are you trying to control them by telling them what to do?<quoted text>
AGREED! Once again, the hypocritical self-righteous holier than thou fools feel they need to control everyone else. They do so due to the emptiness in their own lives.
BTW, homophobic people have the fear because they are not comfortable with their own sexuality. Perhaps a bit of homosexual tendency or active thought enters their mind.
and people are not homophobic because of their own sexuality, it's because it's something they don't understand and say that they don't like it because it's wrong when really it's because they just don't get it. AND, some people are "homophobic" because they probably haven't met a gay person who was cool enough to get to know. I was "homophobic" when I was a teenager until I met one of my now best friends. He is just like me to a tee...he even likes boys too ;)