Judge overturns California's ban on same-sex marriage

Aug 4, 2010 Full story: www.cnn.com 201,187

A federal judge in California has knocked down the state's voter-approved ban on same-sex marriage, ruling Wednesday that the state's controversial Proposition 8 violates the U.S. Constitution.

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Big D

Modesto, CA

#204696 Jul 25, 2013
KiMare wrote:
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You are so humble!!! You left yourself out.
VV pontificates everything. But not until he has twirled, twisted, shifted, slandered and lied. Nothing else is important or considered except his gay colored world. He is determined to put a bent rod in a straight hole and call it ss marriage.
Smile.
we have watched you twirl and twist and shift and slander and lie and you still have not recognized that same sex couples are indeed married and recognized on the state and federal level.

You have your eyes tightly closed to that fact
Frankie Rizzo

Union City, CA

#204697 Jul 25, 2013
KiMare wrote:
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You are so humble!!! You left yourself out.
VV pontificates everything. But not until he has twirled, twisted, shifted, slandered and lied. Nothing else is important or considered except his gay colored world. He is determined to put a bent rod in a straight hole and call it ss marriage.
Smile.
Of course who can forget VV's infamous outburst- "Who gives a damn about children!"

“KiMare'a the Monster Mutation”

Since: Nov 10

Location hidden

#204698 Jul 25, 2013
veryvermilion wrote:
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Are you willing to have the following marriages annulled:
--Marriages involving elderly couples who are incapable due to age or medical problems to engage in reproductive intercourse
--Marriages involving one or both members who have a mental impairment (depression, PTSD, anxiety/panic, etc.), keeping them from consummating for reproductive purposes.
--Marriages involving one or both members who have physical problems that impair them from engaging in intercourse for reproductive purposes. Examples would include war injuries, diabetes, various cancers, etc.
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By the way, annulment happens when a married person seeks to have their marriage ended. The government doesn't go on witch hunts looking for marriages to be annulled.
As with a couple's reproductive intentions, the government doesn't hand out marriage certificates based on a full physical and psychological examination indicating that both people seeking a license are capable of consummating their marriage.
Bottom line, it's just another distraction. None of your business what goes on in a legally married couple's bedroom. Just move along.
I know how hard that it is for you to keep yourselves out of other people's affairs, but try to.
With your fascination with anal sex and Pietro's fascination with reproductive consummation, you guys are beginning to creep the rest of us out.
In all those cases, apart from age and medical conditions, the possibility of consummation is there.

For ss couples? Never.

The same is true about children.

Ss couples are 100% mutually barren.

Consummation is just another profound example of the differences between ss couples and marriage.

The absolute inability to connect the past and the future of humanity in the moment of marriage union.

Admit it, VV, ss couples are disqualified. ALWAYS.
Frankie Rizzo

Union City, CA

#204699 Jul 25, 2013
Big D wrote:
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That would be saying that everything sucks, even Kil Mare
Now we're getting even sillier. As if we weren't silly enough around here.

We all suck. "Who among us doesn't suck?" -Frankie Rizzo

“KiMare'a the Monster Mutation”

Since: Nov 10

Location hidden

#204700 Jul 25, 2013
Big D wrote:
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lies... you still have not recognized that same sex couples are indeed married and recognized on the state and federal level.
You have your eyes tightly closed to that fact
My eyes are wide open. I keep looking to see a real marriage. At the most, all I've seen is a mutually sterile, duplicate gendered half of marriage!

What the hell am I not seeing???
well

Round Lake, IL

#204701 Jul 25, 2013
KiMare wrote:
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What the hell am I not seeing???
Human beings!!! Living, breathing people with hearts, souls and feelings. I know that is hard for you to understand because you seem to have no heart.

For someone who was supposedly a Pastor you should be ashamed of yourself!
sheesh

Baltimore, MD

#204702 Jul 25, 2013
justhefacts wrote:
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Look at the Lib voter base in murders and Crime.


Very interesting. Can you link us to this statistic?
justhefacts wrote:
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All I see here is ignorant.
Then put down the mirror ffs.
Big D

Modesto, CA

#204703 Jul 25, 2013
KiMare wrote:
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My eyes are wide open. I keep looking to see a real marriage. At the most, all I've seen is a mutually sterile, duplicate gendered half of marriage!
What the hell am I not seeing???
Nope, you just proved your eyes are still tightly closed

They ARE married, and recognized on the state and federal level regardless of your opinion.

Not an opinion, an actual legal fact

One that you have your eyes closed to

“Vita e' Bella.”

