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Nov 1, 2011
 

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So, did this man adopt her children or what? If he legally adopted them, they are HIS children and he would have had a legal right to custody/visitation, and an obligation to pay support for them. If he did adopt them, what gives anyone the right to say they weren't his?? My husband adopted my child and now she is OUR child...he's her daddy all the way and he would dare anyone to say differently! I know this isn't the issue at hand, but this really bothers me. If they weren't adopted, I get it, but adoption changes everything. And if it is the case that this woman allowed him to adopt her children and then instructed them to avoid him...and I did say IF...then shame on her!!
That really is what happened, he was a good man and did adopt her children, but she was just out for the money and did "according to his words before he died" instruct them to delete him, and they had no visitation. He was depressed about the kids, but he was ok until whatever happened the day before his death, I didn't talk to him that weekend, so I don't know. I do know he loved the kids, and shame on her for putting that much on him after he adopted those kids, no matter what happened in their relationship, that was wrong of her.

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#42
Nov 1, 2011
 
Are they sure wrote:
<quoted text>That really is what happened, he was a good man and did adopt her children, but she was just out for the money and did "according to his words before he died" instruct them to delete him, and they had no visitation. He was depressed about the kids, but he was ok until whatever happened the day before his death, I didn't talk to him that weekend, so I don't know. I do know he loved the kids, and shame on her for putting that much on him after he adopted those kids, no matter what happened in their relationship, that was wrong of her.
Thank you for your post.

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#43
Nov 1, 2011
 
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<quoted text>That really is what happened, he was a good man and did adopt her children, but she was just out for the money and did "according to his words before he died" instruct them to delete him, and they had no visitation. He was depressed about the kids, but he was ok until whatever happened the day before his death, I didn't talk to him that weekend, so I don't know. I do know he loved the kids, and shame on her for putting that much on him after he adopted those kids, no matter what happened in their relationship, that was wrong of her.
No woman should do that to a dude. Its wrong.
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Ok, I'm gonna clear some stuff up. Number one, you don't need to be bashing Allison--she IS greiving! She prolly feels guilty cuz if she didn't catch him cheating, she wouldn't have filed for divorce and kicked him out of the house! He admitted to having an affiar with a 20 year old, and yes he's apparently went to jail for stealing recently. He also has some serious debt that I cannot disclose. This had nothing to do with Allison. He was under serious pressure financilly, and didn't have to do with whether or not he was gonna pay child support! Allison has a good job, she owns her home, which he moved into when they got married. Shes lived there for years, bought it when she was in college! So enough with the money hungry junk, it's not true. Allison needs to be left alone!!

Now as for Doyle, he was a geat guy!! People make mistakes, he made a serious one (cheating) that has led to the most unfortunate decision one can make! I am sad for his family, his friends, everyone!! Was there one single cause for this action he took?? NO, probably not. Everyone makes mistakes, so stop the Doyle bashing too!!

As for the kids, if you were a 14 year old girl and your dad cheated, wouldn't you cut him out of your life? I did my dad. The kids need not be talked about. None of this needs to be talked about...but espicially the kids!! He took them in out of the goodness of his heart, but just like any marriage, when it goes downhill, the relationship with the kids usually does too. Child support is ordered by the court, it's a % of your income, so stop acting like his was unfair. Anyone having to pay it thinks its too much!

One more thing...yes, Al was a cop, but PLEASE, shes smart and good hearted, she would NEVER have anything to do with killing him. This whole situation is just heartbreaking. Please just post nice things from now on!!!
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where was the real father?Why did he allow another man to adopt his children?Where did Doyle work?One more question,Was Allison a cop at one time?
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Delta Sis, you are right on the money. Everything you said was true. These people need to leave this family alone. You can be very angry with somebody when they hurt you . It doesn't mean you don't love them. Of course Allison is hurt and the children are confused. It will not bring Doyle back to hurt his family and yes, they are his family. They were not divorced yet and the kids were HIS. He adopted them.
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Delta Sis, you are right on the money. Everything you said was true. These people need to leave this family alone. You can be very angry with somebody when they hurt you . It doesn't mean you don't love them. Of course Allison is hurt and the children are confused. It will not bring Doyle back to hurt his family and yes, they are his family. They were not divorced yet and the kids were HIS. He adopted them.
Please everyone stop acting like Allison gave a shit now, they were going through the divorce, it doesn't matter if they were "technically" married. She just wanted his money and to punish him. She is not a nice person, never has been. The kids as I have stated, he loved very much, but please stop talking like she cares, she didn't then, she doesn't now. He cheated on her, a lot of people make that mistake, but she was so controlling and demanding of him, she drove him away, and only cared about money. How dare she act like she cares now. I do think the kids should be left out of this. He loved them, and that was not the issue.
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This response is in regards to the two statements you made, "This is ALL her fault. Now her kids will draw a SS check every from him and they wasnt his kids."
First, they were his children if he adopted them.
Second, circumstances and actions of others can affect us, but we as individuals make our own choices, whether good or bad.
Instead of playing blame game consider there is a loss of life and children who are left without a father.
This is written without any bitterness or to start an arguement.
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#50
Nov 3, 2011
 
Seems every woman he went out with had kids. Alison, Angela, and another that he was seeing just before he passed. He just didnt know how to pick them. Seems a few of them are nothing but adultrice looking to destroy families. He was a sweet guy but just didnt know how to pick the women.
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#51
Nov 7, 2011
 
What was this serious debt?
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#52
Nov 7, 2011
 
