Interracial dating
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Professer Griff

Miami, FL

#1 Jul 25, 2010
Being that Memphis is so backwards and racist. White people what are your thoughts on interracial dating.
Anonymous

Brinkley, AR

#2 Jul 26, 2010
Sounds llike you may be fishing for flamers. Times have changed, but there are carryovers from another time. With that, a quick look around should be enough to confirm that most of us--I'm white--could really care very little about who dates whom. Be a productive citizen, improve your surroundings, make yourself happy.
Black Man

West Point, MS

#3 Aug 3, 2010
As a black man, I have no problem with having interracial sex, but I don't want a relationship to go too far, because it can..I am a paralegal, and I got into a situation a few years ago where I almost ended up married to a white lawyer, and ever since then I have been skeptical about interracial dating..She really loved me, but it';s just that I can't see myself taking the "kids" to Disney World with a white woman, going shopping with a white woman, or being obligated to a white woman..I can't see myself sleeping next to a white woman every night..That's the thing. I like being able to listen to rap music at times and have my freedom. I can't tell anybody else what to do, but I just don't want to get too serious with a gal who's not black, and if I got a white woman pregnant, then I think that'd suck. My opinion on this "might" change, since I'm still young, but right now, I like black women.
long lost freind

Saint Louis, MO

#4 Aug 3, 2010
Black Man wrote:
As a black man, I have no problem with having interracial sex, but I don't want a relationship to go too far, because it can..I am a paralegal, and I got into a situation a few years ago where I almost ended up married to a white lawyer, and ever since then I have been skeptical about interracial dating..She really loved me, but it';s just that I can't see myself taking the "kids" to Disney World with a white woman, going shopping with a white woman, or being obligated to a white woman..I can't see myself sleeping next to a white woman every night..That's the thing. I like being able to listen to rap music at times and have my freedom. I can't tell anybody else what to do, but I just don't want to get too serious with a gal who's not black, and if I got a white woman pregnant, then I think that'd suck. My opinion on this "might" change, since I'm still young, but right now, I like black women.
it sounds like you really like to be single. you still have some strong issues on race inside you so don't marry outside your race

Since: Mar 10

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#5 Aug 3, 2010
long lost freind wrote:
<quoted text>it sounds like you really like to be single. you still have some strong issues on race inside you so don't marry outside your race
you seem to have his number... he does sound like he has issues.....

Since: Mar 10

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#6 Aug 3, 2010
Black Man wrote:
As a black man, I have no problem with having interracial sex, but I don't want a relationship to go too far, because it can..I am a paralegal, and I got into a situation a few years ago where I almost ended up married to a white lawyer, and ever since then I have been skeptical about interracial dating..She really loved me, but it';s just that I can't see myself taking the "kids" to Disney World with a white woman, going shopping with a white woman, or being obligated to a white woman..I can't see myself sleeping next to a white woman every night..That's the thing. I like being able to listen to rap music at times and have my freedom. I can't tell anybody else what to do, but I just don't want to get too serious with a gal who's not black, and if I got a white woman pregnant, then I think that'd suck. My opinion on this "might" change, since I'm still young, but right now, I like black women.
i dont know what your problem is.... but it seems to me that you have one... you'll never know what you could be possibly missing out on... that woman..... you talked about might have been the love of your life,... but you seem to be in one way worried about others think and seem to be to scared to maybe just follow your heawrt... but you have issues....... big time
MemphisSUCKSazz

Birmingham, AL

#7 Aug 7, 2010
who cares ? date who you wish to date

man, how primitive IS this freekin town anyway ??

join the 21st century
Black Bernie Madoff

Ripley, TN

#9 Aug 11, 2010
black man hey im a black man also. you will sleep with white woman one but won't marry one. that like hitting a home run and stopping at second base. you are a paralegal and she a lawyer. what are the odds a black female lawyer wanting you. if you love someone color should never matter. you both black when the light go off. you both turn black a few year in the ground after death. your thinking is no different than a racist. the world does rotate on race but money. here a situation. president bush is walking down the street. two men are walking toward him. one is a white man, repubican, middle class man. the other is michael jordan, black, and wealthy. who does president bush shake hand with first.
EvenRacistsDontC are

Arlington, TN

#10 Aug 11, 2010
Honestly, even all the racist white people around don't seem to care. It's the black folks who have a problem with interracial dating. Not really in a hateful (i-reckon-we-shouldn't-mix-der -races-kind of way), but it a jealous ass kinda way. Black women hating to see white girl on a black mans arm out of pure female-to-female jealously. Or, a black dude hating to see a beautiful black girl on a white guys arm because in his head shes saying "im done with black dudes"
not that far right

Antioch, TN

#11 Aug 12, 2010
As a former Memphis resident and a black woman married to a white man ....who cares...what they think
Racy JC

New York, NY

#12 Aug 13, 2010
Sorry that you have had a bad experience. Here in NYC us white folks are not backwards or racist. And as it concerns interracial dating, a lot of people do it, so its more commonplace.

