You're not being a jerk, at all. I do not dislike gay men or women, regardless of how we play this game, in here. Don't you understand the true nature of this forum yet? It is not about communication, it is a version of the Springer Show. We all have roles to fulfill, and mine is to be the "easily hateable bad guy" for my side. i actually have that same level of comfort around the women that you have, because I respect my marriage and my wife. I am a 1-woman man, and that is a rare thing in today's world. I also trust my wife around other men, for the same reasons. I am old school. "Fag Hag" is a term that is commonly used in this world. Not a declaration of how I feel. And, I am not bitter towards gays, but the hearing about "semen cocktails" on the public radio today rattled my cage badly, it is extremely inappropriate, to say the least, and I do hate the "Coming out" in the media. I despise it.<quoted text>
Let me correct one little bit of your "comment".
"Fag hags" hang around gay men because we treat them with respect. They have no concern that we're going to come on to them. They feel a certain amount of safety around us. They can let their guards down.
Unfortunately, straight guys tend to get very jealous of us when we're around your girlfriends or wives. You observe that we can have a level of comfort around women that you cannot.
I'm not trying to be a jerk when I say that. It's just the facts.
I've had "girlfriends" all of my life. They totally understood our friendship. And I've had to deal with my share of jealous boyfriends--guys who just HATED my being friends with their women.
I, personally, hate the word "fag hag". It's demeaning to women. No woman is a "hag". And just for the record, I hate the word "fag". It's been carved into the bodies of too many young gay men by hate-filled assholes.
I swear to God, I thought you were different. I honestly did. Where did I get that idea?
Are you really so shallow? Are you really that mean-spirited? Do you really have that level of disdain for gay people? Do you dislike gay women with the same intensity as you dislike gay men?
I really do hope that the nasty back-and-forth that takes place on this forum hasn't made you more bitter toward gay people.
As to the back and forth in here, it is why we collect here and throw down. Hell, if it wasn't for that, many of us wouldn't come here, at all. We get to vent.