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has anyone ever had there children stolen? by the dss ? or grandchildren? well i have. i had my children removed over lies that i proved was a lie. but because they already had chose to adopt my children for 20,000 in whitch the dss gets half of that and the same for anyone elses child they steal and adopt out. and the grand parents dont have a chance. the only thing that they hear is grand parents dont have any rights in n.c.
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$20,000 dollars per child sounds like someone is selling children!!!!!!!!!!
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Tell us more, how did they take the children and how could they allow them to be adopted out without parents signing their right away?
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what is the real-DEAL wrote:
has anyone ever had there children stolen? by the dss ? or grandchildren? well i have. i had my children removed over lies that i proved was a lie. but because they already had chose to adopt my children for 20,000 in whitch the dss gets half of that and the same for anyone elses child they steal and adopt out. and the grand parents dont have a chance. the only thing that they hear is grand parents dont have any rights in n.c.
i was told there is a grandparents law which gives grandparents the right to vist's with there grandchildren you might want to contact herbert pearce in lenoir i hear he is good in child cases good luck hope this helps
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my grandson is two and my sister has had him for over one year now,she has clothed,fed, and done everything possible for this little boy she has let that worthless dss into her home at any given time to see him and now they wanna adopted him out because she is sick,she is having to go thru all kinds of crap just to keep him and there is still a chance that dss will try to sell him for adoption,we are fighting to keep him with her,and he has a very good home now and very christian enviroment but [joan snyder] one of the [supervisors ]up there at dss. [hate's my daughter],and she is pushing for my grandson to be adopted out,my sister opened up her home gave this little boy a chance and all because shes had a couple of surgeries thye wanna go ahead and sell my grandson,for adoption,alot of prayer's have gone out and i believe dss will loose this battle.but yes dss is after one thing,money half there dss protective worker's have been fired for drug's and or party on fri and sat at steal horses,walk in and say hi to kelly ,joan.whittney,i;ll bet they'll be surprised to know that we know drunks are taking our children and grandchildren from us make's me wonder about there kid's welfare.good luck on your kids,by the way there is 11 open positions in the protective dss field what does that tell you turn over is bad up there.you'll have a social worker for a month and then all of a sudden you have a new one that's why cases never get closed cause the new worker only know's what she reads on paper she does not know us as people.or our situation,since this case opened on my grandson he has had 4 different social worker's
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my grandson is two and my sister has had him for over one year now,she has clothed,fed, and done everything possible for this little boy she has let that worthless dss into her home at any given time to see him and now they wanna adopted him out because she is sick,she is having to go thru all kinds of crap just to keep him and there is still a chance that dss will try to sell him for adoption,we are fighting to keep him with her,and he has a very good home now and very christian enviroment but [joan snyder] one of the [supervisors ]up there at dss.[hate's my daughter],and she is pushing for my grandson to be adopted out,my sister opened up her home gave this little boy a chance and all because shes had a couple of surgeries thye wanna go ahead and sell my grandson,for adoption,alot of prayer's have gone out and i believe dss will loose this battle.but yes dss is after one thing,money half there dss protective worker's have been fired for drug's and or party on fri and sat at steal horses,walk in and say hi to kelly ,joan.whittney,i;ll bet they'll be surprised to know that we know drunks are taking our children and grandchildren from us make's me wonder about there kid's welfare.good luck on your kids,by the way there is 11 open positions in the protective dss field what does that tell you turn over is bad up there.you'll have a social worker for a month and then all of a sudden you have a new one that's why cases never get closed cause the new worker only know's what she reads on paper she does not know us as people.or our situation,since this case opened on my grandson he has had 4 different social worker's
you can file a complant with the nc social services they are over all dss's in nc
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Im sorry to tell you this but grandparents have no rights in N.C. As far as N.C. social services dept. I have talked to Paul Waddle in Raleigh,and Valarie Johnson, both in the social service dept and they did nothing. oh, Ms. Johnson tried to give me advice on what to do , but Paul Waddle laughed at me and wished me good luck at getting anything done.I called the Governors office,I called Senator Dole,Senator Burrs office and I was told they didnt get involved in constitutional issues like this.Yet when they are sworn in they swear to uphold the constitution for all the citizens of the united states.Not just the ones named Osama or Chicko. Since im just a natural born citizen , my rights dont matter any more.
