wow I get your point already!!<quoted text>
Most in the military didn't care, because they were thinking battle field- and I don't think anyone cares out there who you desire to hang with in your personal life as long as they are certain and confident that you have their back.
In the past people have "questioned" the orientation of another, either rationally or irrationally, and that could lead to personal choices about self segregation, such as choosing not to shower or change in that persons presence when possible. With open admission there is no question, and again, I do not think it is fair to label a person who has issue with those situations as "bigoted", "childish", or a "homophobe."
One would not find these feelings to be irrational if the same were stated in the case of male vs female.
If I have , lets hope HE has..