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Tubel

Polkville, NC

#41 Jan 23, 2014
true wrote:
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I never said they didn't need to be involved with her case she was plastered all over the front page of the news topic for selling drugs yeah they had ALL rights to take her kids. But the other woman what real reason did they have to take her kids. Because her 13/14 year old son snuck out in the middle of the night. What do they expect parents to do stay up 24 hours just to make sure the kids don't sneak off. Come on. And they say they "know how to tell when a person is lying when they take the call". NO they wont "magically" know what reports are real and whats not but when they investigate and find the report is false they should leave well enough alone not continue to harass until they've made up a reason to remove kids.
It was reported that the boy overdosed on drugs. You really don't see that as a reason to remove him from the home?
true

Salisbury, NC

#42 Jan 24, 2014
Tubel wrote:
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It was reported that the boy overdosed on drugs. You really don't see that as a reason to remove him from the home?
Ok so if ur child sneaks out while ur asleep and runs off with friends and overdoses on drugs that u know ur child did not get from u because u know u dont do drugs u would be perfectly fine with DSS taking that child from.u?
wow

Black Mountain, NC

#43 Jan 24, 2014
there is no judge in dss court. well here is, but shouldnt be cause the dss runs the court. judge does exactlly what dss tells him/her. i was there once myself, judge was dealing with a teenage girl. seemed to be a hell raising child from what was told to the court. judge made the decided to removed the child from the home and send her up to Crossnore. Then the dss rep. told the judge that was not in their plan for the child and didn't want that, then judge changed it. what dss wants in that court room, THEY GET. no questions asked, i dont give a shit what anybody says. the ones backing them are them, or someone connected to them. When your own attorney tell you that dss in this county runs things, IT DOES! I wonder how many of these cps workers hand cuff kids to there porch with a dead chicken tied around its neck!
Tubel

Polkville, NC

#44 Jan 24, 2014
true wrote:
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Ok so if ur child sneaks out while ur asleep and runs off with friends and overdoses on drugs that u know ur child did not get from u because u know u dont do drugs u would be perfectly fine with DSS taking that child from.u?
This is not about my kid. DSS isn't trying to remove anyone from my home. DSS doesn't just waltz into a person's life one day because the worker is bored and has nothing to do.
There are anonymous reports being made somewhere, and there is history somewhere.

I comprehend single parenthood. I get it that in such situations, the parent cannot be everything for everybody. What I get even more so though, is that there are always warning signs to be seen when a child needs help. Now the kid in question left up in the morning at an hour that's standard to be sleeping. I get that. No problem about that. The problem is, what was the kid up to prior to running away and OD'ing? Who was he hanging with? What kind of people were his friends?

From the looks of it, he went to this friend's home to get drugs. He OD'd there. Does mama know her son's friends? If she does, and she knows they are druggies, why is her son allowed to hang with them to begin with? Yeah, he snuck off-says to me that he knew she probably wouldn't approve of what he was fixing to do, and that she probably didn't approve of the friend either. What do you do with teenagers that won't listen, sneak out and do drugs? I'll tell you what you do with them-you do an intervention and if it means putting the kid in Broughton to teach him, then there it is.

Parents want to be their kids best friends too much these days. There is a price that people pay for doing stupid crap.
true

Spartanburg, SC

#45 Jan 25, 2014
Tubel wrote:
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This is not about my kid. DSS isn't trying to remove anyone from my home. DSS doesn't just waltz into a person's life one day because the worker is bored and has nothing to do.
There are anonymous reports being made somewhere, and there is history somewhere.
I comprehend single parenthood. I get it that in such situations, the parent cannot be everything for everybody. What I get even more so though, is that there are always warning signs to be seen when a child needs help. Now the kid in question left up in the morning at an hour that's standard to be sleeping. I get that. No problem about that. The problem is, what was the kid up to prior to running away and OD'ing? Who was he hanging with? What kind of people were his friends?
From the looks of it, he went to this friend's home to get drugs. He OD'd there. Does mama know her son's friends? If she does, and she knows they are druggies, why is her son allowed to hang with them to begin with? Yeah, he snuck off-says to me that he knew she probably wouldn't approve of what he was fixing to do, and that she probably didn't approve of the friend either. What do you do with teenagers that won't listen, sneak out and do drugs? I'll tell you what you do with them-you do an intervention and if it means putting the kid in Broughton to teach him, then there it is.
Parents want to be their kids best friends too much these days. There is a price that people pay for doing stupid crap.
Yeah put your child in a mental institution so DSS can say u cant handle your own child. Plz understand, though i have never had a child removed from my home, i do know some who have and DSS will do and say whatever they want whatever will get them ur child and if u dont let them know off the bat that u will not go down with out a hell of a fight they will take ur kids and u will not get them back.
Be honest

