Since: May 14

Middle Island, NY

#1474 Jul 22, 2014
It is possible. Or, Rob could have been in fear of something and took it with him for protection. Just the fact that it was gone is enough to send up a red flag. I doubt anyone knows for sure that Rob's gun went missing the very same day as he did. But, Rob disappeared and his gun was noted as missing very shortly after that. Chances are there is a relationship, whatever it may be.
Carolyn

Riverhead, NY

#1475 Jul 22, 2014
xheraldina-----post 1455----#8 jumps out at me-----who ordered the mother's TV and when was it delivered----who saw them at the chinese buffet-receipt may be time stamped--this is a whole lotta alibi!!!!!!
Carolyn

Riverhead, NY

#1476 Jul 22, 2014
dumb question about the gun------does he have bullets? And how many may he have taken and he would have a gun permit as well--did he take it??????

Charlotte------I wondered that as well---On WS it was posted that Ida arrived perhaps just ten minutes after Rob left--she pulled into the driveway in her white SUV--

Where are all the nosy neighbors???? Haven't they anything to say or report????? Every neighbor has the gossipy neighbor/s---their neighborhood can't be any different.

Since: Jul 14

Linz, Austria

#1477 Jul 22, 2014
hehhehe Cartolyn, her car was recorded by neighbors camera!
Was it her?
Was she sleeping?
Who knows...
All we know that's the last place he has been at...
Poor Rob...
Dan

Huntington Station, NY

#1478 Jul 22, 2014
Carolyn wrote:
xheraldina-----post 1455----#8 jumps out at me-----who ordered the mother's TV and when was it delivered----who saw them at the chinese buffet-receipt may be time stamped--this is a whole lotta alibi!!!!!!
It really has no importance who saw them.
This timeline/fact sheet was approved by LE per the FB page dedicated to finding Robert Mayer.
SassiLee

Commack, NY

#1479 Jul 22, 2014
Carolyn wrote:
dumb question about the gun------does he have bullets? And how many may he have taken and he would have a gun permit as well--did he take it??????
No permit needed for a shotgun or rifle. Only handguns in NY.
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1480 Jul 22, 2014
Maybe gun went with him and whoever took him frm house. It doesn't seem likely used on him at house or garage too hard to hide any blood even after cleanup. But I also think law enforcement may know things and suspect someone and are biding their time. On those true crime shows sometimes takes few years to catch the suspect
Marca

New York, NY

#1481 Jul 22, 2014
Hi! I'm new to the thread but have always followed the "case"- 2 of my fiends were actually involved in one of the very first searches. I always had my suspicions about Ida since her first news12 interview, with her, what I thought, crocodile tears. After doing my own research and finding out about her own past, and her being disbarred, my suspicions of her only grew! I just wanted to know if there was an admin/moderator that I could email and run something by or message privately? Being a new poster, and not having been able to go thru all 1400+ post yet, I wouldn't want to post anything that's already been addressed and take up space.
Thanks!
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1482 Jul 22, 2014
And Dan the timeline was approved by law enforcement you say. Was that before or after she changed her whereabouts story??? Was she sleeping? Or at her moms after Chinese Buffett. It seems to me that lie alone would be a red flag to law enforcement. Why would she lie right off the bat?? That's just weird. And right about her alibis but how convenient to not be there if you have someone waiting to grab him in the garage or in the house. I think she's going to get caught eventually
Dan

Huntington Station, NY

#1483 Jul 22, 2014
@Marca, no admins. This is a free country. Open forum. Say what you wish.

@Sam Bee - I believe that timeline approved by LE was, in fact, posted to show the inconsistancies. We all agree...there are plenty.
Dan

Huntington Station, NY

#1484 Jul 22, 2014
@Marca , no admins here. Free country. Open forum. Say as you wish.