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Tell us more wrote:
Tell us more, how did they take the children and how could they allow them to be adopted out without parents signing their right away?
IN CALDWELL CO. N.C. DSS IS ABOVE THE LAW. THEY CAN CALL A JUDGE IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT AND GET PERMISSION TO COME PICK CHILDREN UP. AT 11:30 AT NIGHT, 28 DEGREE WEATHER,DSS PICKED UP MY GRANDCHILDREN FROM A WARM BED, AND WITH NO COAT OR COVER THEY TOOK THEM TO A UNLICENSED HOME. AND THIS IS A WOMAN THAT PULLED A GUN ON MY SON THE DAY BEFORE.IN OUR COUNTY DSS DOES WHAT EVER THEY WANT,WITH THE HELP OF JUDGE ROBERT BRADY AND JUDGE SUSANNE OWSLEY. IF I HAD YOUR EMAIL I COULD MAIL YOU A STORY YOU WOULD NOT BELIEVE COULD HAPPEN IN THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA.
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Well, let me tell you and your family. DSS took my kids from me last year because of drugs and other kinds of violence. I had a couple different social workers and then Felicia Robbins took my case. I'll admit, I didn't like her at first and it always seemed I couldn't do anything right, but as time went on, the more I realized she was only there to help me and my family. She worked with me and did a lot for my children. She made sure they had their needs met and was a very caring social worker. Actually, out of the six social workers I have had at DSS, she was the most caring social worker of all. And, she knows her job. Maybe you haven't worked hard enough to prove you can be a good parent. You know according to the laws, DSS has to have sufficient evidence to be able to take kids away from their family, and the evidence has to be proven. It takes a lot of hard work to do what the DSS and the court wants parents to do, but for me, it all paid off. Once I realized that I was in the wrong for putting my kids through the crazy life we were living, I thanked the social workers for helping me.

And, by the way, learn how to spell, or at least use your spell check if you are going to put things on the internet.
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yomamma wrote:
Well, let me tell you and your family. DSS took my kids from me last year because of drugs and other kinds of violence. I had a couple different social workers and then Felicia Robbins took my case. I'll admit, I didn't like her at first and it always seemed I couldn't do anything right, but as time went on, the more I realized she was only there to help me and my family. She worked with me and did a lot for my children. She made sure they had their needs met and was a very caring social worker. Actually, out of the six social workers I have had at DSS, she was the most caring social worker of all. And, she knows her job. Maybe you haven't worked hard enough to prove you can be a good parent. You know according to the laws, DSS has to have sufficient evidence to be able to take kids away from their family, and the evidence has to be proven. It takes a lot of hard work to do what the DSS and the court wants parents to do, but for me, it all paid off. Once I realized that I was in the wrong for putting my kids through the crazy life we were living, I thanked the social workers for helping me.
And, by the way, learn how to spell, or at least use your spell check if you are going to put things on the internet.
For sure! Caldwell county's finest...git r dun...
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what is the real-DEAL wrote:
has anyone ever had there children stolen? by the dss ? or grandchildren? well i have. i had my children removed over lies that i proved was a lie. but because they already had chose to adopt my children for 20,000 in whitch the dss gets half of that and the same for anyone elses child they steal and adopt out. and the grand parents dont have a chance. the only thing that they hear is grand parents dont have any rights in n.c.
dss does not steal children!!!!they try hard to keep children with there birth familys!!!!!but if they cant its because they are all a bunch of deadbeats!!!!!!!!!they do not sell children for $20,000.you are so mis informed!!!!!!!unless there is someone crooked there.