We recently launched a blog, Racy JC that focuses on dating within different races and cultures (Asian, Black, Indian, Jewish, Latino, among others) and approaches these issues in a new, honest, real, and non-PC way. Please check it out!

http://jcdaviesauthor.com/
social media: jcdaviesauthor

And never forget intercultural dating is great and you can do it! Racy JC
ELLE

Memphis, TN

#13 Aug 14, 2010
Most of these comments are bullshit. The whites here don't generally race mix. It's still taboo. Don't believe the hype. Black Man, you kept it honest. Culturally, whites and black in Memphis have little if anything in common. Yes, I would bang a white girl but couldn't see myself spending the rest of my days with one. I just wish Memphis had more hot Latinas. The black women here are pretty angry and misguided.
Professer Griff

United States

#15 Aug 16, 2010
"Not that dar right" Would you date a black man?

Since: Apr 08

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#16 Oct 20, 2010
I dated a very tall good looking black man in college, he was a basketball player and I was on the swim team. I became pregnant right away and as a result I lost my scholarship for the swimming team. We stayed together until our son was born but it was obvious that he wasn't the marrying type so I left him. He's with another white girl and they have a daughter thats just over a year old and a son thats due any day now. I look for them to break up too the way they argue. He's only saw our son four times since we've been separated. I don't have anything against dating black men just make sure that you can get one to commit.
memphisblues

Latonia, KY

#17 Oct 21, 2010
Shelly85 wrote:
I dated a very tall good looking black man in college, he was a basketball player and I was on the swim team. I became pregnant right away and as a result I lost my scholarship for the swimming team. We stayed together until our son was born but it was obvious that he wasn't the marrying type so I left him. He's with another white girl and they have a daughter thats just over a year old and a son thats due any day now. I look for them to break up too the way they argue. He's only saw our son four times since we've been separated. I don't have anything against dating black men just make sure that you can get one to commit.
Do you still look like your picture? Your grammer's not too great, but your rear end is "AWESOME"!
La La

Memphis, TN

#19 Oct 21, 2010
Who gives a rats butt what color you are, you are attracted to who you are attracted to! I am white, I am attracted to white men! Thats just my taste, I have interacial neices and nephews and I love them with all my heart! I have black friends, white friends and spanish friends! I would never rule out a TRUE love or soul mate based on rase!
I aint got No Money

Cordova, TN

#20 Oct 21, 2010
Wow, I am 30 and Black. I would love to date outside of my race if the opportunity presents itself. You like who you like. Strum Thurmond was an open racist, and he loved Black women. So why cant I find a decent white or hispanic woman?
not that far right

Antioch, TN

#21 Oct 29, 2010
Professer Griff wrote:
"Not that dar right" Would you date a black man?
yes I would... because its not abotu color... its about what you feel... and love is love.... and truly I feel sorry for people that don't get that....
Sumlikeithot

Atoka, TN

#22 Nov 1, 2010
I love black women! I lived with a black woman for 6 years. She took great care of me both in bed and at home. The factor that broke us up was I wanted to leave Florida and she did not. Finances. but I miss her till today.

“The Barbie Lover”

Since: Nov 10

Memphis Tn

#23 Nov 5, 2010
Shelly85 wrote:
I dated a very tall good looking black man in college, he was a basketball player and I was on the swim team. I became pregnant right away and as a result I lost my scholarship for the swimming team. We stayed together until our son was born but it was obvious that he wasn't the marrying type so I left him. He's with another white girl and they have a daughter thats just over a year old and a son thats due any day now. I look for them to break up too the way they argue. He's only saw our son four times since we've been separated. I don't have anything against dating black men just make sure that you can get one to commit.
U can't have anything against black men a bm gave u probably the greatest thing life can give a person. A child. And I thought finding a good man to commit was the American way? Didn't know it only applied to bm. Shouldn't a woman wanna find a white man, hispanic man, asian man that's willing to commit?

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