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#204704 Jul 25, 2013
veryvermilion wrote:
If I understand things correctly, here's where we stand:
Pietro--believes that since same-sex couples are not able to consummate their marriage with reproductive sex,
Coitus.
then their marriage is invalid.
Pietro believes marriage is a union of husband and wife, and that said union should recognized, privileged, and soley legally maintained, as such. Same sex marriage is a contradiction in terms, marriage is a union of both sexes.
He also believes that polygamy and incest should be legalized since same-sex marriage is legal.
He is puzzled by SSM advocates who insist that conjugality is expendable, but monogamy is not. Perhaps the all powerful and wise Big D, or his sidekick Big Red, could explain this.
Big D

Modesto, CA

#204705 Jul 25, 2013
Frankie Rizzo wrote:
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Now we're getting even sillier. As if we weren't silly enough around here.
We all suck. "Who among us doesn't suck?" -Frankie Rizzo
Oh I was just referencing gravity jokes, we are all affected by it and in fact have gravity of our own.

“Vita e' Bella.”

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#204706 Jul 25, 2013
Amy wrote:
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Oh, the poor thing...
The Missus thanks you for your concern.
Big D

Modesto, CA

#204707 Jul 25, 2013
KiMare wrote:
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In all those cases, apart from age and medical conditions, the possibility of consummation is there.
For ss couples? Never.
The same is true about children.
Ss couples are 100% mutually barren.
Consummation is just another profound example of the differences between ss couples and marriage.
The absolute inability to connect the past and the future of humanity in the moment of marriage union.
Admit it, VV, ss couples are disqualified. ALWAYS.
There is no expectation of procreation in order to get a marriage license.

There is no expectation of consummation in order to get a marriage license.

Wrong on both counts

I know veterans that have lost the lower half of their bodies that could not in any way procreate or consummate that were married. There is no such expectation, and they had no difficulty obtaining a marriage license, and are now married.

Your eyes are still tightly closed to the fact that same sex couples are legally married and recognized as such on both the state and federal level.

“KiMare'a the Monster Mutation”

Since: Nov 10

Location hidden

#204708 Jul 25, 2013
well wrote:
<quoted text>
Human beings!!! Living, breathing people with hearts, souls and feelings. I know that is hard for you to understand because you seem to have no heart.
For someone who was supposedly a Pastor you should be ashamed of yourself!
I see human beings living in severe denial, trying to build a fallacy on the backs of marriage, family and children.

The most caring thing I can do is confront that denial as severely as necessary.

I simply point out unchangeable realities. Think about what you are asking people to do.

“Vita e' Bella.”

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#204709 Jul 25, 2013
veryvermilion wrote:
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Are you willing to have the following marriages annulled:
--Marriages involving elderly couples who are incapable due to age or medical problems to engage in reproductive intercourse
No, because the couple is still husband and wife.
--Marriages involving one or both members who have a mental impairment (depression, PTSD, anxiety/panic, etc.), keeping them from consummating for reproductive purposes.
No, because the couple is still husband and wife.
--Marriages involving one or both members who have physical problems that impair them from engaging in intercourse for reproductive purposes. Examples would include war injuries, diabetes, various cancers, etc.
No, because the couple is still husband and wife.
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By the way, annulment happens when a married person seeks to have their marriage ended. The government doesn't go on witch hunts looking for marriages to be annulled.
No but it does provide certain grounds for annulment.
As with a couple's reproductive intentions, the government doesn't hand out marriage certificates based on a full physical and psychological examination indicating that both people seeking a license are capable of consummating their marriage.
Nor does it require a statement of orientation indicating attractiveness , or lack there of, to the other party.
Bottom line, it's just another distraction. None of your business what goes on in a legally married couple's bedroom. Just move along.
Then petition the state to have any, and all references to sex, sexual intercourse, removed from the books.
I know how hard that it is for you to keep yourselves out of other people's affairs, but try to.
With your fascination with anal sex and Pietro's fascination with reproductive consummation, you guys are beginning to creep the rest of us out.
Me too....you keep insisting there's no differences between SSCs, and OSCs, that somehow every aspect of marriage jurisprudence applies to SSM.
Frankie Rizzo

Union City, CA

#204710 Jul 25, 2013
Big D wrote:
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I know veterans that have lost the lower half of their bodies that could not in any way procreate or consummate that were married. There is no such expectation, and they had no difficulty obtaining a marriage license, and are now married.
Do you really? How many?

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“Vita e' Bella.”

