Dan

Huntington Station, NY

#1494 Jul 24, 2014
Sam bee wrote:
Charlotte , I didn't see where his character traits were listed , but I will say it again. If they had a crappy marriage and he chose to be vindictive and split from his wife and kids then he is a piece of dirt and she , whatever she is , should take some of that money she seems to have and hire a private detective to locate him and take him to family court. I always thought she had him done away with. But many on here seem to believe he up and left. If that turns out to be true, I bet he isn't alone. Nothing like an "understanding" other woman to make a dirt bag leave his kids. Maybe a pregnant other woman Who wouldn't be happy about a trip to italy
I would agree with the "other woman" theory iif.....he didn't have an addiction and if the gun wasn't missing.
Lisaa

Elmont, NY

#1495 Jul 24, 2014
@ dan I always seem to agree with your point of view , I was just curious what your opinion of what happened is?
(If you wouldn't mind sharing)
Also, if Ida for any reason at all thought or even knew he had somebody on the side, she would NEVER say that or anything that could hint to that! But wouldn't be surprised if that was an issue and maybe why she made this whole situation what it is !!!( going to media , playing victim, etc,)
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1496 Jul 25, 2014
Dan , having once been with someone with an addiction, I think that the other woman theory is very possible because people with that kind of problem find people who have same kinds of "interests" and like to frequent places where people with those "interest" are. Someone who shares your drug use is more comfortable than wife bitching nag nagging about it, no matter that she's right. Who knows if gun really missing. That's ida's story. And Lisa, the only thing that puzzles me with this theory, is , by going public with her victim bs she opened herself and their business up to scrutiny and it could all go public maybe a co worker in Brooklyn knows if he struck up a relationship with someone in that area and isn't telling And again, that's if my original theory that she had him disposed of is incorrect. Who knows!!
Charlotte

Mount Vernon, NY

#1497 Jul 25, 2014
Sam bee wrote:
Dan , having once been with someone with an addiction, I think that the other woman theory is very possible because people with that kind of problem find people who have same kinds of "interests" and like to frequent places where people with those "interest" are. Someone who shares your drug use is more comfortable than wife bitching nag nagging about it, no matter that she's right. Who knows if gun really missing. That's ida's story. And Lisa, the only thing that puzzles me with this theory, is , by going public with her victim bs she opened herself and their business up to scrutiny and it could all go public maybe a co worker in Brooklyn knows if he struck up a relationship with someone in that area and isn't telling And again, that's if my original theory that she had him disposed of is incorrect. Who knows!!
Correction, gun is missing posted on FB page by his family and cleared by LE.

Here are the traits:

Robís brief recent history and personality.
1.Rob was under a Dr.ís care for a pain pill addictio
n that was over 16 years long.
2.Rob had an extreme fear of needles. He would never go near one.
3.Rob had an extreme fear of flying over the past decade.
4.On the weekend before he went missing he was at a bar with his family
and his mother to watch his son perform. His mother said he was
complaining of a headache from the loud music. His mother felt he
looked possible depressed or withdrawn. But definitely not his normal demeanor.
5.Rob loves his kids very much and was very involved
with their activities.
6.Rob is an electrician by trade, but is good with his hands and any kind of
construction work. Also knows his way around a car engine.
7.Rob likes the beach and the water.
8.Very vain about his hair, usually will not wear a hat.
9.He is not the type you ever find behind a desk, not much for computers,tablets, Facebook or any type of social media.
10. Likes to exaggerate stories and events.
11. Loved fast cars and driving them. Couldnít say he liked to follow the rules
of the road.
12. Rob loved to be the life of the party and fast to serve everyone a drink.
13. Rob was also known to have a dark side, or could be vindictive.
14. Rob was not a sports fan unless it involved his kids.
15. Cleanliness was next to Godliness as Rob has been known to shower
several times a day.
Lisaa

