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Ape Man

Lenoir, NC

#87 Jun 23, 2013
hghrgrnd828 wrote:
<quoted text> where in any of my post do you see hatred toward fellow man? Not one place. I was defending people that cant legally do so because our society has been babied and cant deal with the truth when it is placed in front of them. There should be more people to stand up for the good in the world instead of protecting the bad.
I have to agree with you when a person who is investigated is acting so angry and ignorant as to get on here and blubber on about a situation that no one on here can do anything about or even needs to know. Such accusations toward the investigators, without proof, is showing just how tacky and out of control this person is. Maybe the person is a decent person in some ways, but in others has bad people in their presence such as excons, drug cults, or theives. You do have to admit this type can influence a child. Parents should look toward their whole surroundings and see how others see them. Also, sometimes the relatives of the parent aren't any better. Sometimes a kid needs a new beginning.
people

Lincolnton, NC

#88 Jun 23, 2013
Well Iam a mother of 6 kids and I ain't never had my children took from me so I don't think Caldwell county Dept of Social Services would take a child if they don't have a reason and they have to have something to back up their story so I guess the mother that lost their children WASN'T TAKING GOOD CARE OF THEM or they wouldn't of taken your kids so don't blame dss for this it's your own problem so act like a parent and be a good mother or father to your children CAUSE DSS DONT TAKE KIDS FOR NO REASON AND I KNOW THIS FOR A FACT. GROW UP IF YOU LAY DOWN THEN BE A WOMAN AND TAKE RESPONSIBLY FOR YOUR ACTIONS. NO SINCE TO REPLY CAUSE ITS THE DARN TRUTH LIKE IT OR LUMP IT BABY GIRL..
William G

Asheville, NC

#89 Jun 24, 2013
"You tell others to stop judging, yet you perpetuate the cycle by judging "hghrgrnd828" because of disagreeing with his/her view point."

Wrong: It has nothing to do with her viewpoint but everything to do with the way she goes about expressing it to others.
Please reread my previous post the only thing I said was about the Baker girl which IMHO was a tragedy that should have been prevented by this professional agency you speak of.
figg

Bessemer City, NC

#90 Jun 24, 2013
William G wrote:
"You tell others to stop judging, yet you perpetuate the cycle by judging "hghrgrnd828" because of disagreeing with his/her view point."
Wrong: It has nothing to do with her viewpoint but everything to do with the way she goes about expressing it to others.
Please reread my previous post the only thing I said was about the Baker girl which IMHO was a tragedy that should have been prevented by this professional agency you speak of.
Good morning William G, I hope you are having a nice day so far.

Everyone is not the same in how they express their thoughts. Sometimes there are years of learned ways of speaking to deal with. Not everyone is soft spoken. I tend to be blunt in what
I say myself-not because I want to hurt anyone's feelings, but
simply because I have dealt with sugar coating the majority of my life. That type of communication leaves too much room for doublespeak and deception for my liking. That's just me personally.

As for the Zahra Baker ordeal-I have found out through my own dealings with both DSS and law enforcement that county lines act as some strict boundaries. If a complaint is made here in Caldwell, it has to be investigated in Caldwell. If the people being investigated up and run off to another county, then until someone reports abuse in the new county, those people are scot free. Doesn't mean I think it's right, but it is what it is. People like the Bakers know how to work the system to their advantage. They know that once DSS receives a complaint, they have to investigate and see if it is legitimate or just someone trying to lie on someone else. DSS isn't like the law-a complaint isnt' like going to swear a warrant for someone's arrest. The worker has to investigate to see if there are grounds for the report or not. That means a case has to be built. Until the powers that be get all the evidence and make a ruling, the persons involved are innocent until proven guilty. DSS doesn't just arbitrarily swoop in and take someone's kids. There is a lot of procedure that has to be followed before that happens.
Life is crazy

Black Mountain, NC

#91 Jun 24, 2013
Dss is full of shit,they took my child cause someone that didn't like me made calls on me about doing drugs and beating my child but I can say that as soon as they found out I was not ture and I passed my drug test they ave me my child back. But I think they need a better way at doin things just cause someone calls on you. If you are not doin anything wrong then it's not right to have dss in your life but if you are then yes dss needs to try and remove the children and keep then safe
figg

