Daddy/daughter relationships?
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#41 Oct 10, 2012
No not crazy my uncle was doin exactly tha same to his daughter and I said something and guess what he killed himself after it came out and when her mom was looking in his phone there it all was text msg pics and all people are sick but guess what its reality it does happen
Guest

Paragould, AR

#42 Oct 11, 2012
Your not necessarily crazy at all. And to each their own opinions!
#1 most fathers wouldn't feel comfortable w their blooming teenage daughters flouncing around on them physically. It's generally freaks a man out the thought of boobs, and boys and curves and anything other than Eskimo kisses and holding daddy's hand...
#2 teenage girls are smart, they know how to aggravate the new female intruder (or someone they see threatening their time or relationship) they may not mean it at all seductive or wrong in anyway, but at this age their too big to feel like a baby anymore and not big enough always to see it as it appears.
#3 knowing the man you married. Being open to communicate and stand beside your feelings without sounding jealous. Cause it's not always jealousy! Would you want your 14 ur old daughter together acting this way say if company was over. No, in the same token none the less you would be disturbed and find it appropriate to speak privately about it. Being your step child is no different. Use kid gloves more per say, but its still your husband and your home. Where all feelings have to be considered. This being the step daughters, the fathers as well as yours.
People you don't have to make everything so Jerry Springer...... Topix or not!
YOU ARE WORRING TOO MUCH

Sun City, CA

#43 Jun 25, 2014
guest wrote:
if ur ever molested as a child, and u see this sort of thing going on it will bring strange feeling creeping in. i was in fact molested by an uncle at 13----it took me forever to let it go, still have issues with it...u might need to see what goes own in her own house, if she is just visiting. it seems if u have a good marriage u could talk to ur husband and tell him how this is not right..if he blows it off, then i would be worried.
Listen lady, if your fourteenyear old daughter just being up close to her father, that's me she is either an "Father girl" or " Mother girl" . Plus don't teared aparted the Friendship within the own walls or they will Dislike you for good, also I am an father girl I loved doing like tomboys stuff and looking after my father, yesh my mother sometimes think that I am pulling him away from him. But that not the point it's more about trusting your child, sometimes an child can go a little too fair about that.. yesh! But NO!NO! NO!(if he's known that it's wrong to do something with her) Let it be!, plus it's maybe just an phase...
Plus if he done something wrong tell him, or why would you want to join them for once asked them where are they going, and I do think that she just wanted to bond with her own father. Even it't gets too much for you remember just, tell them, and solve it.And I was around 13 when I bond with my father pretty well..Plus, teasing is like playing to them!
Guest 2

Paragould, AR

#44 Jul 10, 2014
My daughter has always been a big Daddy's girl. Now, she was also a momma's girl too. And my son was a big momma's boy. But he and his dad are close. He is 17 and she is fixing to be 14. She has her dad pop her back too. But they out their backs together and lock arms and he rolls her on his back. My son has walked from the bathroom to his bedroom in his boxer shorts in front of all of us. But does put clothes on once in his room. And our Daughter comes and gets in bed between us when she has a bad day or bad dream. But I still slept with my grandma when I was 16. All of us grandkids did. She would wind up in a spare bedroom through the night. Because it was hard around with with alot of grandkids all at once. We are just a close family and I still kiss my parents goodbye. But I don't like the thought of her setting on top of her. And then there may be nothing there. Just talk to your husband and yes, turn it from his daughter to your daughter or step daughter. Try to start Getting her to so things with you, have a mom and daughter night our. Go eat and shopping or go too the movies. Go get her hands and feet done at a nail salon. All kinds of things. I do hope this helps.
Charles

Paragould, AR

#45 Jul 10, 2014
Guest 2 wrote:
My daughter has always been a big Daddy's girl. Now, she was also a momma's girl too. And my son was a big momma's boy. But he and his dad are close. He is 17 and she is fixing to be 14. She has her dad pop her back too. But they out their backs together and lock arms and he rolls her on his back. My son has walked from the bathroom to his bedroom in his boxer shorts in front of all of us. But does put clothes on once in his room. And our Daughter comes and gets in bed between us when she has a bad day or bad dream. But I still slept with my grandma when I was 16. All of us grandkids did. She would wind up in a spare bedroom through the night. Because it was hard around with with alot of grandkids all at once. We are just a close family and I still kiss my parents goodbye. But I don't like the thought of her setting on top of her. And then there may be nothing theire. Just talk to your husband and yes, turn it from his daughter to your daughter or step daughter. Try to start Getting her to so things with you, have a mom and daughter night our. Go eat and shopping or go too the movies. Go get her hands and feet done at a nail salon. All kinds of things. I do hope this helps.
Ha!! Getting on this sorry site for advice.
Strawberry

