What happened to RObert MAyer?
Sam

Valley Stream, NY

#123 Feb 13, 2014
Not only the not sharing of the fb page , where are his union brothers? Hope he is safe somewhere and more than that hope he contacts his kids, if he hasn't already! Let's not forget scpd do not suspect foul play!!! That says something
Joe

Stony Brook, NY

#124 Feb 13, 2014
Joan

Valley Stream, NY

#125 Feb 14, 2014
This is not genuine, I'm sorry! It's like a script she says the same thing over and over again! No information to help find him at all. People are frustrated and losing interest because of it. She did not beg and plead to be on the news, somebody from the "private" fb page got her on and connected her to reporter ! Something is not right here! And all these people on here who seem to "know" the Mayers, maybe you should use your real names! Might show that she has some support other then people who never met her on fb! And one last thing, where are her family members who were former secret service??? Too busy to help her I suppose!
Lee Jay

Woodbury, NY

#126 Feb 14, 2014
The "script" is because there is nothing new to say - is she supposed to make something up?
Joan

United States

#127 Feb 14, 2014
Really married 20 years , can't think of anything else to say about her husband or his interests or their life together except the same lines over and over again! It's odd! Watch any other desperate family of missing person , perhaps you will see the difference
Lee Jay

Woodbury, NY

#128 Feb 14, 2014
Nothing she says will ever be good enough.

Instead of analyzing his wife, how about concentrating on Robert? What about the picture from Arrow? Nobody finds that picture troubling?
Joan

Valley Stream, NY

#129 Feb 14, 2014
Oh no that picture is very unsettling! Which is why it should be posted all over! But instead all is quiet and fb pages are "private" . If you want the publics help, ignore the haters and gossips and circulate the very little that she knows about her husband and the situation. I agree that Ida's past is exactly that, her past. It should be left there, that being said, the whole "search " for him should be much much more than it is! Open the fb page and get it seen by as many eyes as possible!
Observer

Los Angeles, CA

#130 Feb 14, 2014
Joan wrote:
This is not genuine, I'm sorry! It's like a script she says the same thing over and over again! No information to help find him at all. People are frustrated and losing interest because of it. She did not beg and plead to be on the news, somebody from the "private" fb page got her on and connected her to reporter ! Something is not right here! And all these people on here who seem to "know" the Mayers, maybe you should use your real names! Might show that she has some support other then people who never met her on fb! And one last thing, where are her family members who were former secret service??? Too busy to help her I suppose!
Well then lose interrest - bye!! The only interrest a lot of people have shown is tearing this woman down, not finding Rob.
Joan

United States

#131 Feb 14, 2014
Tearing her down ? No, tearing her down would be asking what kind of a mother risks her children and family to gain money by screwing others out of there's! That would be tearing her down .... Stating that she is not doing ALL that she could to find her husband is FACT! Maybe that will help to clarify "observer"
Observer

Marina Del Rey, CA

#132 Feb 14, 2014
Joan wrote:
Tearing her down ? No, tearing her down would be asking what kind of a mother risks her children and family to gain money by screwing others out of there's! That would be tearing her down .... Stating that she is not doing ALL that she could to find her husband is FACT! Maybe that will help to clarify "observer"
How would have any idea that she is NOT doing everything she can? Because she is not doing what you think she should be doesn't make her wrong and you right. Do you have a degree in Finding Missing Husbands??
Observer

Marina Del Rey, CA

#133 Feb 14, 2014
Joan wrote:
This is not genuine, I'm sorry! It's like a script she says the same thing over and over again! No information to help find him at all. People are frustrated and losing interest because of it. She did not beg and plead to be on the news, somebody from the "private" fb page got her on and connected her to reporter ! Something is not right here! And all these people on here who seem to "know" the Mayers, maybe you should use your real names! Might show that she has some support other then people who never met her on fb! And one last thing, where are her family members who were former secret service??? Too busy to help her I suppose!
<<<<<<< <<<<<<This is tearing down, your first post. So yes, calling it as I see it. For so long people have criticized her because they thought she didn't say enough or didn't do enough interviews or stopped with the media because she quietly wanted them to go away. Now she has done ANOTHER interview with new information that should have been out months ago. This woman lost her husband, the father of her children yet there have been no short list of dogs nipping at her feet. If you don't want to help, then don't help. She doesn't need people like yourself.
Linda

