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Tats

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#1414
Thursday Jul 17
 
xheraldina wrote:
LE could not ask media to lay low, especially not investigative journalists.
Ida has lead us (and the wider public) to believe that Rob has left her. She is smart and she knows how to manipulate people. Just look at the bunch of mignons over here and on her "Pray for Ida" FB groups. She has managed to close those groups as well as some other forums such as WS.
But Rob deserves justice.
Is anyone (from his family and friends) aware that he threatened to divorce Ida and take kids?
Can you clarify how you know that Rob threatened to divorce Ida and take the children? I have followed this case from day one, and this is news to me. Thank you.

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I am convinced that she is responsible for his disappearance, and yes, i do not believe he is alive. I can not guess what happened in that garage but I do not think that if he was killed there, his body was removed with his car. He has most probably left the house alive threatened by a gun by someone and killed elsewhere. And yes I do not think he was killed by a mob. Mobs do not hide bodies, in contrary.
Anyway, even if she is not the one to order it, I am sure she knows exactly what happened.
Yes, there are times I incline my self to believe that he is alive, but chances are slim.
So, Ida couldn't convince me that he has left her, and it is true, she never said so, but by the way she said what she said, and avoided to say what she never said, she lead many people to believe that he left, but she is so proud to accept the truth.
If you read here in this forum, you will see that majority believes that Rob is alive.
I would most honestly be very pleased if that is true.

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#1416
Thursday Jul 17
 
Tats wrote:
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Can you clarify how you know that Rob threatened to divorce Ida and take the children? I have followed this case from day one, and this is news to me. Thank you.
Well, in cases like this, where there is little or no information, people start speculating.
I have read that in another forum and asked here if anyone is aware of it.

It could be possible, given the other infos we had a bout the fight one night before the disappearance and Ida's way of denying that.
SusieSam Afungus

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lisa watson wrote:
Maybe they did borrow a big chunk of change from the Mob and Rob really had to run to save his family from being killed and him especially Rob so that is why he left all of his identity behind, car and all and maybe that is the little piece of the puzzle that is missing, she must know something that is why she felt he was being harmed, maybe the person who met him outside the scrap yard where there were no cameras is the one that helped him get away, but I think someone really close to the family helped him but she did not know how long he had to go away and he took some of the money to live on and she has the rest, maybe the neighbor across the street who had the so called camera that only saw the top of his car but no human being getting out and also saw Ida's car pulling up on the right side which still makes no sense. So where is Rob now, otherwise Ida would be out there with all the physics and private detectives now, she just sits back and prays because she knows. JUST MY OPINION and theory number 5 for me, this is why Carolyn has very good points about Rob, he maybe just on Long Island and keeping it low, only because we both experienced that we saw him or maybe had seen him, same kind of car etc. Remember when Ida mentioned she felt like she was in a Soprano movie???
Actually Rob is leading a double life. His real name is Jason Bourne. He's on a mission right now. SMH You people and your asinine, baseless 'theories'.
Lisa

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Thursday Jul 17
 

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SusieSam Afungus wrote:
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Actually Rob is leading a double life. His real name is Jason Bourne. He's on a mission right now. SMH You people and your asinine, baseless 'theories'.
As opposed to Ida's theories? C'mon !!
Sam bee

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Thursday Jul 17
 

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Xheraldina I also believe he is deceased and that the wife had something to do with it but I don't agree that she tried to make people believe he left her. Her stories say he would never leave think her public claims were a big cover up for whatever she did or had done to him. Even if he's a big jerk that left , after seeing all the accusations etc wouldn't u think he would anonymously post that he is alive at least. I think she is playing a part. Releasing balloons at a BBQ. C'mon. And that's done if someone died. Who would do that if you thought your husband left you a year ago. I think she is a merry widow. Hiding behind a bunch of b s
Lisa

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#1420
Thursday Jul 17
 
Have there been any updates?@ tom any new info with fb page or new fliers?
Not to sound stupid or anything , but has anybody anywhere called in any tips?
Lisa

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Thursday Jul 17
 

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Sam bee wrote:
Xheraldina I also believe he is deceased and that the wife had something to do with it but I don't agree that she tried to make people believe he left her. Her stories say he would never leave think her public claims were a big cover up for whatever she did or had done to him. Even if he's a big jerk that left , after seeing all the accusations etc wouldn't u think he would anonymously post that he is alive at least. I think she is playing a part. Releasing balloons at a BBQ. C'mon. And that's done if someone died. Who would do that if you thought your husband left you a year ago. I think she is a merry widow. Hiding behind a bunch of b s
Hey Sam bee , to be honest I never thought that he was harmed or god forbid deceased. It just always seemed so "clean" . I always was kind of leaning toward he snapped and took off ( which is not uncommon with addicts), but I wonder if she had reason to believe he was deceased or " taken" , shouldn't she be searching actively? Wouldn't you or any other person who thought god forbid their husbands body was out there ? I mean all of that just stopped! Very bizarre !
Sam bee