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dss is rotten here in caldwell co they do enter life's and they do disrupt children's live's if you are taking up for caldwell co dss you must be one of the ones' that partie's on the week end with the 'child protective worker's caldwell co dss sux they need to just shut the place down and start over get rid og joan snyder kelly aldridge and kelly and felicia oh give us a break.....go to the bar's on the week ends and you'll find your dss buddie's drinkin it up oh but if we as citizens decide to have a beer its a violation,
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<quoted text>dss does not steal children!!!!they try hard to keep children with there birth familys!!!!!but if they cant its because they are all a bunch of deadbeats!!!!!!!!!they do not sell children for $20,000.you are so mis informed!!!!!!!unless there is someone crooked there.
wake up yes they do steal kids my grandkids were taken and took to wilksboro for three days and a judge saw the mistake that the social worker had made and demanded the kids be brought home by 5 pm that day they came home with lice and were terrified and to this day if they see a social worker they ask if jonell brock is gonna get them again,she took them with a judge order but failed to imform the judge of what her reasons were and they were proven to be based on a lie and a false report that she didnt bother to even check out she just woke up the judge and stole my grandkids like a theif in the night,but the ol battle ax had to return them and was humilliated in court,and is no longer with caldwell co dss she was immediantly removed by her drunk supervisor joan snyder and kelly aldridge she's a joke to society, dawn donnely now has been removed too she's at a nursing home,wake up people,
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dss is rotten here in caldwell co they do enter life's and they do disrupt children's live's if you are taking up for caldwell co dss you must be one of the ones' that partie's on the week end with the 'child protective worker's caldwell co dss sux they need to just shut the place down and start over get rid og joan snyder kelly aldridge and kelly and felicia oh give us a break.....go to the bar's on the week ends and you'll find your dss buddie's drinkin it up oh but if we as citizens decide to have a beer its a violation,
well maybe i should have stayed out of this forum because i havent had any dealings with caldwell dss but the ones i do know about sure do not charge $20,000 for an adoption,nor do they steal children,and they try there hardest to keep children with there birth familys. the only way they adopt children out is when no one in the family can provide what the child needs.as for your partying workers ,that doesnt sound good!!
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<quoted text>well maybe i should have stayed out of this forum because i havent had any dealings with caldwell dss but the ones i do know about sure do not charge $20,000 for an adoption,nor do they steal children,and they try there hardest to keep children with there birth familys. the only way they adopt children out is when no one in the family can provide what the child needs.as for your partying workers ,that doesnt sound good!!
caldwell co pay's 1400.00 a month for a family to adopt a child they also get money from the goverment and they do come like a theif in the night and take little kids out of homes there worse than the ice unit,my grandaughter was jerked from her daddy's arms and he was thrown on the ground and hand cuffed because his child was screaming for her daddy and did not understand why she was being thrown in a blue dss jeep with no carseat my other grandaughter was wrapped around my neck holding on fer dear life and they took her from my arm's watching her thru the window she was saying nanna help me,,,dss will rot in hell and they did have to return them from the nasty foster home after three days because jonell brock and dawn donnely brandy lovins did not even have ther right case file they came and got the kids on an old case file now what does that tell you,dss was demanded and yelled at by a judge to get those kids home by 5 pm and they were returned and to this day they see a social worker they wanna run hide,caldwell co dss is like caldwell co jail it's all about the money,and you'll find these dearly beloved social worker's in steel horses on the week end kinda makes me wonder about the welfare of there own children joan snyder she is a big joke,,,she will lie lie lie to cover her mistakes and believe me they got a whole case dropped bya judge that 4 kids were involved in just because they didnt have the truth or facts they did it tryin to scare us and didnt think my daughter would fight back well she did and the children are home with there mother,fight and dont ever give up if you are ever dealing with caldwell co dss
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someonewhoknows wrote:
<quoted text>dss does not steal children!!!!they try hard to keep children with there birth familys!!!!!but if they cant its because they are all a bunch of deadbeats!!!!!!!!!they do not sell children for $20,000.you are so mis informed!!!!!!!unless there is someone crooked there.
