Regarding Seperation from Spouse

Regarding Seperation from Spouse

Posted in the Monroe Forum


Kenova, WV

#1 Apr 23, 2013
I am seeking advice here. I have been with my Husband for 5 years now, married for 1. When we were dating we broke up 2 times but then stayed together, managed to buy a home, and had another child together (I already have 1 from a previous relationship).

When we purchased our home we had a tough time fighting with the contractor and the bank and we had to put some sweat equity into our self. I noticed at this time that my husband would give up a lot of times when things got ruff with renovations. He don't like to get dirty.

After that we had our son who is not 7 mos and while I was pregnant I started feeling different about him. This continued until after the birth of our son. He started acting differently not touching me or kissing me and even started this weird talk like I would say "The food is done when the big hand gets on the 7" and he would reply "OH ok, so in 15 minutes"

Next, after our son was born I noticed my daughter 8, was not getting the same amount of attention and started asking for US days and he blew up on me over that. One day we were out and we stopped home to see if he and our son would like to go see the Christmas lights with us and he was like YOUR GOING OUT AGAIN?

I feel over the years that he has wedeled away my inner light and I started to feel depressed. I asked him to leave this weekend and I feel 100 lbs lighter and feel happier.

I know he don't abuse me, drink, smoke, have financial issues, etc, but he has a negative impact on me emotionally. I feel guilty for wanting to spend one on one time with my daughter or even asking to take a nap. Our home becomes a mess because all I want to do is make it to bed time. Again, since hes been out of the house I have started cleaning things up and I feel better.... Am I wrong for wanting this separation?

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