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Lisa that's exactly my point. If you truly believed he was taken and harmed wouldn't you plead with law enforcement to dig deeper and leave no stone unturned in the search? The kinds of things she has. Done to "search" seem like a lot of bs to me. Like a cover " look at me I'm searching" when in my opinion she already knows what happened. And if she thought he left her and their kids and.stayed gone all this time, she does not sou d like a person who would ever admit that, having such a perfect marriage and all. And if someone went public and said their husband left them, why would anyone except family help look for him anyway he would just be another loser who walked out. I definitely think he is dead and that she had it done. I feel sorry for those kids.
Sam bee

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Also Lisa. I think that it seems so clean because likeXheraldina said, I think someone was waiting for him and got him to go in the car with them and was taken into another vehicle and riven far , far away and disposed of just leaving the car behind. Very professionally done
Lisa

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#1424
Thursday Jul 17
 
Sam bee wrote:
Also Lisa. I think that it seems so clean because likeXheraldina said, I think someone was waiting for him and got him to go in the car with them and was taken into another vehicle and riven far , far away and disposed of just leaving the car behind. Very professionally done
HMmm... Could be! Anything is possible. Just throws me off that this was all in broad daylight on a Friday in June, feel like people would be everywhere, I guess it could of been someone he knew that he just went with without a struggle.
Sam bee

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Exactly that's what I think someone he knew and he just went. And I am in Levittown and most week days when I go out to car in driveway there is not a soul around everyone's at work or school or in the house. Sometimes I think wow you could get mugged or something right in broad daylight and no one would see a thing
mjak

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I found this page on facebook that family members of Rob have put up. I was glad to see them reaching out to find Rob.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/3197556248480...
Sam bee

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Yes that's nice that his family is looking for him and if he was harmed I hope they find out by whom and get closure. But if he really just took off and ditched his family then in my opinion he's just another lowlife. Since u can always divorce your wife but who does that to their kids and to his own mom. Again, its my guess that he is dead and that she is responsible one way or another.
Lisa

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Wow this page is extremely detailed and makes Ida look even worse! Hope this helps
Charlotte

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#1429
Saturday Jul 19
 
xheraldina wrote:
Or are those part of the scam?
http://queens.blockshopper.com/search...
If yes, does that mean she involved her parents as well?
Also, IIRC, there were properties in Florida. Bradenton area I think?
Who knows where else she owns/owned property.

Could he be in Florida?
Charlotte

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#1430
Saturday Jul 19
 
mjak wrote:
I found this page on facebook that family members of Rob have put up. I was glad to see them reaching out to find Rob.
https://www.facebook.com/groups/3197556248480...
Thanks Tom, Christine and friends of Rob.
Interesting info in the files.
I sure hope it helps find Rob.

I am torn between leaving voluntarily and foul play.
Carolyn

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#1431
Saturday Jul 19
 
Charlotte---very possible Rob has moving around for the last year.
But that takes money, possibly alot of pre-planning and ID depending on where you are going and how you get there. If he is driving, thats renting a car which can be expensive and requires ID to rent one. Hotels and motels all require ID.

Now I am really thinking harder on another scenario than I have in mind.

Can anyone give me a quick summary on the FB info?? I am not on FB.
Charlotte

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Carolyn wrote:
Charlotte---very possible Rob has moving around for the last year.
But that takes money, possibly alot of pre-planning and ID depending on where you are going and how you get there. If he is driving, thats renting a car which can be expensive and requires ID to rent one. Hotels and motels all require ID.
Now I am really thinking harder on another scenario than I have in mind.
Can anyone give me a quick summary on the FB info?? I am not on FB.
He may have money for one, he may also own property there.
He is a skilled tradesman, so may be easy for him to find work
Tom "hinted" he may have gone south.

FB site is an open group (I have not joined yet).
Their goal and intention is to spread Rob's flyer in hope of more exposure.
They will not tolerate any disruption.(GOOD)

A list of Rob's traits have been posted. Some are interesting.
Also a list a facts. One fact that stands out to me is:

Ida claims on the initial police report that she was home sleeping
during the time Rob's car is seen on neighbors video. Car arrived 2:40, seen leaving 2:50, then Ida's car arrives 3:05. This is according to neighbors video.

The next day her story changes and she says she was at her Mom's at that time.

I will leave others to post more.
Charlotte

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#1433
Saturday Jul 19
 
Carolyn, one more thing that makes me wonder.

The phone wasn't found until the video emerged about a week later.
The phone had been turned off at 2:46 (The time Rob may have been in garage) and at some point the phone history was erased.

The evening he left, copper wire was also found in garage.
What I find strange is that there wasn't a thorough search of garage immediately. His wallet,$300 were found right away-but NOT the phone.

Makes me wonder??

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