why do men hit women?
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lovehim

Winchester, KY

#1 Aug 15, 2013
i love my husband but he wont keep his hands off me if hes not yelling at the top of his lungs right into my ear or in my face he will take his fingewr and poke me like in my back or my face or my head he will hit the bottom of my chin and slap my mouth shut that makes me bite my lip he has head butted me punched me kicked me bit me he also pulled all the back of my hair out once that was embarrassing for people to see ive had to go to the emergency room befor with messed up shoulders bruises and more he has choked me alot but one time inperticular i remember he put his fingers on both sides of that bone in my throat and sqeezed as hard as he could i couldnt get air in or out i dont want him to get into trouble and i have delt with the so called justice system befor thats a joke i dont want to leave him we have kids and im poor sometimes its not bad hes actually a good guy he just cant and wont keep his hands off me
GET HELP

United States

#2 Aug 15, 2013
does he hit your kids, if he doesn't, he will. Get out before he really hurts you or your kids. The Lighthouse mission on 119 got grants awhile back to have a batterned (whatever) womens shelter for them and there kids. You will be safe there until your husband gets help or you figure out something else to do. Your kids should not have to grow up watching dad beat the crap out of mom, think of the message your kids our learning. Call the shelter, they'll help.
OK

Dexter, MO

#3 Aug 15, 2013
lovehim wrote:
i love my husband but he wont keep his hands off me if hes not yelling at the top of his lungs right into my ear or in my face he will take his fingewr and poke me like in my back or my face or my head he will hit the bottom of my chin and slap my mouth shut that makes me bite my lip he has head butted me punched me kicked me bit me he also pulled all the back of my hair out once that was embarrassing for people to see ive had to go to the emergency room befor with messed up shoulders bruises and more he has choked me alot but one time inperticular i remember he put his fingers on both sides of that bone in my throat and sqeezed as hard as he could i couldnt get air in or out i dont want him to get into trouble and i have delt with the so called justice system befor thats a joke i dont want to leave him we have kids and im poor sometimes its not bad hes actually a good guy he just cant and wont keep his hands off me
Men hit women because they can. Do you have girls? You are teaching them that it's OK for a man to hit them. Do you have boys? You are teaching them that it's fine if they want to smack their women around.

And those are the best case scenarios. At worst, he will start hitting them too. This kind of behavior always escalates. He pushes, shoves, then smacks openhanded, then with his fist. I would rather be poor but uninjured by myself than poor and beat down by some man.

Get. Out.
jacksono

Somerset, KY

#4 Aug 15, 2013
All I'm gonna say is this: I lost family Tuesday because of domestic violence. 2 innocent people and the gunman are dead because of a psycho, abusive man. PLEASE get out before anything worse happens to you.
UhHuh

Tazewell, TN

#5 Aug 15, 2013
If you follow through on charges, they will help you. I'm certain you have let the charges drop multiple times. So, just stay and enjoy the abuse.

Now, if it was me, I would charge him and have him arrested. Go the legal route. I would also fight back. I would tell,his family, as well.
iknow

United States

#6 Aug 15, 2013
Buy a hand gun,next time he hits you,plug him real good. Other wise he will not stop ever or till he kills u.

Since: Jun 13

Columbus, IN

#7 Aug 15, 2013
Yeah my husband hits me and he has give me whiplease and choke me and he even bite ne on the face and hit me and they will never stop they say they will but they dont it get worst and im try to find some where to rent
terrible

Winchester, KY

#8 Aug 15, 2013
They have no respect for women bottom line!
2timelooser

Madisonville, KY

#10 Aug 15, 2013
Get rid of him he's a looser men hit women cause they think it makes them more of man
I get it

United States

#11 Aug 16, 2013
I've been there in the same situation most people don't understand that w/o the guy and w/ the kids being poor can become a serious problem but did you know you could lose custody of your kids for the environment they are in? I did end up pressing charges one night after my baby walked in the room and saw me bawling and him throw a radio at me. I wish I would have before it came to that I still worry to this day how that affected him. My man went to jail and cliche as it sounds anger management did help the court made it a requirement for him. We ate baked potatoes for a lot of meals while my husband was gone but I promise it was worth it. We are back together now and he has not hit me since. Get him some help before you get hurt in the worst way-your kids! You can call the anger management people or talk to the da about it google it whatever get the info and get him in! I hope things work out for you!
Cranky1

Cynthiana, KY

#12 Aug 16, 2013
He is not a man, he is a coward and he does not love you.

The next time he attacks you and he will call the police and have him arrested and prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. No more 43rd chances for this POS. And unless you are the worlds biggest crack whore dealing drugs in front of your kids he is not going to get your kids in a divorce. That line is just to keep you there for a punching bag for the big pussy.

And other posters are correct you are letting your kids see bad behavior and they will be affected by it in their adult lives.

