Murder of Tammy Benge
A Sad Life

Salem, SC

#1 Apr 13, 2013
It is so sad the way Tammy Benges life was ended. I wish she could have just moved on and left that horrible man alone. RIP Tammy, may you finally find peace now.
question

United States

#2 Apr 13, 2013
Why did she go by tammy cashion too was she married too someone with that name . I am sorry to her family and sorry her life was taken . People should stop judging her past nobody knows the life a person lives if they are in domestic violence . She may have just been acustom too him and maybe was too afraid of him . That does happen .you just get down and out sometimes turn to drugs to ease the pain . People do t really know what people deal with they just know how to judge real quick . now heaven has gained another angel and shes free from harms way . My sympathy is with her family .
Never Judge

Salem, SC

#3 Apr 13, 2013
Im not sure, maybe she did get married(Cassel)and thats why she also carried that name. Even still she never stopped loving Michael Whisnant and couldnt seem to leave him alone and now shes dead. We were friends when we were younger and I myself witnessed his severe beatings. She would leave and try to stay away but she just loved him so much she would always go back. Poor little thing, even though she had a drug problem she still was the sweetest thing ever and was very giving. She wanted to stop doing drugs and she tried many times to stop but in the end she just couldnt seem to break free from them. She had a very rough, hard, and sad life. She was always looking for love, she just wanted somebody to love and care about her so naturally this caused her to be used and hurt by alot of people especially men. She trusted so much and people took advantage of that, men used her and people did her dirty. I havent seen her in years so I dont know who she married but I wished whoever it was coulda saved her from him. Tammy girl I wished we hadnt lost touch and I wish I coulda seen you again, just one more time. I miss you and may you rest in peace now beautiful angel. My prayers are with your family as they try and get through this terrible tragedy.
A terrible tragedy

Salem, SC

#4 Apr 13, 2013
mindy

Fayetteville, NC

#5 Jan 7, 2014
hoe get what needs to b done just saying
sayWHAT

Bessemer City, NC

#6 Jan 7, 2014
mindy wrote:
hoe get what needs to b done just saying
so you are just saying why? to hear your head roar?
jeanette

Bessemer City, NC

#7 Jan 8, 2014
Mindy ,Be careful what you say.What goes around comes around. You reap what you sew ,So be careful when you say some one got what needed to be done. But for the grace of God there goes you and I . Just saying.
someone with commen sense

Greenville, SC

#8 May 12, 2014
Opinions are like buttholes every one has one... Yes Tammy was the sweetest woman you will ever meet would give the shirt off her back..but when her nor Micheal were doing drug they were Alright.. Micheal is a good hearted man..he loved that woman iknow he's innocent can't believe every little thing someone tells you no Tammy didn't deserve to die just because one man was in the home with her doesn't mean he's a killer!
joker

United States

#9 May 12, 2014
How did u come up with the name common sense cause u dont have any to think that scum didnt kill her just like he wasnt on probation for beating her guess the hammer flew off the shelf when she walked by it huh
someone with commen sense

Greenville, SC

#10 May 12, 2014
Joker apparently you can't spell and that is comments sense what I'm saying you don't know what the freek your talking about low life sob.. so back off you putting ya nose where it don't belong..
joker

United States

#11 May 12, 2014
someone with commen sense wrote:
Joker apparently you can't spell and that is comments sense what I'm saying you don't know what the freek your talking about low life sob.. so back off you putting ya nose where it don't belong..
who are his boyfriend from jail or just one of his crack heads that helped supply his habit on your knees mom taught you well huh
joker

United States

#12 May 12, 2014
Ok im sorry just heard you or michael didnt blow for drugs it was for pleasure and a warm meal
someone with commen sense

Banner Elk, NC

#13 May 12, 2014
Dude what r u even talking about... I'm done.. you' make no sense
Jeannie Jones

Dallas, NC

#14 Jun 28, 2014
someone with commen sense wrote:
Opinions are like buttholes every one has one... Yes Tammy was the sweetest woman you will ever meet would give the shirt off her back..but when her nor Micheal were doing drug they were Alright.. Micheal is a good hearted man..he loved that woman iknow he's innocent can't believe every little thing someone tells you no Tammy didn't deserve to die just because one man was in the home with her doesn't mean he's a killer!
Really...and I guess that good hearted man didn't lacerate her head with a hammer..or break her leg..or break her jaw and arm. That good hearted man also burned every picture of our deceased mother and brother in front of her. That good hearted man also threatened to put a bullet in my childrens' brains and "bury all of you so no one will ever find you." So you keep on living in fantasy land and defending what is nothing more then a rabid dog who deserves to be put down.(Jeannie.....Tammys' sister)...By the way it's spelled common sense
Heard

Fayetteville, NC

#15 Jul 3, 2014
Im offended that their is a Dallas, NC ! Just saying !
Jeannie Jones

Dallas, NC

#16 May 9, 2015
Heard wrote:
Im offended that their is a Dallas, NC ! Just saying !
Well if I could tolerate the cold and afford it I would be in Pittsburgh :) As an aside this forum was dedicated to my murdered sister...so please be mindful
sarabella

Tampa, FL

#17 May 9, 2015
So sad the women that live with ABUSE!

RIP TAMMY!

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