Carmel, NY

#134 Feb 15, 2014
Sam wrote:
Not only the not sharing of the fb page , where are his union brothers? Hope he is safe somewhere and more than that hope he contacts his kids, if he hasn't already! Let's not forget scpd do not suspect foul play!!! That says something
They are quiet because they're not talking.
I'm convinced now he ran away, far away and his "brothers" are keeping his secret
Linda

Carmel, NY

#135 Feb 15, 2014
Joe wrote:
This is very telling. Yep.
Linda

Carmel, NY

#136 Feb 15, 2014
Observer wrote:
<quoted text> Well then lose interrest - bye!! The only interrest a lot of people have shown is tearing this woman down, not finding Rob.
He took off to get away from her.
Linda

Carmel, NY

#137 Feb 15, 2014
Joan wrote:
Tearing her down ? No, tearing her down would be asking what kind of a mother risks her children and family to gain money by screwing others out of there's! That would be tearing her down .... Stating that she is not doing ALL that she could to find her husband is FACT! Maybe that will help to clarify "observer"
We all know who "Observer" is from CA It's obvious. One of the sycophants.
Joan

Valley Stream, NY

#138 Feb 15, 2014
She wanted the media to go away!! Is that what you said, observer? Exactly my point! How do I know she is not doing all she can? Because I live in Long Island, not far from her and 90% of people have not heard of them! Because a few weeks ago not one but two other people from Long Island were found using social media because there faces were all over the place , not to mention 2 teenaged boys who ran away also! So NO she is not doing all she can do! She is protecting herself from her her secrets and her selfish past!! That is what she is doing, actions speak louder than her rehearsed words! Maybe when I see her circulating his face over the very "powerful" social media, I'll change my mind . But the we "heart" Ida page isn't doing much , sorry !
Joan

Valley Stream, NY

#139 Feb 15, 2014
And I suppose she is too busy organizing search parties and flyers to update the info on the missing person websites? And again she did "another" interview because somebody from the fb page went to her, not her contacting them!!! Do enlighten me, tell me what she does. Why anybody is doing to find this man, I would love to help!
Carolyn

Riverhead, NY

#140 Feb 15, 2014
Lisa---I agree completely--your post at # 122.
Ida is the Queen of Crocadile tears!!!! It seems to be small and controlled bits of information that has been passed out.

I think he left willingly--either for jail or rehab (I have never had the sense that he left for another lover). He left his phone b/c its a work phone and not his own. I would love to see the security tape from the neighbors camera and also the tape from the scrap place.
Lisa

Valley Stream, NY

#141 Feb 15, 2014
Right Carolyn ?!?! It's just odd! Every interview is the same, I just don't understand!
They live in a well to do town , where Is the rallying behind her? I don't think I have ever seen a missing person case where NOBODY but the wife speaks out!

These reporters talk to anyone who is willing to say anything. Not ONE person , not even from his job, has come forward to say oh yes I saw him and he was nervous or fine. NOBODY! It's odd!
Linda

Carmel, NY

#142 Feb 15, 2014
Carolyn wrote:
Lisa---I agree completely--your post at # 122.
Ida is the Queen of Crocadile tears!!!! It seems to be small and controlled bits of information that has been passed out.
I think he left willingly--either for jail or rehab (I have never had the sense that he left for another lover). He left his phone b/c its a work phone and not his own. I would love to see the security tape from the neighbors camera and also the tape from the scrap place.
here's the tape from scrapyard. Came out yesterday.

http://video.pix11.com/Surveillance-shows-las...

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