optimist in me.I can't believe you called me a liberal enabler.LOL!It is called kindness, trying to be a kinder human being.Once I started being kinder, I found that life was more enjoyable for me and the people around me.I smile at people, who look like they are having a hard time, I hold doors open for people.When I see someone having a hard time I try to help if I can, and if I can't I certainly don't go on a tangent degrading them.Seeing that, I can not make you open your eyes to new ideas, I will let you continue to rant.If it makes you feel good about yourself, I will not continue to try to stop you.Wake up folks, this world ain't gonna change itself, and it ain't gonna change for the better through use of hatred and acting ugly.Mitt Romney For President!
TRUTHTELLER

Cecilia, KY

#18 Jul 25, 2012
philosophy wrote:
Because I think people should not get on here and say bad things when they can go straight to the source, I am a liberal enabler?Not hardly.I think people should pay their fair share if they can, I think the second ammendment is a beautiful thing.I agree you should not let your kid go around like that, but again, running that mouth on here has accomplished what?Could you remind me one more time?I have a decent education, do you see me calling you stupid or beneath me because you are spellingly challenged?No, I give you credit, and see why seeing someone going around like this would be aggravating to you, but I have a soft spot in my heart for people, and think kindness carries people further than rudeness.I believe that there are people letting there kids go around like you say they are, but I am open minded and do not rush to judgement.I guess it is the optimist in me.I can't believe you called me a liberal enabler.LOL!It is called kindness, trying to be a kinder human being.Once I started being kinder, I found that life was more enjoyable for me and the people around me.I smile at people, who look like they are having a hard time, I hold doors open for people.When I see someone having a hard time I try to help if I can, and if I can't I certainly don't go on a tangent degrading them.Seeing that, I can not make you open your eyes to new ideas, I will let you continue to rant.If it makes you feel good about yourself, I will not continue to try to stop you.Wake up folks, this world ain't gonna change itself, and it ain't gonna change for the better through use of hatred and acting ugly.Mitt Romney For President!
i'm pointing out the problem and you are giving out excuses it's not up to me or you to wash their children and give them clothes i just pointing out the people i've seen in town that are no poor and have good jobs and no SHAME when it comes to their children that's the POINT it not a class issue it's a lazy issue poor people like i said have taken time to keep their small children clean but when you see people in town that are high profile running others down and they have problems because they are lazy self center people and thats why their children look like they rode to town in a garbage truck while they are clean and so is the suv they drive on the outside but look inside 9 time out of 10 it looks like a garbage bin and they blame the children for it ....like they can't clean up a suv or a child i mean it's totaly stupid behavior and no reasons for it.
philosophy

United States

#19 Jul 25, 2012
In cases like that, I see what you are saying, but some people are talking about people who are just having a rough time in life right now for whatever reason.I can certainly appreciate what you are saying to a degree.I just don't find talking about it on here is really going to fix the problem.I am not being mean in any way.Some people lack good common sense sometimes, if they are taking better care of the vehicle than they are their kids, call them out on it, in person.That was my underlying point.It is common for people to use the internet as a way to stir stuff up on other people.If you say they are doing this, I will take you for your word at it, I am just saying, if you told them to their face, they would be more apt to do something about it.I hope the true intention of your post is so that these people will stop letting their kid go around filthy if they are.If it is that bad, don't you think they need to hear it from you, and see that someone is watching and is going to see to it that if they do not take better care of the kid, you will have the matter looked into further.I don't know these people one way or the other, or you for that matter, and I am sorry if you think I am being an excuse maker, I was just making suggestions at how one might be able to make a positive difference for the ones who might be talking about a family or person who is down on their luck.From what you are saying that does not apply to their situation, but when you say things on line, your post may be directed at these certain people, but trust me, others will pile onto your topic, and say things about other people, who are maybe not under the best of circumstances and that just does not make me feel good about the outcome of it.Anyway, I hope the people that are angering you if they are doing what you are accusing them of changes the situation for the better.
XxX

Bowling Green, KY

#20 Jul 25, 2012
Call them out on here! Names????

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