@Sam Bee , IMO that timeline approved by LE was, specifically, posted to show the inconsistancies. God knows...there are plenty.
mjak

Old Bridge, NJ

#1485 Jul 22, 2014
Sambee, stated that he dosen't care if Robert Mayer is safe or not. I often ask myself why I care. The truth is I often feel nosy, and gossipy in my participation in this case. However, Ida Mayer bought her husbands situation to us, to the public specifically the online world. She asked for our help, our time, our thoughts and our prayers. None of us signed on with a stipulation of no scrutiny shall ever befall Ida Mayer and participants will remain loyal irregardless of circumstantial change. So while I always try to mind my manners I do feel our continued efforts are reasonable and more importantly, there are two beautiful children missing a father and, a mother and siblings missing a son and brother. For them I keep looking and wondering. I pray for Robert that he is safe,

Since: Jul 14

Linz, Austria

#1486 Jul 22, 2014
mjak wrote:
Sambee, stated that he dosen't care if Robert Mayer is safe or not. I often ask myself why I care. The truth is I often feel nosy, and gossipy in my participation in this case. However, Ida Mayer bought her husbands situation to us, to the public specifically the online world. She asked for our help, our time, our thoughts and our prayers. None of us signed on with a stipulation of no scrutiny shall ever befall Ida Mayer and participants will remain loyal irregardless of circumstantial change. So while I always try to mind my manners I do feel our continued efforts are reasonable and more importantly, there are two beautiful children missing a father and, a mother and siblings missing a son and brother. For them I keep looking and wondering. I pray for Robert that he is safe,
NAMASTE!
mjak

Old Bridge, NJ

#1487 Jul 22, 2014
xheraldina wrote:
<quoted text>
NAMASTE!
Shalom!
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1488 Jul 22, 2014
Dan, oh! I think u a right. Mjac. Not that it really matters Sam bee is a woman , and a mom. I said I don't care one fig about Robert Mayer if he indeed walked out on his family for whatever his own reasons were. Many posters here seem to believe thts the case. If that's true it's their marital problem not ours. She seems like a full of bs liar who asked for publics help. If he left her let her hire a private detective and go to family court. If my point of view is correct , that she had him gotten rid of then I hope justice prevails and she is arrested I said before. What kind of home life could those kids have had behind closed doors. They sound like real bargains both of them. And seriously, didn't she think she would be scrutinized after she went public, and with.a crick of lies to boot?
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1489 Jul 22, 2014
That's crock of lies. Sorry typo
Lisa

Elmont, NY

#1490 Jul 23, 2014
Not sure if this was asked or addressed ever but was Rob in any kind of legal trouble? Could that be why they still have the car ( IF they still have it)?
Is it possible he was maybe facing jail time or something ( idk maybe forging prescriptions or something like that ). Maybe that's why he agreed to go to itAly?
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1491 Jul 24, 2014
If he actually agreed to go to Italy. I find that story of hers especially troubling. What sane mother thinks taking an international trip with her children is a good plan when husband is a drug user who may carry some , or worse, try to obtain drugs in foreign country and risk being busted. She would have to be nuts to do that ! But maybe she is nuts maybe she eliminated him and now can do as she pleases
Charlotte

Mount Vernon, NY

#1492 Jul 24, 2014
A bucket of copper was found in the garage, yet he didn't take that to Arrow? I wonder where this scrap is from. Could he be in some sort of trouble for that?

It seems his wallet,$300 and phone were left on purpose. We don't know how long that $ was there- could have been a "stash". I find it strange his phone was not found until the following week. His gun is also missing.

My first impression was that he left (for whatever reason) and that Ida was lying.

The FB page says he's been under a Doctors care, so he may have a legit pain prescription. They fought the night before, 4 phone calls lasting 43(?) minutes--maybe still arguing..........

Maybe he's just pissed off and fed up. One of his character traits was that he can be vindictive.
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1493 Jul 24, 2014
Charlotte , I didn't see where his character traits were listed , but I will say it again. If they had a crappy marriage and he chose to be vindictive and split from his wife and kids then he is a piece of dirt and she , whatever she is , should take some of that money she seems to have and hire a private detective to locate him and take him to family court. I always thought she had him done away with. But many on here seem to believe he up and left. If that turns out to be true, I bet he isn't alone. Nothing like an "understanding" other woman to make a dirt bag leave his kids. Maybe a pregnant other woman Who wouldn't be happy about a trip to italy

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