Just Sayin wrote:
Seems every woman he went out with had kids. Alison, Angela, and another that he was seeing just before he passed. He just didnt know how to pick them. Seems a few of them are nothing but adultrice looking to destroy families. He was a sweet guy but just didnt know how to pick the women.
I didn't have any idea that he was seeing someone before he died. I knew he didn't love Allison anymore, but his FB page said seperated. I don't guess many of us knew about this mystery girl. Who was she? Also man, I married a girl with one little girl and not all women with kids already are a bad catch, though same are a little angry at mine....I got a good one and consider her daughter like my daughter. Doyle loved kids maybe that is why he picked women with children, though he shouldn't have adopted them if he knew there was problems in the relationship beforehand like he did.
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#53
Nov 8, 2011
 
I cannot believe all the horrible comments made about Allison and her children. They are sweet kids and they're old enough to be reading this trash. Allison kept quiet about the whole divorce thing until it was almost finalized. He was having an affair on her. What else was she supposed to do? I'm sure all of these bad comments are coming from the whore he was screwing and her stupid friends. Grow the F up and quit writing this crap. Words hurt and her kids have been really upset over Doyle. I hope karma visits you real soon stupid!

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It is what it is . . .
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I cannot believe all the horrible comments made about Allison and her children. They are sweet kids and they're old enough to be reading this trash. Allison kept quiet about the whole divorce thing until it was almost finalized. He was having an affair on her. What else was she supposed to do? I'm sure all of these bad comments are coming from the whore he was screwing and her stupid friends. Grow the F up and quit writing this crap. Words hurt and her kids have been really upset over Doyle. I hope karma visits you real soon stupid!
Well, I sure ain't that girl. For the record though him and "Angela" I think her name was had been over for months. That isn't who he was seeing anywhere near his death. Look my friend cheating, I think that is wrong and I believe in marriage, but she didn't have to throw him under the bus with her kids, and then not even allow them to speak to him and try and delete him from their lives, Oh....except where the money came in at. Of course there are a lot of negative comments about her, and you can't cast judgement on people....only God can do that. I am sure Allison will have to answer to him as well. Doyle should have divorced her before cheating, but I sure as hell don't blame him....she was cruel to him man. Before and after he cheated on her. Doyle I hope you are at peace man.
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#56
Nov 20, 2011
 
please just let Doyle rest in peace. HIs true family - his parents, and I think he had a sister they are the ones who are grieving beyond belief. They loved him unconditionally and I would be saddened for them to read any of this. There lives are forever changed by this - you had to only see them at the funeral there was no pretense just raw grief and trying to understand and piece all of this together. I pray for that family that they can find peace over their dear son and brother.
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#57
Nov 20, 2011
 
this topic had died down. So y are u bringing it back to light. Respect the fa,ily. They are grieving and shldy allot that much topix time
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Dec 19, 2011
 
WOW I am in disbeleif....I just found out that doyle killed himself and I am so saddened My prayers will be with his family. He was a wonderful man and always seemed happy and smiling I have known him for several years. He did always talk about how unhappy he was with allison and how horrible of a temper she had. she had attacked her own family fighting them and everything. I do know he loved his children very much and was so sad not to be hearing from them bc their mother wouldnt let them talk to him anymore. However all this aside the world is missing a wonderful person and I am so sorry to bring this up but I had lost doyles phone number and looked him up tonight on facebook only to read of his death and I am trying to process this wow it is bone chilling to know someone was so sad and desperate. I truly hate that he didnt think he could talk to anyone or pray for help. I dont think he can rest in peace now though and that makes me saddest of all bc his eternity will be worse than anything imaginable here on earth
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Dec 20, 2011
 
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WOW I am in disbeleif....I just found out that doyle killed himself and I am so saddened My prayers will be with his family. He was a wonderful man and always seemed happy and smiling I have known him for several years. He did always talk about how unhappy he was with allison and how horrible of a temper she had. she had attacked her own family fighting them and everything. I do know he loved his children very much and was so sad not to be hearing from them bc their mother wouldnt let them talk to him anymore. However all this aside the world is missing a wonderful person and I am so sorry to bring this up but I had lost doyles phone number and looked him up tonight on facebook only to read of his death and I am trying to process this wow it is bone chilling to know someone was so sad and desperate. I truly hate that he didnt think he could talk to anyone or pray for help. I dont think he can rest in peace now though and that makes me saddest of all bc his eternity will be worse than anything imaginable here on earth
No matter what you believe, it is horrible to say that about him basically burning for eternity, it is so wrong. First of all, everyone has their different beliefs, but most of all don't put that image in his family's mind more than it has already been. I personally think Doyle had a wonderful soul, and his family deserves peace and not that image. OMG, I am so shocked at some of these comments, no one knows what happens in the after life, and I pray he is at peace and with God, which is what he deserves. I loved Doyle as many did, so don't leave that impression and try to push your views on others, no one knows what his eternity is like, unless you are GOD.
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Feb 12, 2014
 
Doyle and I worked together for numerous years at the Cumberland Gap Tunnel as well as Bell a County EMS. He was an amazing friend, and great at his job. As far as his relationship with Alison, that's something I didn't know that much about. But yesterday I found out something that has broken my heart and I feel like I am grieving all over again. I was adopted years ago and found out my birth mother was Doyle's Aunt Edith Spurlock Walker Helton. So not only was I working beside a great friend, I was working beside my cousin and never knew it...that has killed me. So my thoughts about this is let the dead rest in peace and Doyle, your up there in Heaven with Aunt Gwen and other family members...please give my Mamaw a major hug. I wish I had known about us being family all those years ago....love ya cuz and will miss you and think of you often!!

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