dss does steal kids they do not try to keep kids with other family members because if they can place them in all these un licenced homes the parent's get a bill for 800.00 a monthas long as the child is in the foster care home. now who's gettin paid dss is because there placing these kids in homes with other people and im not a dead beat i kept my grandaughter and she was taken over a social worker being new ,,opening up an old file and thought she had a case the child was ordered returned home immedciantly by a judge and she was transfered to boone dss you must not know much about dss do you know two dss worker's were fired for drugs last year guess what ..they were child protective worker's
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You bunch of crazy ass people have nothing better to do than bash social workers. If it weren't for these social workers, kids would be dying, continually molested and whatever else these deadbeat parents do. You need to prove parents have to pay DSS monthly for their kids to be in a foster home. If you don't know, parents have to pay child support to the state, been there done that. This is to support the kids, and most parents I'm sure, don't pay their child support.

If you know so much, who were the social workers who were fired for doing drugs? There is a difference in the children's social workers and the ones who do medicaid and food stamps, been there done that too.

If you are so worried about the adoption money issue, maybe you need to contact the adoptions supervisor to clarify this. It sounds like you people who can't take care of your own kids want to blame everybody else for your problems. Maybe if you would have worked with your social worker instead of against her, you would have seen the benefit like me and my family.
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Stop drinking, stop doing drugs, stop going to bars, get a job, brush your teeth and clean your house...then maybe they will not take your kids. Go ahead tell me I don't know what I am talking about. But you and I both know it's the truth. STOP blaming the world because you are a drunkin', lazy, trailer park redneck. YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO AFFECTS YOUR LIFE.
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yomamma wrote:
You bunch of crazy ass people have nothing better to do than bash social workers. If it weren't for these social workers, kids would be dying, continually molested and whatever else these deadbeat parents do. You need to prove parents have to pay DSS monthly for their kids to be in a foster home. If you don't know, parents have to pay child support to the state, been there done that. This is to support the kids, and most parents I'm sure, don't pay their child support. apparently they paid you to say something good about them and you admitted you lost your kids to drugs so who r u now,they must pay you a big waffa check to take up for them like that,,,shut up nobody care's about how much you like dss we are on here because dss really sux'sssssssss get off of here and take care of your kids they gave you back..........
If you know so much, who were the social workers who were fired for doing drugs? There is a difference in the children's social workers and the ones who do medicaid and food stamps, been there done that too.
If you are so worried about the adoption money issue, maybe you need to contact the adoptions supervisor to clarify this. It sounds like you people who can't take care of your own kids want to blame everybody else for your problems. Maybe if you would have worked with your social worker instead of against her, you would have seen the benefit like me and my family.
already contacted lori she totally agree;s that the protective workers we have up there really need to get off there ass and do the right paper work my grand son has been in the system for two years has had 5 different social worker's finally an adoption person jerks a knot in there lazy asses and get's him placed where he's been for two years but dss had just held the case open instead of doing there job ,take care of your kids and mind your own business about mine and what i say .....go grab a burger with your social worker;s
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Just Somebody wrote:
Stop drinking, stop doing drugs, stop going to bars, get a job, brush your teeth and clean your house...then maybe they will not take your kids. Go ahead tell me I don't know what I am talking about. But you and I both know it's the truth. STOP blaming the world because you are a drunkin', lazy, trailer park redneck. YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO AFFECTS YOUR LIFE.
thank you she did stop drinkin after she got away from you and she had to be a redneck because that's what her mama taught her and as for her teeth oh there so pretty now you should seee her,she has her kids and her home is clean ask your dss buddies they go out for pop in visits and they are really impressed,keep your mouth off my daughter,you lost your kids for the same stuff remember,yomama i know who you are and you are no better than my lil redneck girl and you callin somebody trailor trash ,,better look in your door honey,dss helps you because you call and report everbody,have a good day take care of your kids you just got back from the red neck mama

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