Rogers, AR

#46 Jul 13, 2014
I think you're insane for thinking the things you are. I was always a daddy's girl.when younger and would cuddle him or hold his hand because I didn't get to see him much. I think you're over thinking things and probably adding more to the story. Say something and l bet money he ends up leaving you. His little girl is and should be hos number 1 always. You may need to get some help.
Ktdid

United States

#47 Jul 13, 2014
hazel eyed romantic wrote:
I would explain to her that she is too old to lay or sit in those positions. I say ask her because if he knows its wrong and still lets her...it seems suspicious to me. Im 19 and if i saw them i would probably slap him because hes a grown man and should be well aware by now of whats proper and whats not. I say go with your gut. My own mother i guess didnt have that gut feeling...and thats why my daughter will NEVER stay alone with my father. If she had the feeling she chose to ignore it because she wasnt going to as she said-- "lose her husband because i want to be a little bitch" i had to look my father in the eyes for years knowing he knew what hed done. He loved to ask me questions like why did you say those things? Do you want that kind of relationship with me? Now im married and i would rather move to antarctica than to see my baby get hurt because one woman refused to see truth. Sorry to spill the beans..lol anytime i hear anything remotely like this my hair on the back of my neck raises up. Ask questions and if it bothers you enough ask them to stop. Its your house too you shouldnt have to be uncomfortable....bes wishes.
I agree with you. Common sense should tell anyone this behavior is not normal.
Firstly, the wife should have a talk with her husband about his behavior with his daughter and explain she is no longer four years old and HE should speak with her about this cautiously and kindly.
Next,the wife should speak with the girl and explain the birds and bees about the power of sexuality any appealing woman can have on a man, perhaps even her dad. First, she doesn't need to be wearing short shorts. That's a prescription for trouble. If she lies on the bed by her dad, which is questionable, she should be on TOP of the cover and he completely covered. Even then she should not be wallowing on him.
This is a start of how she should conduct herself around boys and how she should expect boys / men treat her.
She is a girl child / woman at 14 years old. She needs to be guided, not scolded. Do it with love and kindness.
jray

Trussville, AL

#48 Aug 6, 2014
I think part of you are a bunch of prudes ! The rest are suckers cuz that person is jerkng your chains .
Babeh feet

Bradenton, FL

#50 Thursday Jul 28
@Quest I def wouldnt get in the way if I were you. A Man's daughter is his princess. She will always come first.
big dude

Pine Bluff, AR

#51 Friday Aug 5
Quest wrote:
I'm married and my husbands daughter is 14 and is staying the summer at our house! I come in from work and notice her laying in front of him on the couch "spooning" I never said anything and that night she came to lay with us and watch a movie...he laying by her dad...I notice her head Layin on his stomach! And she sits on his lap...near crotch area wearing short shorts! Am I over reacting?? Please help!
Yea he proble tap
That
Guest

Houston, TX

#52 Monday Aug 8
I'm just wondering if he get aroused when this is happening if so I think u have something to worry about the daughter is to young to understand
Guest

Dallas, TX

#53 Monday Aug 8
wwow wrote:
have you ever though that she missed her dad and wants to be close to him?since she only gets to see him 1 month. and if anything was going on i doubt a 14 yr old would initiate it. sounds like you have serious issues...or your jealous of his kid.
I agree Totally
the girls daddy

Monette, AR

#54 Monday Aug 8
i have three daughters, all grown now, but i would not go around the house in front of them in my underwear, at any age , neither did they wallow around on me as teenagers, neither did i touch their breasts, this is inappropiate at the very least.
Mommy and Daddy

Memphis, TN

#55 Friday Aug 12
the girls daddy wrote:
i have three daughters, all grown now, but i would not go around the house in front of them in my underwear, at any age , neither did they wallow around on me as teenagers, neither did i touch their breasts, this is inappropiate at the very least.
Smiler topic. What's with the modern family. I am at a tech Paragould basketball game a couple of years ago and instead of the female basketball players sitting with their friends of other kids they sit with their parents. Helicopter parents will not let their kids grow up. Best friends instead of good parents. You've seen them and when and if these kids ever get away they won't know what to do on their own

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