why married men cheat
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just wondering

Carmel, IN

#1 Dec 8, 2009
Why do married men find someone to lead on, to fill their heads with hopes and dreams, but swear up and down they aren't married? They win our hearts, then go back to their wives. If a man will cheat with you, he will cheat on you.
jason

London, KY

#2 Dec 8, 2009
the problem is, its that big hole, most women have!have a great day.
dido

London, KY

#3 Dec 8, 2009
just wondering wrote:
Why do married men find someone to lead on, to fill their heads with hopes and dreams, but swear up and down they aren't married? They win our hearts, then go back to their wives. If a man will cheat with you, he will cheat on you.
and the bad part of it is the women play the same game. this is dangerous and hurtful. but to answer your question,in my opinion,is the other spouse may not be performing their duties to each other,some love the thrill and excitement,and there are occasions were you end up falling in love whether you be man or woman.i have done alot of cheating myself,and either way is bad and someone's heart ends up broke. some marriages just get married too young and drift away and change thru the years.
wellwell

Newburgh, IN

#4 Dec 8, 2009
people cheat for one simple reason and that is because they get tired of the same thing over and over and just want something different. Men are as faithful as their options. If he doesn't cheat that is because no other woman wants him, or he is hiding it well. K ?? It don't matter how great a woman is or how beautiful, a man will always get tired of her and want something different. That's life and if you dont like it stay single.
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East Bernstadt, KY

#5 Dec 8, 2009
Dido is right. Its not just men. After my divorce I discovered my wife of 15 yrs had been cheating for 14.It was'nt do to ANY lack of interest on my part. I don't know why she did it but she was very good at hiding it. I suspected but could never prove it.
Later when asked she just claimed to like variety. Mine was'nt only heart she broke. When I look back there were many occasions I could have cheated, but I was raised to take a relationship seriously.
And that my friend seems to be an endangered species
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East Bernstadt, KY

#7 Dec 8, 2009
trouble wrote:
O that was your wife? Sorry about that!!
Would'nt have surpried me none. No hard feelings.
Did u get that rash cleared up?
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East Bernstadt, KY

#9 Dec 8, 2009
You DID know her!!! Yeah a lot better. Got more money too since I ain't supporting her and her boyfriends. Damn, You guys was expensive!
bee bee

Elizabethtown, KY

#10 Dec 8, 2009
cause they want some strange better smelling tang!
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East Bernstadt, KY

#11 Dec 8, 2009
Maybe your ol lady should be introduced to a bathtub and dousch."If the smell lasts longer than 4 hours, consult your physician"!!
bee bee

Elizabethtown, KY

#12 Dec 8, 2009
all of it smells its alot like air fresheners different flavor every know and again.
bee bee

Elizabethtown, KY

#13 Dec 8, 2009
sorry type o now and again..
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East Bernstadt, KY

#14 Dec 8, 2009
Carp scented air freshener? Hmmm...
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East Bernstadt, KY

#16 Dec 8, 2009
No thanks. Found an old picture in the bottom of a drawer. You can keep the vids but a gratuitus payment would be nice. Did she let you put it up her a**? I got more of that than anything.
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East Bernstadt, KY

#19 Dec 8, 2009
No wonder my Huskey was jealous. Also kinda explains the love of the doggie position.
-lmfao-
funny

London, KY

#20 Dec 9, 2009
most married men cheat b/c their wives are cheating on them to begin with.......
simple

London, KY

#21 Dec 9, 2009
When wives, girl friends, or whatever cut off sex or become cold and indifferent they force us to cheat. If all u women would take care of your man instead of bitching, crying, demanding, and yelling then you wouldn't get cheated on.
mythoughts

Somerset, KY

#22 Dec 9, 2009
my man doesnt cheat we've been married 6 yrs. he may look at other girls but dats normal I check out other guys too, sum women stress that. You have to be confident and firm in a marriage, you need to make it clear dat you can look but not touch or else your gone and dats just the bottom line. I've noticed that lots women have kids and than let themselves go. they don't fix themselves up for their man and look raggedy all the time, not only for your man, but yourself you have to try to pretty up atleast on the weekend and you need to stop blaming it on how busy the kids keep you.
Pibbstra

East Bernstadt, KY

#23 Dec 9, 2009
simple wrote:
When wives, girl friends, or whatever cut off sex or become cold and indifferent they force us to cheat. If all u women would take care of your man instead of bitching, crying, demanding, and yelling then you wouldn't get cheated on.
Sex should never be used be used as a weapon or tool to get what you want. All it does is creat a tense situation between the partners that can't end good. Men and women both have used the excuse of being too tired. Although this can be a viable excuse at times you should never continuously deny your partner the physical aspect of your relationship. This only creates hard feelings in which someone ends up looking elsewhere.
And if your partner doees'nt turn you on anymore, move on. It's childish to cheat just to get even.
Gal

Gray, KY

#24 Dec 9, 2009
crazy
babies

United States

#25 Dec 9, 2009
men are such pathetic little boys that never grow up

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