Greer, SC

#46 Jan 26, 2014
I can't stand DSS either but the women who were in the protest were lying. One of them is an active drug user who lost her children because of that and because she refuses to stop not only using drugs but living with a man who sells them.
The bigger problem is Caldwell DSS being lazy and not wanting to get involved as I was told by someone off the record unless they see drugs on the table, broken bones, have witnesses etc. It seems they can never win look at what happened with Zaira Baker if you want to know the REAL problem with our DSS. They are lazy.
Carolina Watchdog

Lenoir, NC

#47 Jan 26, 2014
liliesdaughter wrote:
<quoted text>if they are drug users, they sure would not be out protesting. You know dss drug tests them
DSS SHOULD Drug Test them.....and if these protesters are without guilt, they should offer to BE DRUG TESTED as a Positive about themselves - that would show me something!
true

Fairview, NC

#48 Jan 26, 2014
Be honest wrote:
I can't stand DSS either but the women who were in the protest were lying. One of them is an active drug user who lost her children because of that and because she refuses to stop not only using drugs but living with a man who sells them.
The bigger problem is Caldwell DSS being lazy and not wanting to get involved as I was told by someone off the record unless they see drugs on the table, broken bones, have witnesses etc. It seems they can never win look at what happened with Zaira Baker if you want to know the REAL problem with our DSS. They are lazy.
Thats not true either cause i know someone right now that DOES NOT do drugs DOES NOT abuse their child yet DSS still removed their kids over BS!!!!
parent

Ferguson, NC

#49 Jan 26, 2014
I am currently in the middle of a nasty custody dispute where my ex didn't want the kids and didn't want to pay child support. He did research and found out how to spin and tell his lies so the social workers would believe him and he could legally kidnap my children. He spun lies of drugs, sex, and alcohol use in front of my child along with neglect and abuse: emotional, physical and mental. Now I have proven all of stories to be lies, but DSS screwed up and gave my children to the monster who is now wielding them as weapons and wasting valuable resources to help the children who genuinely needed the help. They have dug themselves a nice grave and are unwilling to admit any wrong doing.

It is wrong on so many levels. CPS is given the power of God and nobody teaches them that there is a responsibility to that power. For the record I have paid for my own drug test to prove my innocence, I have had letters written from the many volunteer services I did with the community, and I have letters from various parents and neighbors who I helped and worked with on a regular almost daily basis. This man spun lie after lie and made everything seem so real CPS was terrified of me.

I have never failed a drug test. I do on ooccasion have a drink, but guess what I'm over 21 and I can. I paid for the mental evaluation to prove I wasn't crazy (a lie my husband told). My evaluation determined I was abused by my estranged husband and I was depressed from the events going on, but I wasn't bipolar or anything that could be determined I was mentally unfit to be a parent.

Children are property and whoever has them owns them, and this is wrong on so many levels.
true

Fairview, NC

#50 Jan 26, 2014
parent wrote:
I am currently in the middle of a nasty custody dispute where my ex didn't want the kids and didn't want to pay child support. He did research and found out how to spin and tell his lies so the social workers would believe him and he could legally kidnap my children. He spun lies of drugs, sex, and alcohol use in front of my child along with neglect and abuse: emotional, physical and mental. Now I have proven all of stories to be lies, but DSS screwed up and gave my children to the monster who is now wielding them as weapons and wasting valuable resources to help the children who genuinely needed the help. They have dug themselves a nice grave and are unwilling to admit any wrong doing.
It is wrong on so many levels. CPS is given the power of God and nobody teaches them that there is a responsibility to that power. For the record I have paid for my own drug test to prove my innocence, I have had letters written from the many volunteer services I did with the community, and I have letters from various parents and neighbors who I helped and worked with on a regular almost daily basis. This man spun lie after lie and made everything seem so real CPS was terrified of me.
I have never failed a drug test. I do on ooccasion have a drink, but guess what I'm over 21 and I can. I paid for the mental evaluation to prove I wasn't crazy (a lie my husband told). My evaluation determined I was abused by my estranged husband and I was depressed from the events going on, but I wasn't bipolar or anything that could be determined I was mentally unfit to be a parent.
Children are property and whoever has them owns them, and this is wrong on so many levels.
Now there is the truth!
Sorry that u are having to deal with a bunch of lonely ass women who dont have children of their own and want to try to tell us how to raise ours by reading books. I hope everything works out for you.

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