Thank you for your concern and the offer,Do you need help ?
I will pass it along if I come across someone in need, though I myself has never been in such a relationship my entire life, that I thank God,
However, I did read the information expressed in the link,
The most important thing that stood out to me was the factor of isolation, this practice of isolation is a major factor in control over one's emotional, environmental, mental, etc etc, and is in my belief the primary factor of abusers, because, it along brainwashes, and victimize the individual, in many aspects...
also serves to eliminate the victim from obtaining critical help and support, the will to break away from such a relationship,
Again thanks for your offer and the link