Bessemer City, NC

#92 Jun 24, 2013
Life is crazy wrote:
Dss is full of shit,they took my child cause someone that didn't like me made calls on me about doing drugs and beating my child but I can say that as soon as they found out I was not ture and I passed my drug test they ave me my child back. But I think they need a better way at doin things just cause someone calls on you. If you are not doin anything wrong then it's not right to have dss in your life but if you are then yes dss needs to try and remove the children and keep then safe
What you suggest is impossible. People who work at DSS are not psychic. They do their jobs based on reports from members of the community. Realistically, what you are saying is that they should have super powers to instantly recognize who in fact is abusing their children without involving any claims of suspected abuse. It is an inconvenience to have to deal with other people being in one's business, but if it's an unwarranted claim, that's all there is to it. It is a sad thing that there are people in this world who intentionally try to cause trouble for other people-I know people like that myself. I wish we lived in a perfect world too.
I am glad you were able to get your child back. It sounds like it didn't take too long for that to happen.
Life is crazy

Black Mountain, NC

#93 Jun 24, 2013
figg wrote:
<quoted text>
What you suggest is impossible. People who work at DSS are not psychic. They do their jobs based on reports from members of the community. Realistically, what you are saying is that they should have super powers to instantly recognize who in fact is abusing their children without involving any claims of suspected abuse. It is an inconvenience to have to deal with other people being in one's business, but if it's an unwarranted claim, that's all there is to it. It is a sad thing that there are people in this world who intentionally try to cause trouble for other people-I know people like that myself. I wish we lived in a perfect world too.
I am glad you were able to get your child back. It sounds like it didn't take too long for that to happen.
. It only took a week or so but my child was placed with her father. But it made me feel bad for the children that do need help and dss have to spend their time on case that is not true instead of helping the ones that really need it. They don't have to be psychic but they need to find a better way to go about doin things
Ape Man

Lenoir, NC

#94 Jun 24, 2013
sad but true wrote:
<quoted text>
I would not help you because you seem like some ghetto idiot.
Please don't put the ghetto down. The ghetto people do have some style and jive, but this junkie is just illiterate. No one will help her cause she's had enough help.
Jim J

Black Mountain, NC

#95 Jun 24, 2013
William G wrote:
"You tell others to stop judging, yet you perpetuate the cycle by judging "hghrgrnd828" because of disagreeing with his/her view point."
Wrong: It has nothing to do with her viewpoint but everything to do with the way she goes about expressing it to others.
Please reread my previous post the only thing I said was about the Baker girl which IMHO was a tragedy that should have been prevented by this professional agency you speak of.
Well genius when someone comes and ask about a child in your family niece nephew etc . If they have been beat or mistreated don't lie like Elisa bakers daughter did or her dad etc. yeah they knew how to play the system when things got hot on them they moved the case was turned over to that county and the lies continued ! Now numbnuts I know for a fact this county did their job and that witches daughter after elisa was locked up told how mean they were then ( too late now huh) so like I say if people would do what they are supposed to there would be no DSS . So watch out for asshole parents and report them be part of the solution instead of whine about it and thinking that you know what's going on . Oh and have a great day ,
Liz G

United States

#96 Jun 25, 2013
Yeah, if they're anything like Iredell u better check their pockets after they place somebody (the ppl that work with old people anyway) for kickback $

Since: Jun 13

Clayton, NC

#97 Jun 27, 2013
Ape Man wrote:
<quoted text> Please don't put the ghetto down. The ghetto people do have some style and jive, but this junkie is just illiterate. No one will help her cause she's had enough help.
Anyone with COMPLAINTS ABOUT THE 25TH CIRCUIT of CALDWELL, CATAWBA, AND BURKE Counties needs to get their letters into the Judicial Standards Commission PO BOX 1122 RALEIGH, NC 27602 Addressed Attention of: CHRISTOPHER HEAGARTY! ALL COMPLAINTS REGARDING THE MISCONDUCT OF THEIR DSS DEPARTMENTS, JUDGES, ETC. AS SOON AS POSSIBLE FOR GOOD RESULTS WITH THE MORE COMPLAINTS AGAINST.
word of advice

United States

#98 Jun 27, 2013
I dont know this lady or any circumstances involved, but i have read this forum and someone here has posted these workers names and personal information about them. If you do not have permission from that person to publish their name, better do some homework, this can get a person sued!!!!
William G

Asheville, NC

#99 Jun 27, 2013
Jim J wrote:
<quoted text>
Well genius when someone comes and ask about a child in your family niece nephew etc . If they have been beat or mistreated don't lie like Elisa bakers daughter did or her dad etc. yeah they knew how to play the system when things got hot on them they moved the case was turned over to that county and the lies continued ! Now numbnuts I know for a fact this county did their job and that witches daughter after elisa was locked up told how mean they were then ( too late now huh) so like I say if people would do what they are supposed to there would be no DSS . So watch out for asshole parents and report them be part of the solution instead of whine about it and thinking that you know what's going on . Oh and have a great day ,
Who the F##K you think you're talking to some 6 year old? Or could it be that you think that maybe I'm like your wife and kids and will just accept being talked down to? If the people who work for this agency are TRAINED PROFESSIONALS as the poster said they were then they would have done their investigation properly and determined who was lying and who wasn't. It's done everyday in the real world assclown so I suggest you move out of Candy Land and maybe remove that big swelled water head of yours out from your ass while you're at it numbnutz!!!
1Mommy

