Right to marriage in Loving V Virginia was in directed reference to Skinner V Oklahoma as it was cited by the court.
Skinner a right to marry/EUGENICS case that had EVERYTHING to do with reproduction was cited in Loving, a right to marriage/RACE case that had nothing to do with reproduction but neither Skinner or Loving can be applied to DOMA because you say so.
It seems cut and dry, so why bother engaging you? After all you're a f*cking genius who knows more about every thing than anyone ever has or ever will. You win. Do you want a metal or maybe a framed certificate of achievement to commemorate your victory?