Thanks, but that's all for me

Thanks, but that's all for me

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MaryPatsGuy

Warwick, NY

#1 Oct 5, 2012
I really hoped this forum would make it, but it's destined to fail. Unfortunately, there are 2 posters here that have made it their purpose in life to destroy this forum, and they have succeeded as far as I'm concerned. Their soul purpose for coming here was to harrass certain posters, and I won't be a part of that. What I don't understand is both of these posters have their own forums to post all the national stuff they want, or make as many personal attacks as they please. So why come here? Heck, one of the owners of his forum hasn't posted anything there in almost a month! The other guy got exactly what he wanted, his own forum to post national issues with his chorus of one chiming in. So why post here at all? It's a very easy answer, it's because they are both narcissists and enjoy the negative rhetoric. Guess what, I don't, and I don't have to participate. The only way to deal with narcissists is to cut them out of your life. They are determined to drag people down because its the only way they can feel good about themselves. So to those 2 posters, I will have the last laugh, and stop writing on these forums. In time, you 2 will drive what few people are left on all 3 forums, and then you 2, plus your racist friend who you both find oh so funny, will have each other to turn on. And you will. In fact, you will turn on the racist first, because he isn't a narcissist, he's a homophobic, bigotted, loudmouthed idiot. Narcissists don't like doing battle with other narcissists.

So good luck to you remaining posters, I'm outta here.

Since: Sep 12

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#2 Oct 5, 2012
Thanks for the memories, lad!
Anonymous

Hewitt, NJ

#3 Oct 5, 2012
Well MPG, while I agree that it is disappointing that straw and joe have decided to post here I think they are here for slightly different reasons.

Clearly joe is here purely for malicious reasons as is OTj. Neither one of them has any intention of engaging in a discussion here beyond harassing me. That's unfortunate, but the world is full of unpleasant people who aren't happy unless they are trying to make someone else unhappy.

Their attacks are so ridiculously over the edge and completely unwarranted by anything that has occurred on this forum that they just reveal themselves to be folowing me because they hold a grudge for something that occurred elsewhere.

They don't bother me. If they had a legitimate complaint or were doing more than insulting me and lying about me I might care. But really just they make themselves look childish and bitter. That's fine and they won't stick around long, no biggie there. No one is going to take them seriously.

I am the one who left them and they are the ones following me. I am trying to escape their nonsense, but they don't want it to end. Everyone sees that and no one is going to pay any attention to them. Don't worry about joe or otj, they are a temporary incontinence.

Straw on the other hand craves the attention that people used to give him on the other forums and he is here looking for it. First he said he wasn't going to post here unless we pushed his buttons. But now that he sees how many people are viewing the forum he thinks he is on stage. He knows that the NJO forum is a wasteland because of him and dive. He is looking at this place as a fresh start. Look what he did today. He started two threads with local topics, imagine that.

Here is where you and I disagree, MPG. I don't think that leaving the forum is necessary. You are throwing the baby out with the bathwater. We have a place here where deletions are not a problem. The format is such that you don't have to read a thread if you see straw or dive's name, remember, joe won't be here long. And if you do leave, they win.

I also don't believe that the only way to deal with a narcissist is to get them out of your life, especially forum life. Narcissists crave narcissistic supply. For these guys that supply is the reaction that they get out of us. If you cut off the supply they will leave you alone. Once they learn that they cannot bother you, they will stop and look for someone else to supply them.
I mean really, it's easy. If you see their name, don't open the thread.

When straw tries to hijack a thread because he wants to turn everything into a political discussion, I will redirect it back on topic.

And lastly, there is no shame in changing your mind. Many of us, including joe, have sworn off a forum only to return. They will harass you for it, but you're not going to read it anyway, it's not like you care what they think.

Now, I have been looking at Dr. George's contract and I think that what the board did with his merit pay was flat out wrong.

I will revive the Dr. George's windfall thread with a new post tonight or tomorrow morning

Since: Sep 12

Location hidden

#4 Oct 5, 2012
What more can I say..."just plain nutz"!

These two are wacked , fer sure~!

