Boyfriend left me because i dated black guy

[Samantha]

I don't know what to do. About 18 months ago, I met the guy of my dreams at a college party - tall, curly blonde hair, blue eyes, so gorgeous!!!! I fell so deeply for him and he told me he loved me too. We were talking of getting engaged. It's not just infatuation - I'm 22 and he's 24.

Last week, during a dinner party with some friends, one of my girlfriends got a bit drunk and thought it would be a good idea to get out some old photos. She passed them round the table. One of the photos was of me with an ex boyfriend, who happened to be black. Anyhow, my current boyfriend saw the photo, passed it on, then calmly got up from the table, said that he had to get something from the car and that he would be right back. He left the apartment and never came back. That was the last time I saw him. I've called and called and called and he never answers - been to his place and he won't answer the door.

I don't know what to do - I'm at my wits end and desperately want this guy back. What can I do to get him to come back to me? Please help!

[Ron J]

I don't know what to do.
Simple, Congratulate him on his morals.

[me]

Once you go black you can't come back. Lol

[rangerdanger]

yea I agree that's nasty

[Greg]

It's probably not the fact that he is black (OK, so it probably is!) but the deceit of you not mentioning it to him before. He was probably embarrassed in front of everybody to find out that his girlfriend is a mudshark! Everybody knows that white chicks who date blacks are either curious size queens or have low self worth. either way, it's not good. No wonder he left.

[Jamie]

I am straight Arabic female living in NYC. Its VERY culturally diverse here. Only been with one white guy and he was deal-breaker small, he was scottish background, but tiny erect. I would estimate shorter than my pinky. So maaaybe 2 inches. I've been with 3 black guys and none were smaller than 8 (one was 10). Persian guys are known around here to be large as well, my ex was 8. Not a significant Latin community but my gf lives in Texas, and she tried three Mexicans, and they were all 4ish. One Chinese guy was 5ish, which personally for me was too small.

[Good for him]

Pretty well a fact white women date blacks for a few reasons.

1) drugs
2) low moral and protesting against parents.
3) have a slut reputation and whites will use them but never marry them.
4) usually fat and ugly and cannot attract a white guy.

See he learned your whole life history with one picture and said trash it will not be!

[Jimbo]

Smart guy!!!!!!!!!!

[Arbor Hill]

Trailer trash.

[john]

Maybe he read a report that came out in the last year (AJC) that SOMETHING like 70+% of Black men in Atlanta were infected with HIV.

[Jamie]

Craig wrote:

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Lol - another negro posting as a non-black female - this is so lame!!!

You are racist.
And I'm sorry if you don't believe me, but a girl has needs.
:P

[DayStar_]

Samantha wrote:

I don't know what to do. About 18 months ago, I met the guy of my dreams at a college party - tall, curly blonde hair, blue eyes, so gorgeous!!!! I fell so deeply for him and he told me he loved me too. We were talking of getting engaged. It's not just infatuation - I'm 22 and he's 24.
Last week, during a dinner party with some friends, one of my girlfriends got a bit drunk and thought it would be a good idea to get out some old photos. She passed them round the table. One of the photos was of me with an ex boyfriend, who happened to be black. Anyhow, my current boyfriend saw the photo, passed it on, then calmly got up from the table, said that he had to get something from the car and that he would be right back. He left the apartment and never came back. That was the last time I saw him. I've called and called and called and he never answers - been to his place and he won't answer the door.
I don't know what to do - I'm at my wits end and desperately want this guy back. What can I do to get him to come back to me? Please help!

If he did that he didn't really care about you in the first place. You're better off without him. No telling what things he would find to be mad about in the future if you married him. That's the kind of guy you think you love but it ends in a divorce later on.

I think we, women, are more apt to look pass stupid things like race, & look at the person ~~ what he's about, what he's like, & the type person he is. Raceism is still a thing with guys far far more than women. Hopefully racism will soon die out. It needs to. But as for your problem, if it was me I would stay the heck away from him & find someone that loves me, not hate me because I once dated a guy that was black. 5 to 1 if you get back with him & marry him your marriage ends in a divorce within 10 years.

[DayStar_]

Greg wrote:

It's probably not the fact that he is black (OK, so it probably is!) but the deceit of you not mentioning it to him before. He was probably embarrassed in front of everybody to find out that his girlfriend is a mudshark! Everybody knows that white chicks who date blacks are either curious size queens or have low self worth. either way, it's not good. No wonder he left.

Jeez ~~ aren't you a complete & total half-wit.

[Good for him]

Craig wrote:

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Lol - another Negro posting as a non-black female - this is so lame!!!

"Arabic" well technically speaking, Arabic is a "sand Negro"

Same thing but just want to keep facts straight! LOL

[Jerome]

Jamie wrote:

I am straight Arabic female living in NYC. Its VERY culturally diverse here. Only been with one white guy and he was deal-breaker small, he was scottish background, but tiny erect. I would estimate shorter than my pinky. So maaaybe 2 inches. I've been with 3 black guys and none were smaller than 8 (one was 10). Persian guys are known around here to be large as well, my ex was 8. Not a significant Latin community but my gf lives in Texas, and she tried three Mexicans, and they were all 4ish. One Chinese guy was 5ish, which personally for me was too small.

OMG - a slutty sand nee-grow - can it get any worse!!! Seriously, an Arabic woman in NYC is not going to get any decent white guy or black to f**k her - they're too busy banging hot white, black and Asian chicks to be messing with a burka!

[Slylock]

Samantha wrote:

I don't know what to do.

not much you can do now, pretty clear he thinks of you as "damaged goods". It's sad that ignorant things done in youth can catch up to hurt you later. Maybe you can find a decent caring black man - statistically speaking there should be at least one unmarried one in Georgia. That or move to where your reputation of being indiscriminate with who you make whoopie with is not known. Good luck.

[GreatAdvice]

Why not just go back to your black ex-boyfriend when he is paroled from prison?

[DayStar_]

GreatAdvice wrote:

Why not just go back to your black ex-boyfriend when he is paroled from prison?

In November 2008 I bet you guys nearly died in front of the TV when you saw you now have a black president. On top of that it is a black man more successful & intelligent than you.

[Arbor Hill Road]

GreatAdvice wrote:

Why not just go back to your black ex-boyfriend when he is paroled from prison?

Great advice but may be a life term, as you know we have three strikes and your out in GA.

OH, life is so unfair!

[CAPTAINSAVAHO]

Good for him wrote:

Pretty well a fact white women date blacks for a few reasons.
1) drugs
2) low moral and protesting against parents.
3) have a slut reputation and whites will use them but never marry them.
4) usually fat and ugly and cannot attract a white guy.
See he learned your whole life history with one picture and said trash it will not be!

My ex fits all these! She's been passed around the bluffs more than the offering plate at church! Bless her heart