Have him arrested, get a restraining order and if he comes near you have him thrown in jail again. If you think he is dangerous enough to warrant it buy a gun and learn how to use it and if he tries to break in and beat you kill'em. Who would miss this thing.

You have a chance for a life and so do your kids, ditch this miserable bastard if not for you, for them.
Phd not needed

Richmond, KY

#13 Aug 16, 2013
Plain and simple......because you let him!
jrakk

Corbin, KY

#14 Aug 16, 2013
Phd not needed wrote:
Plain and simple......because you let him!
This. It's nobody's fault but your own for staying with a man like that. I'm sure you have family you can stay with, but you're endangering yourself and your kids by staying.
snakey

Winchester, KY

#15 Aug 16, 2013
No excuses
whatithink

United States

#16 Aug 16, 2013
a man should not hit a woman for no reason but when there is reason and he can't get away and she is screaming in his face calling him names and smacking or pushing the guy it does happen sometimes just hopefully it is nothing more than bruises alot of times women do it for pitty and attention but not always there are very few men that will just hit a woman for no reason but the ones that just do it to be doing it should be punished
Just saying

Tucson, AZ

#18 Aug 16, 2013
whatithink wrote:
a man should not hit a woman for no reason but when there is reason and he can't get away and she is screaming in his face calling him names and smacking or pushing the guy it does happen sometimes just hopefully it is nothing more than bruises alot of times women do it for pitty and attention but not always there are very few men that will just hit a woman for no reason but the ones that just do it to be doing it should be punished
A man should not hit a women for any reason.
just me

United States

#19 Aug 17, 2013
Maybe you should just get the jump on him. I wouldn't wait until he hit me again, I think I would just pick up a cast-iron skillet and give him one up the side of the head next time he even looks side-ways at you.Tell him that's advance payment for the next time he hits you.Seriously now... you need to get away from the jerk. No ifs, ands, or buts about it.
OK

Dexter, MO

#20 Aug 17, 2013
whatithink wrote:
a man should not hit a woman for no reason but when there is reason and he can't get away and she is screaming in his face calling him names and smacking or pushing the guy it does happen sometimes just hopefully it is nothing more than bruises alot of times women do it for pitty and attention but not always there are very few men that will just hit a woman for no reason but the ones that just do it to be doing it should be punished
Screaming and name calling is no excuse for physical violence on anybody's part. And no, women have no excuse to hit men either. But the answer to hitting is not more hitting. It is getting out.
Take Good Advice

Richmond, KY

#21 Aug 19, 2013
lovehim wrote:
i love my husband but he wont keep his hands off me if hes not yelling at the top of his lungs right into my ear or in my face he will take his fingewr and poke me like in my back or my face or my head he will hit the bottom of my chin and slap my mouth shut that makes me bite my lip he has head butted me punched me kicked me bit me he also pulled all the back of my hair out once that was embarrassing for people to see ive had to go to the emergency room befor with messed up shoulders bruises and more he has choked me alot but one time inperticular i remember he put his fingers on both sides of that bone in my throat and sqeezed as hard as he could i couldnt get air in or out i dont want him to get into trouble and i have delt with the so called justice system befor thats a joke i dont want to leave him we have kids and im poor sometimes its not bad hes actually a good guy he just cant and wont keep his hands off me
I know you had to be at your wits end to reach out online to strangers, take everybody's advice, GET OUT. Sit alone in quiet, give yourself thinking time, ask yourself how this is making you feel about yourself allowing him to abuse you in every way possible, IF you love him, stop him, IF he loves you, he will get help. These babies don't deserve living in fear, hearing screaming, yelling, name calling. This kind of lifestyle will make the babies different. It will define them in all the wrong ways. PLEASE, this will get worse, it's gotten what it is because you have took & allowed the abuse. He's going to strike you in the wrong place or you are going to fall & I don't have to tell you how worse these situations can/will get w/out help. Loving a person is helping them, love yourself & your babies enough to stop it. You don't want to live another sec, min, hour the way your are living, life is precious, please don't waste it. Don't accept this lifestyle. You are cheating you & the babies out of a peaceful, safe, happy life. Let's us know how you are. I'm praying for you.
believer of the truth

Dyer, TN

#22 Aug 19, 2013
lovehim wrote:
i love my husband but he wont keep his hands off me if hes not yelling at the top of his lungs right into my ear or in my face he will take his fingewr and poke me like in my back or my face or my head he will hit the bottom of my chin and slap my mouth shut that makes me bite my lip he has head butted me punched me kicked me bit me he also pulled all the back of my hair out once that was embarrassing for people to see ive had to go to the emergency room befor with messed up shoulders bruises and more he has choked me alot but one time inperticular i remember he put his fingers on both sides of that bone in my throat and sqeezed as hard as he could i couldnt get air in or out i dont want him to get into trouble and i have delt with the so called justice system befor thats a joke i dont want to leave him we have kids and im poor sometimes its not bad hes actually a good guy he just cant and wont keep his hands off me
Who is this COWARD, that does this to you???

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