OMG

Columbus, OH

#1 Jan 30, 2013
Found a man who has a big dick, knows how to work it, he works 2 jobs, no kids, he is 28, has his own car, his own apartment and is a amazing person on the inside, in the military, only one catch and I can't decide on what to do. The man is amazing, but he has a girlfriend, it took me 3 months to get him to sleep with me, she treats him like trash when all he does is be there for her. She cheated on him and I know that for a fact because she told him. He takes care of her kid like the kid is his own. He stated the only reason he has stayed with her is because he doesn't want to loose the right to see the kid because he has taken care of the child since the child was 1 and the child is 6 now. I don't want to be a home wrecker but he can do so much better and he is such a nice guy. What do I do? No lame pick up lines btw. Just want pure advice, I know in the back of my mind, I should leave this alone but I just can't let him go because I have never seen a guy with his life together like him, and I have never seen a guy that is as genuine as him. She is lucky to have him and needs to realize it. Yea he slept with me but he told me it shouldn't have happened and has told me no to sex. What do I do people?????
unsound

Indianapolis, IN

#2 Jan 31, 2013
OMG wrote:
Found a man who has a big dick, knows how to work it, he works 2 jobs, no kids, he is 28, has his own car, his own apartment and is a amazing person on the inside, in the military, only one catch and I can't decide on what to do. The man is amazing, but he has a girlfriend, it took me 3 months to get him to sleep with me, she treats him like trash when all he does is be there for her. She cheated on him and I know that for a fact because she told him. He takes care of her kid like the kid is his own. He stated the only reason he has stayed with her is because he doesn't want to loose the right to see the kid because he has taken care of the child since the child was 1 and the child is 6 now. I don't want to be a home wrecker but he can do so much better and he is such a nice guy. What do I do? No lame pick up lines btw. Just want pure advice, I know in the back of my mind, I should leave this alone but I just can't let him go because I have never seen a guy with his life together like him, and I have never seen a guy that is as genuine as him. She is lucky to have him and needs to realize it. Yea he slept with me but he told me it shouldn't have happened and has told me no to sex. What do I do people?????
You already know this answer... Not sure why your asking... He's not going to leave this child or her. Stop putting yourself inside a relationship you don't belong in. If he was to leave her that's different, but your wanting to change a whole family dynamic because a man has his life together. I know they are hard to find but go find your own please let this family deal with whatever problems there are without adding more to them.
agree

Proctorville, OH

#3 Jan 31, 2013
I do agree with the above post, he is not going to leave her, you are wasting time waiting on something that is not going to happen... and probably the reason he told you no sex is because he has no intentions of ever being with you,and he doesnt want to get into something that is not so easily gotten out of.. good luck to you
LOGIC

Cincinnati, OH

#4 Feb 12, 2013
First of all, if he does leave her, he isn't going to be with someone that reminds him of her or the bad times, you're just easy to him.
People get into this sort of relationship, where they each have reasons for trying to make this situation last as long as possible. Which in example, she admitted to cheating (probably not out of guilt but to test him) and he didn't leave. He takes care of the kid, which is just as special to him as if she were his own.
The only reason you reference "home- wrecker" is because your brain tells you things you don't fully want to understand. You are trying to be one even more than you already have been.
THERE ISN'T A RULE THAT HOME-WRECKING IS ONLY BAD IN HAPPY HOMES.It goes for any home.

Unless you see abuse going on, it isn't your business to "fix" this situation. You'll even find that in a serious abuse situation, it's hard to even get the child out of the home. This does not mean you shouldn't call the police.

If you feel that I've slighted you, I apologize, this was not my intention. In this world, at times it's hard to see what is clearly right when you are considering the different perspectives. A lot of times, we land in a grey area with no clear answer. The decisions we make, should be made with deep thought. Not simple things but this can change the direction of your life. Please don't be that person. You know you are better then being that person.
If he were going to leave her, if he were logical and the situation is as you say, he would be gone. You may think it takes time but he would be gone if he was logical enough to see that a different situation would be better for him.
I wish you happiness in your life.
mike

Akron, OH

#6 Feb 13, 2013
If he has a big dick - ride it while you can. Nothing else matters.
Zen Tauba

South Webster, OH

#7 Feb 13, 2013
Mike seems to know all about riding the big one. Hahahahahahaha!!
yea

Tiffin, OH

#8 Feb 16, 2013
This guy shes talking about sounds like me ha!

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