marriage problems
smepeople

Barbourville, KY

#1 Jan 11, 2012
ook, i have been married for 17 years, and this past year has been the worst of all. my husband fell in love with my newphews wife she got pregnant last year and had a baby in nov. and she dont know who the dad is. im for sure its my husband how can i tell. without asking her? any advise plz comment

Since: Aug 11

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#2 Jan 11, 2012
smepeople wrote:
ook, i have been married for 17 years, and this past year has been the worst of all. my husband fell in love with my newphews wife she got pregnant last year and had a baby in nov. and she dont know who the dad is. im for sure its my husband how can i tell. without asking her? any advise plz comment
Sounds like one for the Maury show! No one can force her to take a DNA test unless she sues for child support. By this time he would not be my husband...he'd be my EX...
jojo

London, KY

#3 Jan 11, 2012
If she was married to your nephew when she got pregnant, then he is the legal father for sure....may not be biological, but legal per kentucky law.
Unsweet

Manchester, KY

#6 Jan 11, 2012
Does her husband (your nephew) know about the affair? Are you SURE they even had an affair?

Since: Aug 11

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#7 Jan 11, 2012
jojo wrote:
If she was married to your nephew when she got pregnant, then he is the legal father for sure....may not be biological, but legal per kentucky law.
Does the nephew know there is a possibility the child is not his or does he know of her infidelity? If he knows and wants a DNA he can ask for it as the legal father without her consent. There will always be the issue that the affair happened even if the child turned out to be the nephew's. So it is a known fact to all involved that your husband was in love with her? If you want to forgive him that is up to you. You would be a better woman than me for it. I hate divorce, but I aso hate cheating spouses. What woman wants a husband that is in love with someone else. Not me. Some would say they don't want to destroy their marriage over it, but as I see it he already did it. Marriage is not just on paper, but a vow of faithfulness to each other.

Since: Aug 11

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#9 Jan 11, 2012
Unsweet wrote:
Does her husband (your nephew) know about the affair? Are you SURE they even had an affair?
I agree. Is she sure of it?

“Eagle is in the HOUSE...!!!!”

Since: Aug 11

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#10 Jan 11, 2012
Wings of a Dove wrote:
<quoted text>I'd give him a break alright...his frakkin neck! Just before I took half his stuff and left!
I figured you would get all his stuff, then throw him in the freezer ...no mercy to cheaters
hmm

Kittanning, PA

#11 Jan 11, 2012
I say go cheat on him with the person thats been crazy bout you for oh lets say the last 30 plus years. you may fall in love!!!
COUNTRY BOY

Mount Vernon, KY

#12 Jan 11, 2012
Make sure he did before you make a big mistake you can never take back,and may never be able to save your marrige after the truth comes out.
ole country boy

Kittanning, PA

#13 Jan 11, 2012
Oh shut up country boy. Leave them lovers alone. Why dont you keep your self in the city? u dont know the first thing about country livin!!!
COUNTRY BOY

Mount Vernon, KY

#14 Jan 11, 2012
ole country boy wrote:
Oh shut up country boy. Leave them lovers alone. Why dont you keep your self in the city? u dont know the first thing about country livin!!!
Country livin,i live so far back i have to pipe the sun shine in.I do know this much when you got something good you better stay with it!!!!!!
ole country boy

Kittanning, PA

#15 Jan 12, 2012
Maybe so. But some of us have never found one worth holding on to!

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