Elmont, NY

#1498 Jul 25, 2014
Sam bee wrote:
Dan , having once been with someone with an addiction, I think that the other woman theory is very possible because people with that kind of problem find people who have same kinds of "interests" and like to frequent places where people with those "interest" are. Someone who shares your drug use is more comfortable than wife bitching nag nagging about it, no matter that she's right. Who knows if gun really missing. That's ida's story. And Lisa, the only thing that puzzles me with this theory, is , by going public with her victim bs she opened herself and their business up to scrutiny and it could all go public maybe a co worker in Brooklyn knows if he struck up a relationship with someone in that area and isn't telling And again, that's if my original theory that she had him disposed of is incorrect. Who knows!!
Very true but maybe it's possible it went to far? I mean they shut down the whole page!! I just came across on a friends page the whole Bryce lapisia story and his family allows comments and responds back ( even to tough ?'s, they just want their boy home)... The page is amazing they seem to have people who have seen him and are constantly on top of it!
The kiss Ida mayer ass page can really learn a lot from then!
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1499 Jul 25, 2014
What does that mean gun missing cleared by law enforcement??? To me it means Ida told them there was a gun and now its missing unless someone saw rob take the gun when he left that is still just her story. And though I am sure he loved his kids, addictio is a very strong pull. The streets are full of homeless or near homeless addicts and alcoholics who also loved their kids. I still think maybe she caught him in an affair and they had it out and he probably refused to go to Italy if you had to fly , long trip , and that she had him disposed of. Btw. I for one think that story of the trip to Italy is a crock of bs from Ida who had the perfect marriage with a vindictive, exaggerating, drug abuser. Sou ds like a Mach made in heaven him and a thief and liar. Lovely

Since: May 14

Middle Island, NY

#1500 Jul 25, 2014
Rob's shotgun was missing, and that fact was cleared by LE. LE did not state that Rob took the gun with him or that Ida has it or anything like that. The only facts known and that LE cleared was,

"It was discovered on Monday the 17th that 1 of his Guns was missing, it was an 18Ē long palm handled (pistol grip) 12 gauge shot gun."

It would be rather coincidental that his gun was noted to be missing just after Rob's disappearance, although there is always a chance the two are not even related. More than likely; however, the two are related. But, that is still unknown. Perhaps probable, but still unknown.

LE is not going by what Ida stated about the gun. The gun was missing. That is a fact. Who took it, has it, and when it went missing is still unclear.
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1501 Jul 25, 2014
What do you mean law enforcement isn't going by what Ida said?? Did they go I to her home and say hey I think a gun is missing? How would they even know there was such a gun or that it wasn't there???

Since: May 14

Middle Island, NY

#1502 Jul 26, 2014
If a person states something, for example, a gun was missing, LE will investigate further before they consider it fact. They will determine on their own if there ever was a gun, what type was it? Who's was it? And, was it found and accounted for? Members of LE are trained well when it comes to fact versus what they are told versus opinion versus speculation and theory. Every statement made on the facts sheet was approved by LE as fact.
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1503 Jul 26, 2014
Jeanne , all due respect, I think that's a crock. Yess she can say there was a gun and even show receipt etc or foot of him with it. But law enforcement isn't that clever to make fact out of conjecture. All this bs of things being "cleared " is a crock in my opinion. What? After she lied about her whereabouts they investigated , found out the truth and the. "cleared" it?

Since: Jul 14

Location hidden

#1504 Jul 26, 2014
Lisaa wrote:
<quoted text>
Very true but maybe it's possible it went to far? I mean they shut down the whole page!! I just came across on a friends page the whole Bryce lapisia story and his family allows comments and responds back ( even to tough ?'s, they just want their boy home)... The page is amazing they seem to have people who have seen him and are constantly on top of it!
The kiss Ida mayer ass page can really learn a lot from then!
Which pages are you talking about?
Could you please share the link?
I am so nosy
LOL
Lisaa

Elmont, NY

#1505 Jul 26, 2014
xheraldina wrote:
<quoted text>
Which pages are you talking about?
Could you please share the link?
I am so nosy
LOL
Ooh I'm sorry I didn't mean a paper article I meant I saw it on fb! Bryce lapisia is his name and they have a ton of articles on the search page for him ...
Astoria

Astoria, NY

#1507 Jul 26, 2014
Carolyn wrote:
follow the money!!!!! How much could Robert have had on him when he left?? Where ever he is he is able to support himself. I think Ida knew he was leaving--they had talked about it--and she could not convince him to stay. Then she done lost her damn mind!!!!!!
Im curious, u say "they talked about it"... are u saying you know this for a fact? or just hypothetically speaking?
Astoria

Astoria, NY

#1508 Jul 26, 2014
xheraldina wrote:
LE could not ask media to lay low, especially not investigative journalists.
Ida has lead us (and the wider public) to believe that Rob has left her. She is smart and she knows how to manipulate people. Just look at the bunch of mignons over here and on her "Pray for Ida" FB groups. She has managed to close those groups as well as some other forums such as WS.
But Rob deserves justice.
Is anyone (from his family and friends) aware that he threatened to divorce Ida and take kids?
really? she has been able to manipulate people like the ones on WS and on FB? wow... she should also run for office because apparently she has a cauldron in her basement where she mixes all her potions... well that was only after she got her degree from Hogwarts that is...
Lisaa