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#204711 Jul 25, 2013
Big D wrote:
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There is no expectation of procreation in order to get a marriage license.
Having children is a primary purpose of marriage. Heup v. Heup (Was. 1969) 172 N.W.2d 334, 336

[M]arriage exists as a protected legal institution primarily because of societal values associated with the propagation of the human race. Singer v. Hara (Wash. App. 1974) 522 P.2d 1187, 1195.
There is no expectation of consummation in order to get a marriage license.
Just one man, and one woman, in thirty plus states.
I know veterans that have lost the lower half of their bodies that could not in any way procreate or consummate that were married. There is no such expectation, and they had no difficulty obtaining a marriage license, and are now married.
As long as they entered into a legally recognized u ion of husband and wife, valid in all fifty states, they are married.
Your eyes are still tightly closed to the fact that same sex couples are legally married and recognized as such on both the state and federal level.
But treated, and acknowledged as different. A veggie patty is now a "burger". A man can be a lesbian too.

“Vita e' Bella.”

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#204712 Jul 25, 2013
Jonah1 wrote:
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Endless yammering about nonexistent things doesn't alter the fact that I'm still married, and you're baby mill marriage isn't given any special standing. Not a damn thing you can do about it!!
Smile.
And men can be lesbians, veggie patties are "burgers". And to think, at one time a "gay man" was defined as a womanizer. Embrace your inner womanizer Joanie.

Since: Dec 09

Knoxville, TN

#204713 Jul 25, 2013
KiMare wrote:
<quoted text>
In all those cases, apart from age and medical conditions, the possibility of consummation is there.
For ss couples? Never.
The same is true about children.
Ss couples are 100% mutually barren.
Consummation is just another profound example of the differences between ss couples and marriage.
The absolute inability to connect the past and the future of humanity in the moment of marriage union.
Admit it, VV, ss couples are disqualified. ALWAYS.
You know, maybe your marriage doesn't live up to what we believe it should be.

You've never had to fight tooth and nail to get your marriage recognized. You've never had to endure the possible loss of family, friends, employment; all in order to be with the person you love.

My guess is that if you had to do these things, most of you straight bigots would probably just shack up and avoid the inconveniences.

Your marriage will never mean as much as the marriage between two people of the same gender.

You spend billions each year on ridiculous weddings--with $3000 white gowns signifying "purity". Most of the time when a bride comes prancing down the aisle in a white dress, it's all the guests can do to keep a straight face.

Then you turn around and spend almost as much divorcing as you did on marrying.

Oh, and let's not forget about the 40,000,000 babies you guys abort each year. Your children are SO important to you! Tell me, Kim, is abortion also a "cross cultural constraint on evolutionary mating behavior"?

Those kids who do happen to make it out of the sacred birth canal; about one in three end up in a home where the father is absent.

You're right... Same-sex couples are very much unlike you. If we have children, it's because we wanted them. We fight through very strict adoption processes in order to have them. I'd lay odds that the percentage of intact same-sex families WAY outnumber the percentage of intact opposite-sex families.

We want our marriages. We want our families.

Your marriages will never equal same-sex marriages.

(see how easy it is to turn things around on you?)
well

Round Lake, IL

#204717 Jul 25, 2013
KiMare wrote:
<quoted text>
I see human beings living in severe denial, trying to build a fallacy on the backs of marriage, family and children.
The most caring thing I can do is confront that denial as severely as necessary.
I simply point out unchangeable realities. Think about what you are asking people to do.
Bullshit! You are here primarily because you have a fear and hatred of gay men...you don't seem to have a problem with lesbians. You have spent a few years lying about why you are here. Why not try to be honest for a change?

Since: Dec 09

Knoxville, TN

#204718 Jul 25, 2013
Pietro Armando wrote:
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Having children is a primary purpose of marriage. Heup v. Heup (Was. 1969) 172 N.W.2d 334, 336
[M]arriage exists as a protected legal institution primarily because of societal values associated with the propagation of the human race. Singer v. Hara (Wash. App. 1974) 522 P.2d 1187, 1195.
<quoted text>
Just one man, and one woman, in thirty plus states.
<quoted text>
As long as they entered into a legally recognized u ion of husband and wife, valid in all fifty states, they are married.
<quoted text>
But treated, and acknowledged as different. A veggie patty is now a "burger". A man can be a lesbian too.
You report: Having children is a primary purpose of marriage. Heup v. Heup (Was. 1969) 172 N.W.2d 334, 336

I say that this sentence indicates that while having children may be ONE of the primary purposes of marriage, it IS NOT the only purpose of marriage. It's disingenuous to portray this quote as the ONLY reason for marriage.

Same can be said with your next reference, "[M]arriage exists as a protected legal institution primarily because of societal values associated with the propagation of the human race. Singer v. Hara (Wash. App. 1974) 522 P.2d 1187, 1195.

See how the sentence uses the word "primarily"? That indicates that there are other societal values (and I would argue that there are also personal values) associated with marriage.

Here's a hint... READ what you are post before posting. Be sure that your references support your beliefs 100 percent. That way people like me won't have to correct you.

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