Since: Sep 12

Fort Wayne, IN

#5 Oct 5, 2012
Oh no, MPG, you are wrong.

I won't turn on dive before I turn on straw. Heck, I don't even like straw.

Dive is funny and often right. And when he isn't at least he is not so full of himself or longwinded.

Heck, he can't even spell narcissistic.

Since: Sep 12

Fort Wayne, IN

#6 Oct 5, 2012
Hey, 7vens...let's be clear.

I am hear because I feel like it. That is how life works...live and let live.

As for smacking you around. Yeah, I think you are a lying jerk off. You rewrite everything to hide your stupidity. You attack good people repeatedly (what the heck did Vandy do to you?) and you are a hypocrite for attacking others for the same things you do.

Yeah, you left my forum. Why? You were a wussy afraid of dive and begged me to censor him. No way. No reason to based on your word when you did not have the balls to confront him directly but begged me to fight your battle. Grow a pair dude.

You clearly have none.

You first wanted to meet dive at the sunnyside deli and when he called you on it, you turned yellow and said you were joking. You then wanted to meet me and settle this...then you turned yellow. Again.

I would cut you out of my life, BUT, I found that you really enjoy being my foil and the forum drama. You change names all the time and think that is clever?! Really?

So, what forum do you want to go to next where I will smack you around some more. My advice: pick a new name and a new personality. Don't post checks you don't have the balls to cash, dude.

You are the only person on any forum who threatens to meet someone and settle things. Never seen such childish stuff before...well, until I see you trying to run from your bold posts, claiming you were drunk or did it on purpose. Sobriety does that to people.

See you on some forum later....I am always just a post away!

Since: Sep 12

Location hidden

#7 Oct 5, 2012
Say lad, did you say "you don't like me"!

You stated "I won't turn on dive before I turn on straw. Heck, I don't even like straw."

The fact you'd even turn on Dive at all, sez it all for me...mate! I don't turn on friends at all, your track record already sez otherwise....ask Warrior!

Why not ask how he's doing, I always do!
Turd Ferguson

Trenton, NJ

#9 Oct 7, 2012
MaryPatsGuy wrote:
I really hoped this forum would make it, but it's destined to fail. Unfortunately, there are 2 posters here that have made it their purpose in life to destroy this forum, and they have succeeded as far as I'm concerned. Their soul purpose for coming here was to harrass certain posters, and I won't be a part of that. What I don't understand is both of these posters have their own forums to post all the national stuff they want, or make as many personal attacks as they please. So why come here? Heck, one of the owners of his forum hasn't posted anything there in almost a month! The other guy got exactly what he wanted, his own forum to post national issues with his chorus of one chiming in. So why post here at all? It's a very easy answer, it's because they are both narcissists and enjoy the negative rhetoric. Guess what, I don't, and I don't have to participate. The only way to deal with narcissists is to cut them out of your life. They are determined to drag people down because its the only way they can feel good about themselves. So to those 2 posters, I will have the last laugh, and stop writing on these forums. In time, you 2 will drive what few people are left on all 3 forums, and then you 2, plus your racist friend who you both find oh so funny, will have each other to turn on. And you will. In fact, you will turn on the racist first, because he isn't a narcissist, he's a homophobic, bigotted, loudmouthed idiot. Narcissists don't like doing battle with other narcissists.
So good luck to you remaining posters, I'm outta here.
Turn that frown upside down!!!!
7vens

Beach Haven, NJ

#10 Oct 9, 2012
Well MPG, as much as I wish you were wrong, I have to agree with you. I tried for years to get straw and dive to see what they were doing to NJO. Now look at it. It has become exactly what I said it would become, an idiot's delight. Straw and dive posting to each other. Straw is already posting here more than there. If this forum were to become more active, he would start to dominate it with his crap and dive would follow along. You are right, once those guys, along with Joe showed up this place didn't stand a chance.

Since: Sep 12

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#11 Oct 9, 2012
Perhaps you missed the "good news"! For your benefit only, I now repeat it.

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Delphi forums allows you to create your very own forum where you can control everything. Imagine the control and satisfaction in determining who can post in your forum and what they can post as well. And you can invite all your friends too...LOL

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