Elmont, NY

#1509 Jul 26, 2014
Astoria wrote:
<quoted text>
really? she has been able to manipulate people like the ones on WS and on FB? wow... she should also run for office because apparently she has a cauldron in her basement where she mixes all her potions... well that was only after she got her degree from Hogwarts that is...
Manipulate ... Lie to people whatever you choose to call it!
Why no mention of drugs or gun being missing on her fb page , why no link w Mary Murphy interview? Yes 2 examples to show manipulation ! There are Many more
Astoria

Astoria, NY

#1510 Jul 26, 2014
SassiLee wrote:
I think the fact that she doesn't work, lives well and it a convicted felon means quite a bit...
I still find it so hard to believe there are still people in left in the world like you, SassiLee... I mean, you clearly know what the internet is and you seem to be learning where all the letters are located on your keyboard, but your spelling needs some work...

She is probably being helped by her family who love her and her children... they don't want her to be on the streets during this traumatic time so im sure its not a problem as i would do the same for my daughter if this ever happened to her and i could afford it... but i guess if you wanna believe she "whacked" her husband and is now using the millions she had hidden in the basement, yea that does make it sound more interesting... and it also makes u and everyone else who believes that look more insane!

and by the way, she is not a convicted felon... you probably don't even know what the word felon means SassiLee
Astoria

Astoria, NY

#1511 Jul 26, 2014
Lisaa wrote:
<quoted text>
Manipulate ... Lie to people whatever you choose to call it!
Why no mention of drugs or gun being missing on her fb page , why no link w Mary Murphy interview? Yes 2 examples to show manipulation ! There are Many more
Ask yourself this Lisaa, or can i just call u Lisa?

If this happened to you and you had no idea what or where or who happened to your husband, would u simply go about telling everyone your family's innermost problems? Now i want you to think about that for more than a couple seconds here ok... really think about it... then after your done, add the fact that your own history was smeared due to something that occurred years ago and people would only assume your some conniving bitch looking to take over the world that was raised as a mob princess...

would u really just go out there and start your interview with the news saying all of the things you wanted her to say from the start?

I didn't think so...
Astoria

Astoria, NY

#1512 Jul 26, 2014
Tom wrote:
Kids swimming in a pool. while parents were at the tiki bar.. Hmmm. Not sure what you call that if its not a party. i was not there... But I had several people send me pictures of the event.
Just curious, did u have all those "people" send you those photos because you were interested in the parents at the tiki bar.. or the kids swimming in the pool? clearly you need help if you had multiple people send u pictures of what went on in the privacy of her own home...

but i mean you must be someone special i guess, because im sure that's what your mommy called you growing up...
Astoria

Astoria, NY

#1513 Jul 26, 2014
Carolyn wrote:
Tom-----I am so sorry that you and your family were excluded and basically shunned from the weekend events.
It does tho speak volumes. Ida is petrified that someone in your family will say something.
I am holding good thoughts for Rob, you and your family.
Consider contacting Local 3 to see if someone in the traffic division can do something about posting an alert on the overhead signs on the LIE and Parkways. You are Rob's family too, no reason why you and your mom and sister should be discounted.
Carolyn-----I am so sorry i didn't see this post from you sooner and that you were excluded from all of the fun stuff that people didn't want you to participate in back in high school and college!
But have no fear, i am holding somewhat ok thoughts for u and your apparent lack of knowledge regarding Rob, Ida, and the entire family surrounding this tragedy...

You seem to need someone to reach out to during these tough times and it looks like you've found it... here with complete strangers, just like it was back in your youth because you probably had no friends to shoulder you through those tough times...

i completely understand your pain when you see people surrounding Ida and offering her some help during this whole thing because i know your really just wishing it was you getting all of the attention, and not her...

Get yourself some help along with Tom
SassiLee

Commack, NY

#1514 Jul 27, 2014
Astoria wrote:
<quoted text>
I still find it so hard to believe there are still people in left in the world like you, SassiLee... I mean, you clearly know what the internet is and you seem to be learning where all the letters are located on your keyboard, but your spelling needs some work...
She is probably being helped by her family who love her and her children... they don't want her to be on the streets during this traumatic time so im sure its not a problem as i would do the same for my daughter if this ever happened to her and i could afford it... but i guess if you wanna believe she "whacked" her husband and is now using the millions she had hidden in the basement, yea that does make it sound more interesting... and it also makes u and everyone else who believes that look more insane!
and by the way, she is not a convicted felon... you probably don't even know what the word felon means SassiLee
Oh, I'm sorry. Because she WAS indicted and SHE PLEADED GUILTY to a class E felony according to court docs. She was disbarred UPON HER CONVICTION OF A FELONY. I know PLENTY about the law.

Hope you had a fun Saturday night :)

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