Lenoir, NC

#100 Jul 6, 2013
Amanda P. is the worst woman ever. My ex took my child and had her in a house full of dog mess guns pill crack pot you name it! she allowed him to keep her even after seeing this! not I have her full custody no thanks to this piece of shit woman!
dss hmmm

United States

#101 Jul 14, 2013
they have my 15yr old girl which im a step parent too . shes been with me since birth. shes ask to come home however . they keep lieing to her . her mother n father had joint custody the father has many health issues the mother passed away last yr. the child has begged dss to just let her co.e home bcause im only a step parent which has been in her life since her birth. they say i dnt have no rights too her. shes getting two social security checks so nancy and the foster systems sitting back taki g her money and i dobt even wNt the money i just want my baby girl back home before something happens to her dad shes vwry depressed and she just wants too come home. i hope the address aboce works i have written them.
dss hmmm

United States

#102 Jul 14, 2013
oh yea all of the above named dss workers on this form they sit in there office and make good post about them self seen it with my own eyes. and ms storie!! her sister inlaw has told how bad she dribks how she abuses her dead husbands kids shes been on pain pills since her husband got killed in a wreck . His ex wife and his sister has pleaded about how bad she is on alachol drugs men and how men she is with . so they think there families dont tell shit on them but hmmmm ive heard and seen this woman buying pills from a man whos kids she took. and ahe lets him sneak n see his kids in exchange for pills aint that true felicia . a douglas l douglas yep you bye ur dope then let him see his kids you took yall are dirty ass women
What a trouble maker

Lenoir, NC

#103 Jul 14, 2013
dss hmmm wrote:
oh yea all of the above named dss workers on this form they sit in there office and make good post about them self seen it with my own eyes. and ms storie!! her sister inlaw has told how bad she dribks how she abuses her dead husbands kids shes been on pain pills since her husband got killed in a wreck . His ex wife and his sister has pleaded about how bad she is on alachol drugs men and how men she is with . so they think there families dont tell shit on them but hmmmm ive heard and seen this woman buying pills from a man whos kids she took. and ahe lets him sneak n see his kids in exchange for pills aint that true felicia . a douglas l douglas yep you bye ur dope then let him see his kids you took yall are dirty ass women
Now you're snitching on your best friends family. Wow!!! I think Gail has kept her mouth shut, why don't you. I thought they were your "car" friends. It seems you got your little peelings hurt by Gail when she saw though your games and lies. What did your best friend and her son do to you that hurt your little peelings? You seem to turn against all your friends and associates. I could tell you a whole lot about what your friends and their friends say about you, but that isn't apart of my life. You go figure it out -- snitch, nark, then take care of the kids and get a home health care person to take care of that sick man before dss takes him away from you.
dss hmmm

United States

#105 Jul 14, 2013
oh please you dumb fucks . im not a snitch. i just think dss is dirty and so are you .cause you always got such negative things and lies to say .you dumbo i dont know who "gail"is ?? anyways i have a good attorney and in one month she will be home ! but thank you for your dumb feed back lmao bye bye jeanne pooh poor thang danny done got him a girl and left you behind again hahhahaha if you would stop stalking her face book you wouldnt know nothing now would you haha you dont have a clie whats going on so get over yourself .
dss hmmm

United States

#106 Jul 15, 2013
word of advice to those of u who are talking so much shit behind my back !!at least your too coward too say all this to my damn face ! i do not hide i do not back down and i will never stop believing that dss is crooked as hell so thats my last post call me names now hurry hurry bcause im signing off clearing topix from my ipad now so bye sweet hearts im so glad yall so jealous cuss i speak my damn peace n yall gotta hide here to speak yalls . my lifes better than topix and i will win with dss sit back take a seat watch
dss hmmm

United States

#107 Jul 15, 2013
by the way to you who have no life and are so fearfull you hide n say so much junk about people. u have a blessed day honey . unlike u i have a life i work i take care of my babies my husband and my animals n my home . hahahahahah what do u do besides stalk peoples fb and lay in a chair getting high on ya stolen lap tops .poor pathetic you.btw how is your dss case ! i here you got your rights tKen sorry if ya did i love your children always have .always will bye sweetie

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